I Don't Understand AT ALL

I got on this Virgo forum and I am in complete shock at all the negative things being said by a virgo man. Is it me or do I have a one of a kind man? I have dated Taurus, Aries and Gemini and now a Virgo, and I must say Virgo man based on my sweets alone are one of a kind. I never found such amazing man in my life. I hear a lot of the women speak about this push and pull thing and them being distant. But I found that when this happened with my Virgo man it was truly something I did, at first it appeared as if it was him, but really taking my selfish feelings aside I started to see his point of view and noticed I had been taking him for granted. Once I realized that and I will be forever appreciative of him to let me correct it they are truly amazing beings. You just have to be direct with them and you must know what you want and know how to communicate it with them. Also girls stop living in this love novel in your heads. Sometimes you have to put the effort into the relationship too, its not just one side. And really try to understand the reactions from the one you loved that was a result from your actions. From the stories I have been reading it seems that the girl is so caught up on what is "suppose" to be according to what she has seen in movies that she forgets its a relationship and there is a human being next to you. I can assure you once you can communicate directly but in a feminine manner and also completely sincere to your Virgo man they are truly the best. I am forever thankful for this gem in my life, and even if we are not meant to be I will love him dearly and care for his happiness as he deserves it for the incredible man he is.

I'm a leo.

Posted by Lenore0908

Posted by Sagtastic
I'm with you!My V guys is and has been my prince charming. The other girls in here just don't know they were play things while Mr. Calculating Virgo put in work for the real women they want. I will admit, he dragged his feet in making a commitment. I lived my life *not* around him. Im happy I am not the only woman gloating about mr. Handsome.

That's kind of rude. You're beautiful but boasting is ugly.

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Lol.

Posted by LionessKitty
I got on this Virgo forum and I am in complete shock at all the negative things being said by a virgo man. Is it me or do I have a one of a kind man? I have dated Taurus, Aries and Gemini and now a Virgo, and I must say Virgo man based on my sweets alone are one of a kind. I never found such amazing man in my life. I hear a lot of the women speak about this push and pull thing and them being distant. But I found that when this happened with my Virgo man it was truly something I did, at first it appeared as if it was him, but really taking my selfish feelings aside I started to see his point of view and noticed I had been taking him for granted. Once I realized that and I will be forever appreciative of him to let me correct it they are truly amazing beings. You just have to be direct with them and you must know what you want and know how to communicate it with them. Also girls stop living in this love novel in your heads. Sometimes you have to put the effort into the relationship too, its not just one side. And really try to understand the reactions from the one you loved that was a result from your actions. From the stories I have been reading it seems that the girl is so caught up on what is "suppose" to be according to what she has seen in movies that she forgets its a relationship and there is a human being next to you. I can assure you once you can communicate directly but in a feminine manner and also completely sincere to your Virgo man they are truly the best. I am forever thankful for this gem in my life, and even if we are not meant to be I will love him dearly and care for his happiness as he deserves it for the incredible man he is.

Awwwwww...*bats eyes* 🙂

Posted by Sagtastic
You took him for granted! Learn from your mistakes and bag another one.

Lol, you Sags.

Posted by LionessKitty

I can assure you once you can communicate directly but in a feminine manner and also completely sincere to your Virgo man they are truly the best.

So, if you communicate with a Virgo NOT in a feminine manner, then they aren't truly the best?

I find this curious ..... it makes me think that your playing him by being Miss Sweety-Sweet .... what other reason would you feel compelled to counsel women to talk to the man with feminity in order for her to get something?


You said, "once you can communicate directly, but in a feminine manner" ...... you're pretending with him, if you have to calculate what manner of speech you have to use with him.



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You're obviously a woman who hasn't actually gotten the Virgo, and are presenting yourself as if you have = still pretending, now in here.

To CluelessCancer: First and foremost also understand that above a particular sign an individual is that an individual. So define an individual based on what his "sign" says I think you are limiting that individual. You can guide on what is on the surface but what is not on the surface is when you understanding that individual comes to play. I myself don't really say there is such thing as a soulmate but I do feel somebody can be committed to another for as long as they actively choose. I don't think your view makes your right or wrong or my view makes me right or wrong. Its whatever is right for me and my Virgo and what is right for you and your Virgo. I don't know your exact story but if you believe in soulmate and he believes you are his soulmate vice versa. Whatever you are going through and you feel the relationship is worth fighting for don't let anybody else tell you otherwise. You are the only one that directs where your life will lead, where you will use your time in. My post is just another outlook not the only way.
I got on the leo forum and there was not a lot of things I got on Virgo and its like a million posts and a lot of titles are so negative. It almost makes it seem like nobody can have a great relationship with a Virgo and it cannot be true. There must be others who can share great positive relationship with a Virgo.

