@virgoking
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Do Virgos attract NEEDY people? or....
Do Virgos attract needy people or seek out those in need
Virgos are often drawn to helping others and may attract needy individuals because of their nurturing nature. However, this can also reflect a subconscious tendency to seek meaningful connections through supporting others. It is not necessarily that Virgos seek needy people but that their caring qualities attract those who need help.
Posted by virg_goki
I thought we were the needy ones? hah
Our need to be alone over rides that.
for me it's not like I need to be needed or attracted by needy persons
...but it's definitely a part of me.
Sometimes I hate it. No matter how I can be disapointed about people or stuck with my own problems, I cares and I feel responsable to help to do the right thing.
I don't do it for be loved and I will never wait something in return. In fact I never ask for help and i don't feel confortable with it.
erk I attract Intense people. daaang
I do attract needy people, but I'll decide if I should let them in or not.
Yea I think you might be onto something @virgoking. I feel useless if I'm not needed by mate. I have to find a way to give and be needed because that's essentially how I show love. So they either come needy or I somehow make them needy (but not in a pathetic way). I'm somewhat ok with this so long as the person doesn't become a user. Then it's a problem.
Well I guess it all makes since why most virgos marry fire and air sign they are not needy and they need their space like us. Virgo women marry sag males the most and virgo men marry libra women. I can see the libra they are usually dress great and very classy plus a big oh freak the virgo was doom from the start lol.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Well according to some statistic somewhere on the web Virgos marry other virgos the most. From what I am noticing on DXP.Virgo women like Cancer men. Virgo men are up for anything that can handle their neurosis.
There was a big study years ago virgo men like libras the most I been with a libra and I could see why that is. It's huge attraction sag is for the women there are loads and loads of virgo women with sag men look at jay z and beyonce.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Well according to some statistic somewhere on the web Virgos marry other virgos the most. From what I am noticing on DXP.Virgo women like Cancer men. Virgo men are up for anything that can handle their neurosis.There was a big study years ago virgo men like libras the most I been with a libra and I could see why that is. It's huge attraction sag is for the women there are loads and loads of virgo women with sag men look at jay z and beyonce.
Can't wait for the my libra cheated on me, she thinks im a frozen icicle...help
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Lol its funny you say it's usually the libra that leaves lol.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Well according to some statistic somewhere on the web Virgos marry other virgos the most. From what I am noticing on DXP.Virgo women like Cancer men. Virgo men are up for anything that can handle their neurosis.There was a big study years ago virgo men like libras the most I been with a libra and I could see why that is. It's huge attraction sag is for the women there are loads and loads of virgo women with sag men look at jay z and beyonce.
Why Libra women? The Libra women i know are just as needy as cancer women, except they cheat.
good luck with that🙂
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Not really they really do there own thing all women are needy but some are less than others. It works for about good 10 years lol this how it works libra have high fashion sense and that is a sucker for virgo men. They love staying sexy and virgo loves that libra lets him be the boss because she does not like making decisions. Plus they are big freak in bed.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Well according to some statistic somewhere on the web Virgos marry other virgos the most. From what I am noticing on DXP.Virgo women like Cancer men. Virgo men are up for anything that can handle their neurosis.There was a big study years ago virgo men like libras the most I been with a libra and I could see why that is. It's huge attraction sag is for the women there are loads and loads of virgo women with sag men look at jay z and beyonce.
Why Libra women? The Libra women i know are just as needy as cancer women, except they cheat.
good luck with that🙂
They love staying sexy and virgo loves that libra lets him be the boss because she does not like making decisions.
DING DING DING. Of course.
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lol the reason why libra leaves is because he is not romantic enough over time but mostly because virgo does not but her in her place and let her get away with to much. When you don't put women in their place over time women lose respect for you no matter what sign they are.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Well according to some statistic somewhere on the web Virgos marry other virgos the most. From what I am noticing on DXP.Virgo women like Cancer men. Virgo men are up for anything that can handle their neurosis.There was a big study years ago virgo men like libras the most I been with a libra and I could see why that is. It's huge attraction sag is for the women there are loads and loads of virgo women with sag men look at jay z and beyonce.
Why Libra women? The Libra women i know are just as needy as cancer women, except they cheat.
good luck with that🙂
They love staying sexy and virgo loves that libra lets him be the boss because she does not like making decisions.
DING DING DING. Of course.
lol the reason why libra leaves is because he is not romantic enough over time but mostly because virgo does not but her in her place and let her get away with to much. When you don't put women in their place over time women lose respect for you no matter what sign they are.
This is true, subconsciously i want to be put in my place, especially cause im loco.
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And thats why I always believe the women has to like the man more than he likes her. Because when a man is head over hills for you he won't put you in your place. He is so into you that he is to scared to mess things up so in the end he loses her. That's why there are a lot bitter men out there.
Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
I'm a sucker for a fix 'er upper case. And to some extent I think that I need to feel needed. Gotta have a purpose in life or a mission of some kind or else there's no point. I don't like pointless things.Libras are starting to look after reading some of this conversation though lol. And I love a good adventurous Sag that can keep me guessing too. They're the only people I know that can hold a philosophical conversation while rock climbing. *thumbs up*
lol I love your avatar tapal is so hot....
Posted by CluelessCancer
I'm going to make sure to make sure i make all libra/sag women look pathetic in front of my VIRGO. whose venus is in LIBRA..sigh
Lol good luck do you have any air in your chart that would help you when he is off doing his own thing.
Ohhhh the cancer and virgo dance its like both are playing peek a boo lol.
needy people turns me off too.
If needy as in demanding or needing my attention, affection, or reassurance to an excessive degree. Where is your self-control.
Kim go on YouTube and watch alyssa sharpe 7th house video it is about our self and relationships it will explain why you are attracted to certain type of people for a reason.
VirgoKing it honestly depends on the virgo some get along with air some with earth and water it's a individuals preference. Yes you do need to feel needed you guys like independent people but too much will make you see no use in you being around. You pretty much need a balance.
I just wish you guys stop picking projects when you're bored they bring your value down trying to be superman 😢
libra uses virgo for stability ( wiz khalifa & amber rose)
I read about this virgo attraction to needy people before and wondered about this with my virgo. I'm very independent but am a widow with a toddler. I had a rough marriage which ending very badly. I have some emotional issues now but seem to hide it well. I read that virgo's seem to attract widows or women with issues so maybe it's true.
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Or do we subconsciously look for the underdog someone that needs our help, so I was thinking about past lovers and look at the poor women on here. And it just hit me these women are needy now if you read about Virgos they say we like to be needed so if that's true would it logical to conclude on some level we look for needy people. Or we just so cold that the other person becomes needed.... Hummm it's kind of like the chicken or the egg question.
What do you other Virgos think have you had past needy exes?