GENERAL SIGNS OF INTEREST FROM VIRGOS??

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Look for signs of self-consciousness. Someone who has nervous gestures, words their sentences in a structured way because they are apprehensive about how the will come across if they don't know you that well yet, shy lingering smiles, we smile a lot with our eyes, hanging on your words, general non threatening presence. Proximity is very important

If we know you pretty well..someone who seems to challenge arguments for the sake of it or teasing/insulting (that's if the Virgo in question has fire in their chart)

Chatterbox talking straight off the bat is pure friendliness with us.
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Look for signs of self-consciousness. Someone who has nervous gestures, words their sentences in a structured way because they are apprehensive about how the will come across if they don't know you that well yet, shy lingering smiles, we smile a lot with our eyes, hanging on your words, general non threatening presence. Proximity is very important

If we know you pretty well..someone who seems to challenge arguments for the sake of it or teasing/insulting (that's if the Virgo in question has fire in their chart)

Chatterbox talking straight off the bat is pure friendliness with us.


Thank you so much, these are great. One question...Do they become more chatty the more they get to know you though or are they always shy with someone they're into?? like months in? lol
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Posted by Damnata

Look for signs of self-consciousness. Someone who has nervous gestures, words their sentences in a structured way because they are apprehensive about how the will come across if they don't know you that well yet, shy lingering smiles, we smile a lot with our eyes, hanging on your words, general non threatening presence. Proximity is very important

If we know you pretty well..someone who seems to challenge arguments for the sake of it or teasing/insulting (that's if the Virgo in question has fire in their chart)

Chatterbox talking straight off the bat is pure friendliness with us.


Thank you so much, these are great. One question...Do they become more chatty the more they get to know you though or are they always shy with someone they're into?? like months in? lol
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With me it was very straight forward banter but I'm a Virgo too.

With the way I act and the Virgos I know..it all depends on the other person. We may be oblivious but we are not colorblind so if you give enough green signals we will do something about it. Physical touch works great cuz it shortcircuits us out of living in our heads and overthinking.
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Look for signs of self-consciousness. Someone who has nervous gestures, words their sentences in a structured way because they are apprehensive about how the will come across if they don't know you that well yet, shy lingering smiles, we smile a lot with our eyes, hanging on your words, general non threatening presence. Proximity is very important

If we know you pretty well..someone who seems to challenge arguments for the sake of it or teasing/insulting (that's if the Virgo in question has fire in their chart)

Chatterbox talking straight off the bat is pure friendliness with us.


Thank you so much, these are great. One question...Do they become more chatty the more they get to know you though or are they always shy with someone they're into?? like months in? lol


With me it was very straight forward banter but I'm a Virgo too.

With the way I act and the Virgos I know..it all depends on the other person. We may be oblivious but we are not colorblind so if you give enough green signals we will do something about it. Physical touch works great cuz it shortcircuits us out of living in our heads and overthinking.
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Aww thats sweet. What if say the person in question is being friendly but not really flirty etc, do you pull back even if interested? Do you all need like a cleaaar signal before you show any interest? lol
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Look for signs of self-consciousness. Someone who has nervous gestures, words their sentences in a structured way because they are apprehensive about how the will come across if they don't know you that well yet, shy lingering smiles, we smile a lot with our eyes, hanging on your words, general non threatening presence. Proximity is very important

If we know you pretty well..someone who seems to challenge arguments for the sake of it or teasing/insulting (that's if the Virgo in question has fire in their chart)

Chatterbox talking straight off the bat is pure friendliness with us.


Thank you so much, these are great. One question...Do they become more chatty the more they get to know you though or are they always shy with someone they're into?? like months in? lol


With me it was very straight forward banter but I'm a Virgo too.

With the way I act and the Virgos I know..it all depends on the other person. We may be oblivious but we are not colorblind so if you give enough green signals we will do something about it. Physical touch works great cuz it shortcircuits us out of living in our heads and overthinking.


Aww thats sweet. What if say the person in question is being friendly but not really flirty etc, do you pull back even if interested? Do you all need like a cleaaar signal before you show any interest? lol
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Do you all need like a cleaaar signal before you show any interest? lol

Be stupid obvious.

Painfully obvious.... we'll still doubt it too.

Be patient. It will take months for a Virgo male to make a move. But they *will* make a move *if* they like you.

If they don't like you, you'll know.

We'll be very cold towards you and blatantly ignore you.

Do not confuse that with liking you and being shy.

Being shy implies being afraid to do or say anything.

Being cold means refusing to interact.

It's different. Know the subtle difference.

That's kinda the key too. Know how to pick up on subtleties. You'll live or die by your ability to read what's not said.

Take that with a grain of salt though. I have a lot of non-combative Libra screwing with my chart. I don't always see eye-to-eye with other Virgos about a lot of things.