In a relationship... :/ WTH

Sooooo I wanted my virguy to know how I felt and also bc I decided to follow some advice here, after a comment he made we got into a discussion and he asked "why are you soad about this, we always make comments like that among US" and I proceeded to say that I liked him, cared about him, still have feelings for him and that I just wanted to know, I thought he was going to freak and ignore me but he actually apologized profusely for the comment, told me i was right and that he was sorry that he was such an idiot sometimes, and that he disn't realize it until someone would tell him, then he turned all sweet and nervous, I said listen I just wanted you to know, you don't have to say anything or reacg in any way (I could tell he was nervous, rambling, making no sense...) and then I said bye (he was at work so we were chatting) and he said no don't go don't leave me, why do u always leave, wth stay, I said you want me to— And he said yeah so we kept chatting but about other things.... The next day he was distant no ckntact but I texted to ask him about something and he answered right away and then in the afternoon he commented in a FB status, and we joked in a private message about it, then again nothing...... 3 hours later I am checking my FB and ohhhh what I see "virguy is in a relationship" perfect timing...!!!!!! Why would he do that—? No contact at all, I haven't reacted in any way, should I say something— Should I ask— I am heart broken, sad, confused.... 😢
I guess is time to finally move on...

As Virgos,mfor the most part we don't like to have a relationship with our co-workers.But he was into you enough to fb you,so he likes you as a friend first.Maybe in time but if he's in a relationship status then he isn't ready/wanting to move things along.He likes you but don't want to hurt you.He did give you an answer though to when you said you liked him,just not in person.He was nervous because he was totally surprised that you felt that way.

Maybe you should date other people and just let him be.He now really knows that you like him and knows where to find you if he is ready and AVAILABLE for more.

Why did you feel the need to tell him how you felt?Why now?Why did you approach him.I know this is old news but men like to be the hunters,not hunted.Now not only are you not a challenge ,you've handed yourself emotionally over to him.You are now waiting and waiting for him to come to you.

If you are in the U.S. ,holiday season is coming and it is a stressful time of year to start something,some people do hook up because they don't want to be alone.

It's Mars in Virgo for a reason,we are all in a state of change.

The next move is definitely his,you can wait and wait and wait and wait for him or you can get out there and have some fun.

Good Luck.