hamzarana75
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Is it just me or all virgos?
Wow, I never really thought about this. I have been dumped twice, and was too hard to let go of my first ex. Then i dumped my 2nd gf, and never had a thought about her again. Then again a 3rd gf dumped me after being physically attached and i went crazy.
Any ideas how to overcome this? I mean i am tired of thinking about her. People tell me to get a therapy, or should I?
Thank you for your reply.
Any ideas how to overcome this? I mean i am tired of thinking about her. People tell me to get a therapy, or should I?
Thank you for your reply.
You sound like my Virgo grandmother. She can't get over her Leo ex husband.
Yes my friends who are 3rd decan virgos have the same thought as you. I know I am wasting my time thinking about her while she's with her new bf.
It has been almost a year and a half, I am still single. Some people say, getting into another relation will make you get over her like a piece of Cake lol. That true?
It has been almost a year and a half, I am still single. Some people say, getting into another relation will make you get over her like a piece of Cake lol. That true?
Noooo. I think its because leos do all the things they said in a relation they wouldn't do. And it makes us virgos go nutssss seeing them like this.
I meant everything my leo ex said she would never do the things which she knew i could not tolerate. Flirting with other guys, having 3 other bf's when according to her she loved me, breaking all the promises she made, ignore me at the extreme level then asking why i am acting so weird and depending on her, she never used to say this kinda stuff.
I really love all the leos and their egos.
Btw, i dont know why, but the universe gave me a boss, who has EXACTLY the same birthdate as my ex, and coincidently the SAME birth time. Just my ex was born on 1995, my boss was born on 1960.
Maybe life is trying to teach me something here. I guess.
I really love all the leos and their egos.
Btw, i dont know why, but the universe gave me a boss, who has EXACTLY the same birthdate as my ex, and coincidently the SAME birth time. Just my ex was born on 1995, my boss was born on 1960.
Maybe life is trying to teach me something here. I guess.
1st decan Virgo here. I think Virgos take LDR more seriously than others while the other person might be thinking it's not working. Distance is natural to a Virgo, not so much for others.
Coming to your question, I think it's natural to cling on to the thought when you don't know what has hit you. She just disappeared so you never got time to figure out what has happened. I think enough time has passed and you will be okay in a while. What's gone is gone.
Coming to your question, I think it's natural to cling on to the thought when you don't know what has hit you. She just disappeared so you never got time to figure out what has happened. I think enough time has passed and you will be okay in a while. What's gone is gone.
Posted by SensitiveBluesLol. I don't know why she can't. She was wild when she met him I think. They had a child, broke up and married again years later. Now they're divorced and have been divorced for like 7 years now. She's always making comments about his current wife (Aries) whom he has a history with also. She seems obsessed with her too. I feel bad for my granny, she's so lonely now .Posted by GoooberLeo men have Virgo women running around like chicken heads! They will straight cheat in their face and Virgo will be hovering...
You sound like my Virgo grandmother. She can't get over her Leo ex husband.
Why can't your grandmother get over him? How long have they separated?
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Posted by hamzarana75How did you react when they dumped you?...you said you went crazy so just.curious.
Wow, I never really thought about this. I have been dumped twice, and was too hard to let go of my first ex. Then i dumped my 2nd gf, and never had a thought about her again. Then again a 3rd gf dumped me after being physically attached and i went crazy.
Any ideas how to overcome this? I mean i am tired of thinking about her. People tell me to get a therapy, or should I?
Thank you for your reply.
After the first girl who dumped me after 2 months of relation, i cried for 3-5 months, started cutting my hand with a big knife, then i dont remember when she got off my mind, i had friends back then so i got busy with them.
Now my recent ex dumped me on Mid 2014. I still cant get over her. Hate my friends and want to be alone still, but i am happy because i have a great job and hobbies. Anyway, when i got dumped, i cried for a whole year day and night. Was not able to watch any movies, listen to music. Went to the praying place for ten days and left my house, became and acted like a saint lol. Then i saw my wishes not coming true, so in 20 days, started doing drugs. Missed her so much that i was unable to breath knowing that she dumped me. Took 30 5 mg sleeping pills and cut my veins with a knife. A week later i was in hospital and did not knew what happened to me. I still dont completely but have some flashbacks . did more drugs. Tried to talk to her through every possible way i could, but i got blocked everywhere.
