How much time have you spent w/ the wrong mate?

I am still with my Virgo. I love him to bits and it is all true about Virgos getting better with time. And I am a Libra Female (with 4 placements in Scorpio and Mercury in Virgo) and I just would like to know, on average, when things haven't worked out relationship-wise for you, how much time elapsed from the beginning to the end?

We've been together 11 months going on 12 and I feel like we're definitely together and committed...but just out of curiosity, would a Virgo spend this much time with the wrong one?

Mocha

I don't buy it. I think every sign is susceptible to spending too much time with, and especially on, someone who is wrong for them. However, I'm speaking in regards to long-term. Most of the time I think that mr./ms. wrong may actually be right for us at that particular moment.

Thinking of my libra ex reminds me of this. I spent 7 years in a relationship with him. For the first half it felt very right. The last half we were growing apart and we were no longer right for each other.

Posted by ninjamu
I don't buy it. I think every sign is susceptible to spending too much time with, and especially on, someone who is wrong for them. However, I'm speaking in regards to long-term. Most of the time I think that mr./ms. wrong may actually be right for us at that particular moment.

Thinking of my libra ex reminds me of this. I spent 7 years in a relationship with him. For the first half it felt very right. The last half we were growing apart and we were no longer right for each other.

I have to agree with this. I remember I spent way too much time on a Cap male when I should have thrown in the towel from the get-go. I knew something was off when we were together, but I didn't want to stop trying. It was great in the beginning, but towards the middle and the end, things were just too complicated and dramatic. So, I think it's just a human thing. While virgos will walk away if we know it isn't right, sometimes virgos will stick around trying to fix it.

Relationship wise, I tried fixing inevitable problems, but once a storm occurs, you can\'t stop the clouds from blocking your Sunny view.

Friendship wise, I was quite a fool to stay around several people who constantly ranted they would change, but they never did and never bothered...

Family, well...They are given not chosen, so I still have to deal with them even if some of the members of my family deserve the kick to the butt.

Posted by PandorasBox
No way, once we know someone isnt for us, we're outta there. We dont like wasting time.

I would have to agree with this post....After all I was put into a relationship I did not even want to enter and as soon as I got a way out I did just that!I have to admit I have no problem just leaving and not having to deal with certain people anymore.

The thing that bothers me when it's a person that you will leave is like a person that you know could be gotten along with that's the down fall about that type of situation...For the most part I agree with the quote above.