Emotional Virgo...

This is not good. Everyone always asks the Virgo to be emotional, they want to see us emotional because it's funny to make the Vulcan uncomfortable. What they don't understand is Virgo is always emotional, we have a constant feeling and desire to make accommadate those we care about, and anything service we do for you, is our way of saying that we care.
For us to be emotional, means to lose our emotional control and composure.


9/10 times I've been emotional, I've regretted it. It almost always has to do with being greatly hurt or afraid.
If I'm hurt and react to it, I become implacable and exacting, reiterating whatever dissapointment overwhelmed over and over again, and expressing to the person that I no longer trust them.

If I am afraid, as in an interpersonal situation, I have become violent to a person who has threatened me, and the Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde of the Virgo demeanor usually scares the crap out of everyone.

For the 1/10 times, when I've wanted greatly to keep someone or I was afraid to lose them. I have done some of the most caring, and romantic things for girls, such that I even suprise myself.

The rest of the time, there is just a quiet, constant, mute loyalty and affection that many don't reach and if they do rarely realize.

Unfortunately, the easiest way to make me emotional is in the negative way.
It's a sad burden of being a Virgo that I can't tame my emotions like a horse, to experience them in their fullness without being burned by them. Our emotions are like a wild stallion, and for this reason we keep him out in the field away from civilization where belongs. Instead we choose to walk, because that inner flame can hardly be tamed.

maybe it's about LEARNING how to positively express emotion instead of perpetually repressing them? you can't get better at something if you don't practice.

every sign is deficient in one area or another so where i understand your frustration, isn't one of the points of astrology to learn how to balance?

one of my bf's is a virgo and in her early 20s, her temper was EPIC! i swear to the crazy virgin gods that when she would get angry, we'd want to call the people on her because she clearly needed a jacket with back buckles. it wasn't so much the fact that she was angry, it's just that 1, she was normally very quiet and reserved and 2, what she would get angry about did not require such insane rage. in a way, i think her repressing her emotions is what caused the flood gate to open and that's most likely why her anger appeared to be "not normal."

she's older now and more mature. she still represses to a degree as this will always be natural to her but she has learned to control her psycho outbursts a lot better. she's definitely a "better" and happier person than she was years ago. maybe with time you'll learn how to properly let it all out too?

I have these feelings too. As I have gotten older, I have learned to control them. It doesn't make it any easier or make me feel better, but it makes the people around me feel better. When I'm not happy I constantly tell myself that, "this is just the way that I am". It feels like there is nobody else out there that feels and has as much emotion as I do. That is not true, coming here has helped. Makes me feel not so alone. 🙂

Posted by caligula
maybe it's about LEARNING how to positively express emotion instead of perpetually repressing them?

One of the most important things, IMO. And something I'm still trying to learn with the others. It's still pretty difficult though.

God help you Virgo's and your tempers. AMEN. I thought myself being an aries was bad, but dayum with us its expected, with you guys it really depends on your mood and tolerance on the day.