Now i just miss her but i love myself more than anything now because life has taught me too much in these years. I read a quote that changed me "once you fall, that's when you really start to grow". And i am proud of whatever life gave me. I am living a healthy sober life now for 3 months. Everyone loves me.
Now my recent ex dumped me on Mid 2014. I still cant get over her. Hate my friends and want to be alone still, but i am happy because i have a great job and hobbies. Anyway, when i got dumped, i cried for a whole year day and night. Was not able to watch any movies, listen to music. Went to the praying place for ten days and left my house, became and acted like a saint lol. Then i saw my wishes not coming true, so in 20 days, started doing drugs. Missed her so much that i was unable to breath knowing that she dumped me. Took 30 5 mg sleeping pills and cut my veins with a knife. A week later i was in hospital and did not knew what happened to me. I still dont completely but have some flashbacks . did more drugs. Tried to talk to her through every possible way i could, but i got blocked everywhere.
Now i just miss her but i love myself more than anything now because life has taught me too much in these years. I read a quote that changed me "once you fall, that's when you really start to grow". And i am proud of whatever life gave me. I am living a healthy sober life now for 3 months. Everyone loves me.
Posted by SingASong41Yes i guess closure is all i needed with words instead of actions. No i do not know about my venus or moon placements. Thank you for your kind reply.
Its difficult to move on when there is no clarity or closure. That was cowardly and insensitive of her, honestly.
Do you know your Venus and Moon placements?
Posted by yazlanYup that was me 5 months ago. I have realized that it has ended but i just hate thinking about her all the time. I am soo proud to be a virgo no matter what. Thank you for your kind reply.
1st decan Virgo here. I think Virgos take LDR more seriously than others while the other person might be thinking it's not working. Distance is natural to a Virgo, not so much for others.
Coming to your question, I think it's natural to cling on to the thought when you don't know what has hit you. She just disappeared so you never got time to figure out what has happened. I think enough time has passed and you will be okay in a while. What's gone is gone.
Posted by GreenteaFogot to quote this message but you can read my reply above.Posted by hamzarana75How did you react when they dumped you?...you said you went crazy so just.curious.
Wow, I never really thought about this. I have been dumped twice, and was too hard to let go of my first ex. Then i dumped my 2nd gf, and never had a thought about her again. Then again a 3rd gf dumped me after being physically attached and i went crazy.
Any ideas how to overcome this? I mean i am tired of thinking about her. People tell me to get a therapy, or should I?
Thank you for your reply.click to expand
Posted by hamzarana75That is great you're healthy now, and have a grip on yourself again. You mentioned that she blocked you on everything but domt you think it would've been better that way than keeping you on, only having you witness what was.going on in her life all the time?
After the first girl who dumped me after 2 months of relation, i cried for 3-5 months, started cutting my hand with a big knife, then i dont remember when she got off my mind, i had friends back then so i got busy with them.
Now my recent ex dumped me on Mid 2014. I still cant get over her. Hate my friends and want to be alone still, but i am happy because i have a great job and hobbies. Anyway, when i got dumped, i cried for a whole year day and night. Was not able to watch any movies, listen to music. Went to the praying place for ten days and left my house, became and acted like a saint lol. Then i saw my wishes not coming true, so in 20 days, started doing drugs. Missed her so much that i was unable to breath knowing that she dumped me. Took 30 5 mg sleeping pills and cut my veins with a knife. A week later i was in hospital and did not knew what happened to me. I still dont completely but have some flashbacks . did more drugs. Tried to talk to her through every possible way i could, but i got blocked everywhere.
Now i just miss her but i love myself more than anything now because life has taught me too much in these years. I read a quote that changed me "once you fall, that's when you really start to grow". And i am proud of whatever life gave me. I am living a healthy sober life now for 3 months. Everyone loves me.
Posted by starwarsYeah I too can't start LDR's without meeting them. I met her in a wedding and we both had a crush on each others badly.
I'm 2nd decan. I think id suck at LDR, I suck at normal relationship anyways because I suck at communicating via texts...etc. need to see the person face to face to develop a connection. I think id be fine with it going from normal relationship to LDR when ive already established a relationship with the partner and gotten to know them, but not at the beginning.