So here is another example. My Virgo's father went to the hospital yesterday he texted me at 2 in the morning saying how his father was in the hospital due to low blood pressure he also fell. I replied him with a text as well I did not call. Although for me as an individual if that was my father I would of called him all worried because that is how I AM. But from what i know about him is he does have emotions of course he was worrying maybe even crying his father has been battling cancer for over 3 years. He replied back saying Thanks babe I will keep you updated I love you. Now for myself and who I am again I would of want to sit and talk and say well are you okay what do you think the doctors will say. But that is not him, so I can't force my ways and get angry at his actions because its not the same as mine. This morning he didn't text or call. To me it was okay I knew he was worried, so I sent him a message joking about something we spoke earlier the other day. He replied with lol and good morning. And I let him be about 10 minutes later he texted saying I am trying to get a hold of my family but

nobody is picking up. So he willingly is opening up on his own. The form and route he is doing some girls would not like. Why isn't he calling me. I think sometimes people stress on the wrong focus if that makes sense to you. I sent him a text back and let him be. He didn't call until 2 hours ago. He usually calls a lot or is constant communication with him. For him I know when he is not its two things either its all going hell at work he has a very stressful job or something is going with the family or he is simply just tired or stressed. I will always assure him I am here for him but I guess I don't force anything if I believe he is doing anything that is hurting our relationship I will speak about it. But never in a confrontational way that is where I say feminine meaning gentle but assertive instead letting ego take over. Sometimes you have to control your emotions so you can reason and project what you want correctly. Its you and him agains the world right not you against him or him against you.

Posted by Lenore0908

Posted by Sagtastic
I'm with you!My V guys is and has been my prince charming. The other girls in here just don't know they were play things while Mr. Calculating Virgo put in work for the real women they want. I will admit, he dragged his feet in making a commitment. I lived my life *not* around him. Im happy I am not the only woman gloating about mr. Handsome.

That's kind of rude. You're beautiful but boasting is ugly.

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Don't let her affect you.. she's not married to one yet so her so called triumph over a virgo is still not valid. Ild rather believe P-angel who have kept a virgo for many years.

Posted by Sagtastic

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Posted by Lenore0908

Posted by Sagtastic
I'm with you!My V guys is and has been my prince charming. The other girls in here just don't know they were play things while Mr. Calculating Virgo put in work for the real women they want. I will admit, he dragged his feet in making a commitment. I lived my life *not* around him. Im happy I am not the only woman gloating about mr. Handsome.

That's kind of rude. You're beautiful but boasting is ugly.

Lol.

*WARNING* I am a SAGITTARIUS = Blunt communication

The truth hurts

BOASTING! I am happy as I can be to have met this V-guy, so yes ..... I colored the Virgo forum with beauty not bullshit

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What the hell did you quote me for? I was just laughing.

*WARNING* I'm a VIRGO=I don't give a fuck...

The only person...the only soul...as in ever, to really get to me the way he has...he truly got me; we got each other...our souls...just completely understood one another, and just love each other truly, and unconditionally as is. A true union of souls...the most significant soul connection I've had...truly divine complements, in a divine union...was with a Virgo. And he was such a beautiful soul all on his own/in his own right, just as he was. Such a precious gift...a blessing...Though he's in spirit now, we will forever be connected...forever One.

Anyway, I've found that I just like virgos (particularly the men). Only really got into this astrology stuff 2 years ago.

Lol...thanks. I do have a Sag rising. I'm getting used to him. Yes, my Sag rising is a man, hahaha...😛

Posted by LionessKitty

I will always assure him I am here for him but I guess I don't force anything if I believe he is doing anything that is hurting our relationship I will speak about it. But never in a confrontational way that is where I say feminine meaning gentle but assertive instead letting ego take over.

So, by "feminine manner" ... you mean fake, as in don't confront even when you should.

Your last post was describing how you ignore that he isn't communicating with you during a time when a person actually NEEDS their partner, and you excuse it away by expressing that it's ok with you, because you will be feminine = which equates to you as ignorance.

You remind me of the Taurus in here who absolutely refuses to believe a world exists outside of her fantasy.

You refuse to confront a Virgo ... and you think you have him? If you cannot confront him, you will never have him, and will forever be his emotional crutch sitting in the balance, waiting to be used at his beck and call.


You fail to realize that Virgo wants and equal ... not a rug, though he will wipe his feet on you, if that's all the dignity you have, and lay down in front of him.

During a crisis is when you are suppose to be there ... not sitting back and talking about how it's ok if he ignores you because to be feminine means to not address anything unless he wants to.


You are an insult to women.