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I'm not entirely sure this is the correct spot for this post, but the girl that it is about is a Virgo. Anyway, I've known her for quite some time, she was a freshman in high school, I was a senior. We both recently confessed feelings of more than friends. It's not the question of whether she is interested, but more of a comment that my good friend who I confide in, had said describing her. She referred to her as a Hellcat. I'm fine with all the people calling me a dumbass for not knowing what that means, but I will say I have heard it before, but not in quite a while. Every definition I found says a hellcat is a spiteful mean woman. but it was used compliment, i think?
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CappGuy6330-Ah that Virgo-Cap thing,it's hard to shake-dynamite in a bottle.I think you might have a classic case of asking a single? female friend about another female-sometimes THAT may not be the best idea.Cap men that I know have more females around them than male friends.(It makes a potental partner proceed with caution,especially a Virgo).Hint,hint.

However,she is right.We can be "hellcats",but you need to find out what your Virgo interest was so pissed off about.Might have been something happening that was unjust,unfair or wrong.I know Caps like to have all the bases covered before going into a situation,but this is something you're going to have to do yourself,first hand.If you want her,go get her.Ask her to help you with a project,hang out,get to know her.Then you start asking harder questions.
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CappGuy6330-Ah that Virgo-Cap thing,it's hard to shake-dynamite in a bottle.I think you might have a classic case of asking a single? female friend about another female-sometimes THAT may not be the best idea.Cap men that I know have more females around them than male friends.(It makes a potental partner proceed with caution,especially a Virgo).Hint,hint.

However,she is right.We can be "hellcats",but you need to find out what your Virgo interest was so pissed off about.Might have been something happening that was unjust,unfair or wrong.I know Caps like to have all the bases covered before going into a situation,but this is something you're going to have to do yourself,first hand.If you want her,go get her.Ask her to help you with a project,hang out,get to know her.Then you start asking harder questions.



Yes, i agree with you on the female friends in terms of quantity. I've always enjoyed chilling with girls more than guys. i don't really understand them too well, even at 30 years old. That's probably a dynamic as to why I prefer them. I see where you're going with that though, my best friend, a female Pisces, is like my rock and my support system. My older sister recently passed away at the start of last December, and she's been the sole positive driving force in my life. My Virgo has said on occasion that she is jealous of the type of relationship that I have with the Pisces. We openly tell each other that we love one another, n get into that mushy stuff. It's strictly platonic though, mainly because my Pisces friend is a lesbian. I believe it was more of the way that we talk to each other, but I'm not dating the Virgo yet, I wouldn't feel right telling her I love her if I don't feel it. If we end up getting into a relationship, well that's a completely different story.

To answer the second part, we've been talking quite a lot almost constantly. text, phone, Facebook, face to face. we've known each other for so long, that it's easy to be open with her. She basically knows everything I feel about her, and she tells me how she feels, her feelings are strong, she's just acting very cautious about it. Which I understand completely. I later got an answer out of the Pisces, and she said a hellcat is a girl who's been hurt to the point that she acts hard on the outside but is all sweet and loving on the inside. We've hooked up a few times n always st
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CappGuy6330- That's probably a dynamic as to why I prefer them. I see where you're going with that though, my best friend, a female Pisces, is like my rock and my support system. My older sister recently passed away at the start of last December, and she's been the sole positive driving force in my life. My Virgo has said on occasion that she is jealous of the type of relationship that I have with the Pisces. We openly tell each other that we love one another, n get into that mushy stuff. It's strictly platonic though, mainly because my Pisces friend is a lesbian. I believe it was more of the way that we talk to each other, but I'm not dating the Virgo yet, I wouldn't feel right telling her I love her if I don't feel it. If we end up getting into a relationship, well that's a completely different story.-

I'm so sorry for your loss CG,that's hard.I can understand that relationship.But if your being mushy in front of Virgo with your bud ,that's still a minor form of c-blocking on her part.Virgal is thinking why can't you show that type of mushiness with her,especially since you've done the deed,ahem.But if Virgo gal actually told you she's jealous,she's really really into you.We watch ALL the cues someone gives off.She's probably thinking that if are being demonstrative with your pal and not showing any signs of getting closer to her,you're gonna be in the slow lane for a few....That is understandable that you wouldn't rush the "loves you" with her=too fast is creepy,too slow shows not the same level of interest.--

Make a private tasteful move on the Virgo that sends a CLEAR signal that you intenting to closer just to her.That steam you feel is real.