I don't forget people but I move on easily, I don't like wasting my time on a relationship that stress me out, I like to think of it as running in circles, what am I getting out of this relationship? 'its not going anywhere so why am I in it? better end it for both benefits'
but if you've just broke up, then 1st im sorry , 2nd its alright and normal to not get over it easily since its a bit long relationship, don't rush things and get over it slowly so you wont have to deal with issues regarding the breakup later in life when you move on.
good luck
Yes but it has already been a year and a half since she dumped me. I hope i get her off my mind completely one day. Waiting for this day to come quick.
Posted by GreenteaYeah i guess so. I used to hack into her friends fb accounts to know what has she been upto, but i have even stopped doing that. Because she always seems so much happier than ever. I feel good for her but it makes ME crazy.Posted by hamzarana75That is great you're healthy now, and have a grip on yourself again. You mentioned that she blocked you on everything but domt you think it would've been better that way than keeping you on, only having you witness what was.going on in her life all the time?
After the first girl who dumped me after 2 months of relation, i cried for 3-5 months, started cutting my hand with a big knife, then i dont remember when she got off my mind, i had friends back then so i got busy with them.
Now my recent ex dumped me on Mid 2014. I still cant get over her. Hate my friends and want to be alone still, but i am happy because i have a great job and hobbies. Anyway, when i got dumped, i cried for a whole year day and night. Was not able to watch any movies, listen to music. Went to the praying place for ten days and left my house, became and acted like a saint lol. Then i saw my wishes not coming true, so in 20 days, started doing drugs. Missed her so much that i was unable to breath knowing that she dumped me. Took 30 5 mg sleeping pills and cut my veins with a knife. A week later i was in hospital and did not knew what happened to me. I still dont completely but have some flashbacks . did more drugs. Tried to talk to her through every possible way i could, but i got blocked everywhere.
Now i just miss her but i love myself more than anything now because life has taught me too much in these years. I read a quote that changed me "once you fall, that's when you really start to grow". And i am proud of whatever life gave me. I am living a healthy sober life now for 3 months. Everyone loves me.click to expand
So i just thought why bother. I dont stalk her anymore, so that I'd be relieved by not knowing about her plus i have decided not to break into others privacy. So i am pretty much happy with it.
I hope one day, when i wake up or go to sleep, she won't haunt me anymore.
Posted by hamzarana75You guess so? How do you think you would've acted if she kept you on? I ask because you said you were.going crazy.Posted by GreenteaYeah i guess so. I used to hack into her friends fb accounts to know what has she been upto, but i have even stopped doing that. Because she always seems so much happier than ever. I feel good for her but it makes ME crazy.Posted by hamzarana75That is great you're healthy now, and have a grip on yourself again. You mentioned that she blocked you on everything but domt you think it would've been better that way than keeping you on, only having you witness what was.going on in her life all the time?
After the first girl who dumped me after 2 months of relation, i cried for 3-5 months, started cutting my hand with a big knife, then i dont remember when she got off my mind, i had friends back then so i got busy with them.
Now my recent ex dumped me on Mid 2014. I still cant get over her. Hate my friends and want to be alone still, but i am happy because i have a great job and hobbies. Anyway, when i got dumped, i cried for a whole year day and night. Was not able to watch any movies, listen to music. Went to the praying place for ten days and left my house, became and acted like a saint lol. Then i saw my wishes not coming true, so in 20 days, started doing drugs. Missed her so much that i was unable to breath knowing that she dumped me. Took 30 5 mg sleeping pills and cut my veins with a knife. A week later i was in hospital and did not knew what happened to me. I still dont completely but have some flashbacks . did more drugs. Tried to talk to her through every possible way i could, but i got blocked everywhere.
Now i just miss her but i love myself more than anything now because life has taught me too much in these years. I read a quote that changed me "once you fall, that's when you really start to grow". And i am proud of whatever life gave me. I am living a healthy sober life now for 3 months. Everyone loves me.
So i just thought why bother. I dont stalk her anymore, so that I'd be relieved by not knowing about her plus i have decided not to break into others privacy. So i am pretty much happy with it.
