I know, I know, Libra (f) and Virgo (m)...

Well here I am delurking to say that I have fallen completely in love with a Virguy, and I am still at the point where I think I could fall back from the Virguy, but it's getting dangerously close to the edge for me, so I wanted to ask...well a couple of things. I know this combo is supposed to be a challenge...

1. I have Venus in Scorpio and so does he, yet our sex life is strained because neither of us makes the first move. This is the area of our relationship that I cannot figure out...
I don't know if he is using the sex witholding to control me because he knows how badly I want it, or what?...

2. I have my Moon in Cancer and his is in Libra....so since I have so much water in my chart I am very emotional and deep and empathetic.
He is very intelligent and thoughtful and hilarious. I love being around him so much because he makes me laugh...and not to mention he is so gorgeous...

We cried together the other night as I lay on his chest. A risky move seeing as Virgos supposedly don't like "mushy". But it totally brought us closer. (although I didn't do it on purpose--we'd been drinking and got onto a deep topic = waterworks)

I really could see us being together for a very long time. 20 years seems to be the general consensus of Virgo+Libra on DXP and I would be cool with that.
He's 9/19 and I'm 9/25 and we have the most amazing conversations.

I just want to circumvent the "lack of demonstrative affection" thing with him and he also mentioned he thinks saying "I love you" is for suckas...
I made sure I wasn't the one to say it first and when he did he just kinda jokingly said "I luv you to death". And I said "You said it first!" and then I said it to him.
BUT I want to REALLY tell him I love him but I'm scared he'll think the chase is over...or I'll lose...or he'll think of me as conquered and can move on to the next...
I love being with him and we are ALWAYS together, 24/7. It never gets on my nerves. I just want sex to be normal and frequent between us and I want him to know I love him
and know he loves me.

Mocha

doesnt the moon indicate who youre attracted to? from what ive read, because i always seem to be attracted to people with my moon sign, my venus is in scorp but i never have interest in them

Posted by nyc125
doesnt the moon indicate who youre attracted to? from what ive read, because i always seem to be attracted to people with my moon sign, my venus is in scorp but i never have interest in them

ur kinda right the moons are the emotions it shows who u are attracted to on a emotional level as well.

Posted by virg_goki

Posted by nyc125
doesnt the moon indicate who youre attracted to? from what ive read, because i always seem to be attracted to people with my moon sign, my venus is in scorp but i never have interest in them

totally wrong for me. I'm a leo moon but still I only get turned off by any leo sun signs.. more like you'll be attracted to signs that traditionally turn on the sign of your moon.

But as a standard, you shouldn't use one aspect of your chart to interpret such issues. Its more about the combination of your whole chart.

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i like leos but they anyoing me because we have tha same emotions thats very u have loads of fire in you u should love fire signs.

i have 3 air placements aqua rising mercury in libra and venus in libra i love gems and libras and aqua tho they give me headaches tho.