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cont.- To answer the second part, we've been talking quite a lot almost constantly. text, phone, Facebook, face to face. we've known each other for so long, that it's easy to be open with her. She basically knows everything I feel about her, and she tells me how she feels, her feelings are strong, she's just acting very cautious about it. Which I understand completely. I later got an answer out of the Pisces, and she said a hellcat is a girl who's been hurt to the point that she acts hard on the outside but is all sweet and loving on the inside. We've hooked up a few times -

-That's good that you got the answer.As far as your Pisces goes,that relationship is partly like ; the first guy that gets married out of the group and he has to make that fade away from the fellas to the homelife,that's all I'm saying about your Pisces friend,nothing more.I do get the part about her being your sister tho',everyone needs support.Have you leaned on the Virgo for support,she won't let your heart hit the ground.

You Caps are so very easy to be with as well.We know how gentle you are under all that goat hide and horns-your secret is safe with us.Even if Virgal is a rose ,you guys know how to handle our thorns.*sigh*Trust me,if she wasn't into you,you wouldn't even know she had any e-connections to the world.
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CappGuy6330- That's probably a dynamic as to why I prefer them. I see where you're going with that though, my best friend, a female Pisces, is like my rock and my support system. My older sister recently passed away at the start of last December, and she's been the sole positive driving force in my life. My Virgo has said on occasion that she is jealous of the type of relationship that I have with the Pisces. We openly tell each other that we love one another, n get into that mushy stuff. It's strictly platonic though, mainly because my Pisces friend is a lesbian. I believe it was more of the way that we talk to each other, but I'm not dating the Virgo yet, I wouldn't feel right telling her I love her if I don't feel it. If we end up getting into a relationship, well that's a completely different story.-

I'm so sorry for your loss CG,that's hard.I can understand that relationship.But if your being mushy in front of Virgo with your bud ,that's still a minor form of c-blocking on her part.Virgal is thinking why can't you show that type of mushiness with her,especially since you've done the deed,ahem.But if Virgo gal actually told you she's jealous,she's really really into you.We watch ALL the cues someone gives off.She's probably thinking that if are being demonstrative with your pal and not showing any signs of getting closer to her,you're gonna be in the slow lane for a few....That is understandable that you wouldn't rush the "loves you" with her=too fast is creepy,too slow shows not the same level of interest.--

Make a private tasteful move on the Virgo that sends a CLEAR signal that you intenting to closer just to her.That steam you feel is real.


That's a good point, and thank you for your condolescences 🙂 I do see how that is cock blocking, I'll put an end to that, I really like this girl. When I said physically, I didn't mean sex, sorry. But I see how that can be misconstrued. Hmmmm...That's really good advice, thank you! 🙂


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-That's good that you got the answer.As far as your Pisces goes,that relationship is partly like ; the first guy that gets married out of the group and he has to make that fade away from the fellas to the homelife,that's all I'm saying about your Pisces friend,nothing more.I do get the part about her being your sister tho',everyone needs support.Have you leaned on the Virgo for support,she won't let your heart hit the ground.

You Caps are so very easy to be with as well.We know how gentle you are under all that goat hide and horns-your secret is safe with us.Even if Virgal is a rose ,you guys know how to handle our thorns.*sigh*Trust me,if she wasn't into you,you wouldn't even know she had any e-connections to the world.




Not yet, I haven't quite warmed up to Virgal yet, but I am getting there. I think I understand you on the part before, Are you saying that my friendship with the Pisces will fade away as the relationship grows with the Virgal?

I know! She's a wonderful girl, reads me most of the time (psych major) and understands. Just so many things that I like about her.
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You're welcome!-

Not yet, I haven't quite warmed up to Virgal yet, but I am getting there. I think I understand you on the part before, Are you saying that my friendship with the Pisces will fade away as the relationship grows with the Virgal?

I know! She's a wonderful girl, reads me most of the time (psych major) and understands. Just so many things that I like about her.-

Oh I thought that you had been further along in this relationship than you actually are.Just keep doing what your doing and heading in the direction that you are heading.Knowing that you are in her corner makes her life a little brighter than it is.Keep it moving towards what you want,because if you don't when it comes time for her to graduate,she may not take you into consideration when she starts planning her career moves.(If she doesn't think you are serious,she'll move it along without you).Not saying propose tomorrow or anything like that,just keep pace with her moves towards you,like a happy game of chess.Just send her clear positive messages.


