How much will Virgo put up with?

Hi all Virgo & i have been together for almost 2 months 🙂🙂🙂🙂:, at times things seem to be going great!
But!, Im not really use to the whole relationship thing, and i seem to be stuffing up!

Virgo is critical but in a positive sence and me as a cancer i think i am doing very well in trying to understand and not take offence in his words. i mean he is helping me so much. the other day he mentioned that he was being pacient with me and that he understands this is all new to me.

Virgo has said that not everything is about Me! and that i cant just do what ever i want all the time just because i am angry. he said i need to control my temper??..

Im trying really hard but there are those times that i slip up!— will i push virgo away?

You will probably be his pet project - he will probably try to "fix" you by the sounds of it.

But they only take so much

I think a slip up here and there is okay but you shouldn't push too much. In a sense a virgo will give you enough rope to hang yourself with. Sometimes we will bite our tongues and quietly let things build until we've had enough and cut ties completely.

Shineelikethemoon,

I dated 3 cancers this far and the all were good/long-term relationships. We emded up for different reasons (none of them were the type of issues that would stop me from trying to become friends eventually)but to this day I can tell you that those relationships were some of the best I had.

I too was critical with my cancers and they too would tell me about it, ha, so I did get better over time or trickier as to how to present my opinion 😉 but I also had to cope with the emotional rollarcoaster 2 of them put me through, so I understand for the most part what are some of the challenges and yet awesome things this sort of relationships can bring.

When a virgo is critical, is mostly because they want to encourage your best you know? However, I understand that Cancerns can be a bit more sensitive than us and so they wouldnt take this as a logical "makes sense" opinion but probably as something personal most of the time...dont let this bug you, don't ever think a virgo tell you something he is suggesting because he is trying to change who you are, but rather because loving who you are he wants to see th best of you in every area. You can take some of those words if you want, but you don't have to. If you explain a virgo why you couldnt do this or that (without letting your emotions get the best of you) he/she will completely understand...if he/she doesn't then its sturbborness and he/she will get over it 🙂

What I always admired about my cancers is their sense of loyalty (all of them were very faithful to the end of the relationship. One of them did ended being with someone he said he never ever would, but although that hurted, it didnt happen while we were together...and the rest, all of them completely faithful (unlike other people I dated) so they wont my trust, something sometimes a bit hard for Virgos to give. Cancers can make us open up in issues of trust and it feels so safe with them...it is really nice amd those are qualities your Virgo will probably value not only now but even throughout time.

It is true, sometimes my sweet cancers would let their emotions take over...so it would be hard to deal with them during those tines. I guess it was hard for me, because I dont like dwelling on emotions for way too long, whereas they seemed to embrace it, ha, but I think the key here is compromise. He needs to understand that the emotional aspect in your life is something that can bring challenges but also really nice things

Your sensitive side and connection with your emotions allows you to be very sensitive toward others's needs and very compasionate...caring and so sweet. If you explain this to your virgo (the pros and cons about your emotional side) and how you want to learn to balance this more and more over time...as you learn...he will understand much better than if you simply listen and don't talk with him about it. Remember, we virgos need conversations and understanding things much better through them. The cancers I knew have always been such great listeners but sometimes it was hard to not hear them say much back...I know maybe you need time to process, but even saying that will make more sense than saying nothing at all...in virgoland is like saying to us 'whatever' 🙂

So, saying all this, how much would your virgo put up with? I think it depends on how many good conversations you have about any problems that come...about how much of your sweet side you have showed to him (because I know the potential is there in all the cancers but some of them hide it because of fear)...and about how much of himself he also puts on the line to learn to grow in love with you.

Virgos, just like cancers, have things to work on...and some are more mature than others...some are more selfish than others...so although we both, cancers and virgos, have so much potentials to be great in relationships a lot of other factors enter into the equation you know?

I would say though, if you let him see your awesome sweet cancer side, talk to him about any problems that come, stay patient with him as well (if he is being the good guy he seems to be), walk this learning process with him...as you keep on persuing whatever dreams you have and are willing to learn from every mistake you both make and you both are wiilling to meet each other in the middle ground...there is so much potential! 🙂

I wish you all the best and do know that there are plenty of virgos who do appreciate and value your lovely cancer way and that what we all need to do overtime (all of us) is learn to balance and use all these gifts we got for the best. I am in that journey as well 🙂

ABee

Water creatures generaly speaking suks....

Posted by Qbone
Water creatures generaly speaking suks....

you're right on that one. manipulating shit. cannot stand needy cancers

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