How Virgo Men Feel About Their Money/Career

Hi all,

I was wondering - if a Virgo male is not comfortable with his financial situation and/or career would this have a severe impact on his dating life. For example, some signs are more likely to get depressed over monetary issues than othes. For these signs (particuarly the men), would have reluctance about dating or might push their mate away b.c he does not feel like a provider.

Please share your thoughts....

Well, i can't speak for virgo's, but my older bro is a virguy, and when he was having financial issues (house wouldn't sale, pending bankruptcy) he was more quiet and cold than usual, depressed in a way. I would sometimes see him shake his head for no reason. His wife would tell my mom that he just "shut her out". I remember always going up to him and giving him a big hug and trying to pick him up, and he would smile and laugh, and say that he "needed that". I think some virgo men kinda shut everything in and try to fool everyone.

I'd like to hear what the guys here have to say about it, im curious to know too.

Aries, that's interesting. yea virgo men seem like they have that tendancy. Yes, I eould like to hear from some of the virguys on the forum too.

ariespisces_grl's description would fit me as well.
I have not been in the situation but I imagine it would not be much of a stretch that I would do the same.

I would be overly worried and focused on trying to get things in order.

Chaos is the enemy and having financial problems wheels that in.

Virgos are known for laser like precision, so everything else would be prioritised as much less important for the while.

Posted by Cajunspirit
ariespisces_grl's description would fit me as well.
I have not been in the situation but I imagine it would not be much of a stretch that I would do the same.

I would be overly worried and focused on trying to get things in order.

Chaos is the enemy and having financial problems wheels that in.

Virgos are known for laser like precision, so everything else would be prioritised as much less important for the while.

Yes, my bro is the "Priority King, and Notebook Warriour" (haha!)

But i guess since uncertainty entered the scene, it freaked him out.

Yes this all sounds about right. The virguy who I am dating recently lost his job. He hates when I pay for things. I do not mind at all. But he told me today that it kills him when I have to pay for things. I told him that I don't mind and I completely understand his situation and that he is just in a tough spot right now. However, I also understand his want to provide. Its tough. Its hard watching people who you care about go through tough circumstances like this. Living in california does not help much either. People out here are getting laid off left and right and the cost of living is astronomical. But I know there is nothing that I can do for the virguy but be there when he needs me but I have to allow him to be a man. But I have been forwarding him various job openings that come my way...

I hate people to spoil and buy things for me.

It weighs as if it were a tonne of guilt, strapped to my neck and I must repay them, somehow.