Way later on down the road when you and Virgal have bonded up,you'll naturally find your other relationships will fall into the background and not just with the Pisces,I didn't say you would let her go,'cause you're the pal anyone can call at 4 am ,you'll swoop in like a superhuman,right the wrong and off you go into the night type of thing...not at all,it's just your relationships will just adjust that's all.It's just about expanding your heart really.You Caps never desert your true friends;just keep your relationships in the priority that they impact your life in,you can't can't build the kinda nest you want with your pals!

Ah the typical Virgal profession,taking a can opener to someones brain ,analyzing the contents and rewiring behaviors so they can exist with the rest of the world!

I'm glad you found her again and have decieded to move forward.


























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UPDATE: Things are SPECTACULAR. Today we decided that we're "officially" dating hehe. I feel like I'm 18 again. She sent me this wonderful text, stating how beautiful and appreciated I make her feel. Kinda loved too. I have gone through so many turbulent relationships and FINALLY I get a good one. She's a keeper and I'm not letting this one go. I'm actually flattered n complimented too. I feel freaking amazing 🙂 🙂 🙂
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UPDATE: Things are SPECTACULAR. Today we decided that we're "officially" dating hehe. I feel like I'm 18 again. She sent me this wonderful text, stating how beautiful and appreciated I make her feel. Kinda loved too. I have gone through so many turbulent relationships and FINALLY I get a good one. She's a keeper and I'm not letting this one go. I'm actually flattered n complimented too. I feel freaking amazing 🙂 🙂 🙂




Awww that sound AAA+!!! I am really happy for you two,that sounds FANTASTIC!!!Long live love!!!That's great that you now have a happy heart!!Just keep the lines of communication open- and make sure you two are specific about plans-not just a "whatever you want to do attitude",not that you have to take the reins-just guide things along.You Caps always know where your going tho" and we want to go with yous.I'd say find some other positive productive couples to hang out with,in due time.

Yeah,if your feeling it,she's feeling it with you too.All I can say is when you make it 'totally" offical is pack a lunch,take your vitamins,stretch and stay hydrated.Heh heh
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Awww that sound AAA+!!! I am really happy for you two,that sounds FANTASTIC!!!Long live love!!!That's great that you now have a happy heart!!Just keep the lines of communication open- and make sure you two are specific about plans-not just a "whatever you want to do attitude",not that you have to take the reins-just guide things along.You Caps always know where your going tho" and we want to go with yous.I'd say find some other positive productive couples to hang out with,in due time.

Yeah,if your feeling it,she's feeling it with you too.All I can say is when you make it 'totally" offical is pack a lunch,take your vitamins,stretch and stay hydrated.Heh heh
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Thank you, I have noticed she's very sensitive though, but more self critical of herself (i am too). she seems to be too worried about what other people think, in some ways, but others not. i'm not really like that, mainly cuz i could care less what others think unless they've earned themselves a place in my heart. or in this type of situation when i need an opinion or advice. Oh, we definitely have plans, I already refer to her to other people as my girl, which she LOVED, and I carry my fav pics of her so i can show her off to people he he, she really liked that too. it was a bit stressful when we didnt know where we stood, she was quite relieved when i suggested dating. in my past relationships, i was always very domineering. but this one's different. i feel as though she's my equal and I feel no need nor do i care about who's in control of what. Although, when we make out, she becomes surprisingly submissive n my dominance rears its head lol. oh, i'm definitely feeling it with her. there's a slight feeling building inside of me that is somewhat unfamiliar, but not scary or uncomfortable. and i feel that it's something that's stronger than normal feelings. i think she feels it too, but before we started this, she was very miserable due to a past relationship, n said she doesn't believe in love, marriage, having kids. which i chalked up to her previous relationship. she also said she hates to cuddle, but whenever we hang out we do a lot of it. So my theory on that is that she didnt have the right connection. her overall mood has done an almost complete 360 since we started dating, and i
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You're welcome.We can be quite sensitive,she'll relax once you two get into a pattern of being,being more comfortable with each other.Secret smiles and not being awkward when you reach for each others' hand.It takes a little bit to become a natural action,like you two have been doing this for years and not weeks!That's what we like about you Caps-your ability to block out the waste,it'll start to rub off on her,but we always hesitate on the side of caution and doing things properly.It takes time ,but she will become more free-er and easier in manner with you.We admire that about your attitude and action -"that's just an extra speedbump-that crap will slow us down"That's realy sweet that you carry her pix around!It is stressful when to a Virgo when we are in limbo,we can be flexiable enough when we feel safe that everyone motion doesn't have to be planned-every gial likes to know where she stands.I like your clarification!!!

