I am a scorpio Woman who met a virgo man at work about 6 months ago. When we met he was dating an Aries woman but they broke up. A week after they broke up we accidently hooked up on a drunken night. I freaked out a little as he seemed a right mess due to his breakup as they were planning marriage and babies even though they were only together 8 months, so I was there for him just as a friend after the first hook up. After a couple of weeks one thing lead to another and we started hooking up again. It was nothing serious at this stage as A) he was still living with his ex girlfriend and B) we worked together! And therefore did not want anyone there to know! We had the most amazing connection...he was the type of guy you would feel like you had only been talking for 1/2 Hr and then look outside and see it had gone from night to day! We had soooo much fun together however after a few weeks he said he can't see me anymore as he had to get his life together. We still had to work together but I was always professional and assured it was never uncomfterble. After another few weeks of not seeing each other he came over to do my hair (we are hairdressers) and we started hooking up again. But this time we started seeing each other every day and he moved out of the house with his ex and into his own place.Once again we had the most amazing time and we started saying the "I love you". This went on for a few months and then I had to go overseas for three weeks. In the beginning of this time he was very attentive but towards the end he started acting funny and cold. When I got back he was still acting funny..but eventually we started having fun again even though it always felt he kept at arms length. While I was away I found out that he had spent New Year's Eve with his ex girlfriend and had also done her hair. This did upset me greatly as he lied to me about this. But I kept out of contact for a few days to think this through and when he could finally get in contact with me he said he want's this too work and that he loved me. Then it all changed again and for the past month he's been distant and cold, would have his phone off for a day or two etc , etc. But still we never have had a massive fight or anything and if had wanted to work something out I would have been happy to sort out whatever. But he didn't he just kept it all inside until he broke up with me over the phone after 5 months together. I care for this guy and want him back..what do I do?? Thank-you
