Indecisive Virgo

Hey there--I am new to the virgo message board but allow me to present a question perhaps someone is able to make clear for me: I have been seeing a guy who happens to be a lovely virgo, for 2.7 years and he is just fabulous. Love him dearly. However, he is as indecisive as hell. Can't make up his mind about anything really. It seems as soon as he decides we are going to do A, on the way he changes his mind to B...and then we end up at the bar drinking our exhaustion away. He has social anxiety so we spend a great deal of time just getting out the front door. Hm...that's fine. We can continue to have candlelit picnics in our living rooms. I love it. But is he going to always struggle with this, you think?
I struggle with what to do to be helpful..

I want to watch that movie..Um.. This one sounds better?!! What do you want to watch honey..?? .. oh great choice? hey look.. This one is better.. More excitements?. Ok?!?..?? How about sushi?for dinner..Arggg? I want pizza.. what..?? You want china food..??..

To tell you the truth? too many options makes anyone indecisive? it?s not about Virgo type, it?s about how to approach the subject, and how to decide to do a single thing for a single purpose.

He?ll learn someday..🙂

Virgo?s mind is full of those options.. But considerations make their mind working over time and perhaps this is the number one reason to makes people wonder.. why?!

Beside? as you said.. Your V-man has ?social anxiety? by knowing this.. you still wonder why..?

Just don?t push him.. or else he?ll get crazy and start making life miserable for both of you?!

Hope this will help somehow..!
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and welcome to this board..

Thank you for your words--advice taken. Now, I looked up Alihan Samedov--this is music I must have. It is incredible. Thanks for that suggestion.

Coolness....

But lady.. don?t take my advice... take your gut feelings? its better? do what you feel is right to do..! and I wish you good luck with it..

Alihan is one of the greatest musicians I know? he play his balaban with soul?

Good choice lady?
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Qbone-are you a musician? Music and the power of, is truly one of the reasons I wake each day!

No lady I am not musician?. Well? fooling around with some electronic instruments time to time.. but I am not a musician? !

To taste and appreciate the good food you don?t have to be a food maker..😉

As you know.. I am a huge music fan.. and I am listening to good music almost everyday..🙂

Quick Qbone! Say something brilliant. I am soooo bored over here.

well.... something..🙂

Things are not so boring lady?.

What do you want to talk about..?

What is Norway like?

My suggestions is to go through my 2198 posts.. you will find something to amuse you
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Then we can talk over it lady..🙂

Norway is like as the say..... "the last paradise on earth".. and it is

I have heard...and the people are beautiful. Give me about 3 months to get through all of your posts and I will return...

Jordanian..??... very intersting...🙂

yeah people here are damn beautiful... but me..

And take your time lady? I have the patience?!.. I am only 3 seconds younger than the good old man in universe—.Take your time

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Greetings Qbone. Yes, but beauty goes much deeper than the human anatomy. Yes?
There is a girl in my building from Norway..alas I shall never be blonde with blue eyes. Just simply not possible genetically.

You are beautiful lady.. and damn sexy..

The colour of eyes/skin is not matter? personality /characters and the way of behaving is matter..