help! Huge miscommunication :(

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taurusgal16
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first of all sorry about my english. I tried my best lol.
so here's the story i'm a 16 year old taurus girl with a virgo rising and he's a 17 old virgo boy. We've first met about 6 month ago but we got closer when i got him for history classes (3 times a week 2 hours). And after we walked together (which was compleatly unplanned) We started to talk he made me laugh he helped me in my history lesson and asked me questions about the topic and that day we even had hard-to-broke eye contact. Since that day he began to stare at me during the lessons. I pretended like i didn't notice it. Three weeks ago he asked me about the club which made us walk together like what time do you attend and s.o. he also complimented my being smart but i was trying not to make an eye contac cause i am too shy then after the lesson i notice him waiting in the corridor looking at me maybe he wanted to continue the conversation because the teacher interrupted it. but again silly me didn't go and talk to him i walk like i didn't see him. Since that day we can't help falling apart i wait him make a move and he doesn't. He's stopped talking to me he's talking, laughing with the other girls in our he's broken all the ties except the fact that he's still staering at me but when i turn my head he looks somewhere else i think he just can't stop looking at me cause he use his hands to cover his face agains me the way he would only see the teachers face. And today i decided to talk to him but when i entered the class he was sitting somewhere else really away from me and after 25 minutes he asked the teacher if he might go. i felt so bad about that but i did the same thing again hide my feelings actually i'm so good at it. It drives me nuts when he's flirting with some girl but i just act like i don't care. So please help me i'm so desperate there are lots of things that i want to say as english is not my native language i can't . But please i don't want to watch this cold wall grow between as day by day. What should i do?
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@Taurusgal16...you seem like a shy person. Its possible that this boy thinks that you don't like him or that you are stuck up. He can't see past your shyness. Maybe he is afraid of being rejected. If he is always staring at you, I would think that he does have interest. Try smiling at him when he looks at you. Wave hello to him across the classroom instead of looking away, he might approach you again. Some Taurus girls cannot make the first move. My daughter is just like this! Good luck!
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Posted by 25thDecan
Go to the school dance and have a blast. Be active in your school's activities, make sure to use mental maps and visual aids when you study, be sociable, avoid situations that could jeopardize your personal safety and don't be too serious about anything besides your goals for a future career and quality of life. He=s just a boy.



Hi Dec!
What would you have done at that age and the girl was very shy?
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taurusgal16
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is your daughter a taurus? my mom is a sag too. i haven't say anything to her. that's why it's amazing to get an advice from you. i'm really shy. I hardly communicate anybody except my few friends. But he's really popular and as a typical virgo so talkative and friendly. That's why the situation i'm in right now is really strange: he's flirting with literally every girl in the class. but he's ignoring me.
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A crush does make you feel wonderful and silly all at the same time no? He's showing off for you you know. Trying to make you jealous by showing you how popular he is with the other girls. Wanting a reaction from you to show you are interested. Call him at his game. I know you are shy, I was very shy at your age too. I'd stammer and blush and say the silliest things if a special boy was around. Can you give him a card or note, one saying "I like you too but I'm too shy to say it." I know your heart will be up in your throat, your tummy will have a whole field of butterflies inside..but do you think you can? No need to sign it really. He'll know who it's from.
Definitely distract yourself too. With your friends and everything that pleases you as far as activities and so on. Go for the boy Lil' Bull. He might surprise.
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Posted by taurusgal16
is your daughter a taurus? my mom is a sag too. i haven't say anything to her. that's why it's amazing to get an advice from you. i'm really shy. I hardly communicate anybody except my few friends. But he's really popular and as a typical virgo so talkative and friendly. That's why the situation i'm in right now is really strange: he's flirting with literally every girl in the class. but he's ignoring me.



Yep, my daughter is a Taurus. She is 18 so I understand totally. Even though you want this guy to talk to you again, you still have to be who you are. I know you probably will not be able to just walk up to him and ask him out directly. That is not being you. Maybe ask him a question about school or the lesson. Again, try to look at him and give him a shy smile before he looks away. This way, he might approach YOU again instead of you having to go to him. And he is flirting to get your attention, like VB said. My daughter would tell me how most girls were very brash and bold and chase after the boys. She would never do that. All her boyfriends saw through her shyness and realized she had standards. The boys with quality will see that in you, the others dont really matter. Keep us posted!