That's the magic of Cap and Virgo,we can work together as a well oiled machine and get all kinds of stuff done correctly(lol).That's a great start,you feel comfortable enough not to morph into executive mode and she feels comfortable enough to not have the need to take the lead away from you.She's learning to trust you.Sure .she'll let you dominate because she know you will respect her limits.

Your building a partnership in every sense of the word,that's what that feeling is.Like they say-two can carry a burden that one can't pick up.Your being a Cap that wants to share your mountain and she is learning to share it with you.You are right about the past relationship experiences.Just stay the course continuing to handle her heart with gentleness, kindness and consideration.We hate to be touched EXCEPT if is the right connection as you say.Yes,continue to take in all the cues.
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It's like pouring hot chocholate over ice cream,at first they are two seperate substances,until slowly the ice cream melts and you have a new swirl.This is like her emotions,past experiences,are like the cool ice cream and you just keep layering on the hot chocholate on her arid past.She's just syncing up to you.That is a powerful experience,when auras blend and two truly becomes one.Yes,it sounds like you cracked the code,but you do offer her the things that she has be missing.Everyone says someday,well it is quite a shock and adjustment to realize that someday isn't an abstract,it is today.Go on with your bad self,you SHOULD be proud.Just keep pouring that hot chocholate coverage known as you.Her heart will heal up and yours will also.More trust and partnership leads to a life well lived and well loved.
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It's like pouring hot chocholate over ice cream,at first they are two seperate substances,until slowly the ice cream melts and you have a new swirl.This is like her emotions,past experiences,are like the cool ice cream and you just keep layering on the hot chocholate on her arid past.She's just syncing up to you.That is a powerful experience,when auras blend and two truly becomes one.Yes,it sounds like you cracked the code,but you do offer her the things that she has be missing.Everyone says someday,well it is quite a shock and adjustment to realize that someday isn't an abstract,it is today.Go on with your bad self,you SHOULD be proud.Just keep pouring that hot chocholate coverage known as you.Her heart will heal up and yours will also.More trust and partnership leads to a life well lived and well loved.



I definitely feel it and everything is going very well. I like the ice cream metaphor you used. Our feelings for each other get stronger by the day, especially if they are spent together. I feel the aura's blending already, we're very in tune with each other, high amounts of passion, and the chemistry is unlike anything I've ever heard of. I truly enjoy the devotion she has. It's funny to me cuz in hindsight, I never thought I would catch the attention of a Virgo, let alone start to fall for one. I must admit, it's HARD to catch the attention of you ladies. It's worth it though, I must say. 🙂
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It's like pouring hot chocholate over ice cream,at first they are two seperate substances,until slowly the ice cream melts and you have a new swirl.This is like her emotions,past experiences,are like the cool ice cream and you just keep layering on the hot chocholate on her arid past.She's just syncing up to you.That is a powerful experience,when auras blend and two truly becomes one.Yes,it sounds like you cracked the code,but you do offer her the things that she has be missing.Everyone says someday,well it is quite a shock and adjustment to realize that someday isn't an abstract,it is today.Go on with your bad self,you SHOULD be proud.Just keep pouring that hot chocholate coverage known as you.Her heart will heal up and yours will also.More trust and partnership leads to a life well lived and well loved.



I definitely feel it and everything is going very well. I like the ice cream metaphor you used. Our feelings for each other get stronger by the day, especially if they are spent together. I feel the aura's blending already, we're very in tune with each other, high amounts of passion, and the chemistry is unlike anything I've ever heard of. I truly enjoy the devotion she has. It's funny to me cuz in hindsight, I never thought I would catch the attention of a Virgo, let alone start to fall for one. I must admit, it's HARD to catch the attention of you ladies. It's worth it though, I must say. 🙂
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This is tremendous.And your type of chemistry sounds like a healing and growing one.And it's so real.Yeah,I know,we are difficult to catch.This type of energy that you two are growing between you,is why we hold out.*Le sigh*Swirl on.