How do you know if your virgo ex still loves you?

Hi everyone I just want to know the signs a virgo man displays when he is still in love with you. With my virgo ex I broke it off and did not speak to him for about a month. Recently i contacted him and I would say we are on friendly terms. He is a good man, it does not appear that he is holding a grudge or has any hurt feelings. But the two times we have hung out, we were holding hands and being all affectionate--not overly so. He tells me he misses me frequently but he doesn't really call me or try to see me as much as possible. He hardly messages me or contacts me--though when we do talk he is the one that initiates because i find it hard to--i do still care for him very much. What makes me confused is that he appears to be ok --not hurt and completely unaffected. i assume this based on his lack of contact. Also the two times we have hung out and though he has said he misses me he has made no move to kiss me at least to hint that he is still interested. He kisses me on my cheeks (though i don't know if that is just a friendly gesture--i tend to take it that way) He still is very considerate of my feelings when we are out, very gentlemanly, very polite and seemingly eager to please. But then he also gets very detached and unaffected and when i think he's finally warming up to me again it's like ice--(doesn't feel like he's just trying to act aloof--it feels like he really is) and then when he gets like that like i'm not even there i just assume he doesn't care. I'm a gem and when i am around him my whole body is on edge--i'm so aware of him--not aloof at all and so it comes down to whether he's still interested because i am in him. I don't know if all these signs are just him trying to get us to be friends and not be all strained with each other.

What do you guys think? How does a virgo man show that he still loves you?

pull, tug, pull, tug....... I went through this with my Virgo. From the sounds of it, I think he still digs ya, but he's being cautious.

I think that yu're not over him..... and if that's the case, and you're still in love with him, then I would try to talk to him. It's worth a shot, right? I think you should go for it, and see what happens.

Hi Mars--thank you for replying! I think he still has feelings for me yes, but what will make him act on them? We have seen each other twice and I think he knows I am still interested in him --though I haven't had the courage to really tell him. i have no idea how to go about even doing that!

Thanks Sekh 🙂