some advice about how this Virgo guy thinks please

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by miichii on Thursday, November 17, 2011 and has 13 replies.

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@miichii
14 Years

so. I've been in to this guy for a while. He is:
Virgo
Libra moon
Virgo rising
Virgo Venus
Cancer mars
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He says he isn't possessive or jealous but his chart says otherwise doesn't it? He also says he isn't very sensitive but I ended up hurting his feelings without even realizing it. :x after about a few days of not talking to me one of his friends told me what was up and I said I was sorry and he popped back in to my life ... couldn't even make eye contact with me at first but he seems to have forgiven me , at least enough. ^^' . Everyone says he likes me. He makes time for me and takes care
of me. When I first met him we both had just gotten out of relationships and weren't ready for new ones even tho we both like each other. Im not sure how to approach the subject of a relationship with him or if I even should at all be the one to nudge him in to it... I'm just curious what u guys think of these aspects of his chart and just if u have anything to say about his thinking process based on that stuff. .. I don't kno.. Just curious what u guys have to say!
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I am a
Scorpio
Leo moon
Sagittarius rising and Venus
Libra mars

Thanks you !!

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@emeralddream
14 Years

I am surprised no Virgo has posted as of yet. Is this your first Virgo interest?

I had a few relationships with Virgo men. They are intense people, get interested and when they are you will know it. He will fly off the brink from time to time so do not be surprised. Just give him time to cool off and say hi. Half of the time he will break the silence. Downside of Virgo is he will probably not verbalize what is or has bothered him. This is where you have to be a detective. I am speaking from experience, so the person who you are dealing with may be different in some regard. But I find it is always better to know what ifs so that before you get to know a person you do not do any damage. Romance or not in this case.

I am not a Virgo but I think you should give him time and let him make the first move. If he makes time for you that is a good sign he likes you. 🙂

I am curious how this will pan out.

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@miichii
14 Years

Thanks so much for ur responses ! ^^ I was afraid of getting some mean responses like I saw in other posts. Thanks!

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@miichii
14 Years

Oh haha I told him astrology is cool and I'll show him how it works so he gave me it .. Why? Lol is there another way to ask?

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@miichii
14 Years

why did you guys delete your posts? lol oh well. It's over now with him. We were fine for a week and then he blew me off last night by not answering my text and I end up at the same place where he actually went so yaaah .. And he literally ignored me the whole time. After 6 months of seeing each other literally every day. We made time for each other every day and I event spent weekends at his house .. and it goes to this awkward forced friendship ... im maybe too straightforward about this sort of stuff but I have been patient for him and I have given him time and space and freedom like he has given me. The reason I hurt his feelings was because I told him he was gross because he said he would have sex with any woman and women are like potato chips and couldn't get enough of them. I got mad because his words contradicted his actions because he had only been seeing me. he is 32 years old and last night I heard him saying the same stuff he has said to me to a 20 year old girl .. So. I don't think this is an "ii need to understand your astrological make up" issue ... This is more like a "ur just a messed up dude problem". Lol thanks everyone for your input 🙂

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@miichii
14 Years

Posted by 25thDecan
Ah...he made a joke and you made more out of it. Big turn off for a guy. Even bigger mistake by the guy to make the joke and actually CARE about a response. Make it or not. Responses cannot be controlled much.
Such is life....

yah lol I was pmsing. not really an excuse but it's whatever. It is what it is I suppose lol

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@emeralddream
14 Years

This sounds like something a guy I was seeing pulled once on me. Reading your most recent addition was as though I was walking through time again. If that be the case he is a lost cost. Move on.

Miichii maybe you need to update your browser, or maybe you accidentally blocked people? Although I do not think it would be the latter.