I hope one day, when i wake up or go to sleep, she won't haunt me anymore.click to expand
Posted by hamzarana75Also have.you dated since then...you know, get back out there?Posted by GreenteaYeah i guess so. I used to hack into her friends fb accounts to know what has she been upto, but i have even stopped doing that. Because she always seems so much happier than ever. I feel good for her but it makes ME crazy.Posted by hamzarana75That is great you're healthy now, and have a grip on yourself again. You mentioned that she blocked you on everything but domt you think it would've been better that way than keeping you on, only having you witness what was.going on in her life all the time?
After the first girl who dumped me after 2 months of relation, i cried for 3-5 months, started cutting my hand with a big knife, then i dont remember when she got off my mind, i had friends back then so i got busy with them.
Now my recent ex dumped me on Mid 2014. I still cant get over her. Hate my friends and want to be alone still, but i am happy because i have a great job and hobbies. Anyway, when i got dumped, i cried for a whole year day and night. Was not able to watch any movies, listen to music. Went to the praying place for ten days and left my house, became and acted like a saint lol. Then i saw my wishes not coming true, so in 20 days, started doing drugs. Missed her so much that i was unable to breath knowing that she dumped me. Took 30 5 mg sleeping pills and cut my veins with a knife. A week later i was in hospital and did not knew what happened to me. I still dont completely but have some flashbacks . did more drugs. Tried to talk to her through every possible way i could, but i got blocked everywhere.
Now i just miss her but i love myself more than anything now because life has taught me too much in these years. I read a quote that changed me "once you fall, that's when you really start to grow". And i am proud of whatever life gave me. I am living a healthy sober life now for 3 months. Everyone loves me.
So i just thought why bother. I dont stalk her anymore, so that I'd be relieved by not knowing about her plus i have decided not to break into others privacy. So i am pretty much happy with it.
I hope one day, when i wake up or go to sleep, she won't haunt me anymore.click to expand
Posted by hamzarana75Get rid of anything of hers in your home, or that reminds you.
I hope one day, when i wake up or go to sleep, she won't haunt me anymore.
Block her from all your social sites... it's symbolic and the principle behind it
that matters, even though she has already blocked you.
Take action and create your OWN closure.
Gads, how did I wander into the VIRgo forum... o_____O
Posted by SensitiveBluesNah...Posted by MontgomeryYou're always here.
Gads, how did I wander into the VIRgo forum... o_____Oclick to expand
I just can't resist the wreckage of your self-compromise-- and that
happens all over the forum.
Posted by GreenteaOh just so you know, when I started dating my ex, i had great hair and style, but due to alot of stress from her, i lost my hair, they started thining so quickly that I got male pattern baldness in 2 years. Now i just shave my head so I won't get that "old accountant " typa look you know?Posted by hamzarana75Also have.you dated since then...you know, get back out there?Posted by GreenteaYeah i guess so. I used to hack into her friends fb accounts to know what has she been upto, but i have even stopped doing that. Because she always seems so much happier than ever. I feel good for her but it makes ME crazy.Posted by hamzarana75That is great you're healthy now, and have a grip on yourself again. You mentioned that she blocked you on everything but domt you think it would've been better that way than keeping you on, only having you witness what was.going on in her life all the time?
After the first girl who dumped me after 2 months of relation, i cried for 3-5 months, started cutting my hand with a big knife, then i dont remember when she got off my mind, i had friends back then so i got busy with them.
Now my recent ex dumped me on Mid 2014. I still cant get over her. Hate my friends and want to be alone still, but i am happy because i have a great job and hobbies. Anyway, when i got dumped, i cried for a whole year day and night. Was not able to watch any movies, listen to music. Went to the praying place for ten days and left my house, became and acted like a saint lol. Then i saw my wishes not coming true, so in 20 days, started doing drugs. Missed her so much that i was unable to breath knowing that she dumped me. Took 30 5 mg sleeping pills and cut my veins with a knife. A week later i was in hospital and did not knew what happened to me. I still dont completely but have some flashbacks . did more drugs. Tried to talk to her through every possible way i could, but i got blocked everywhere.
Now i just miss her but i love myself more than anything now because life has taught me too much in these years. I read a quote that changed me "once you fall, that's when you really start to grow". And i am proud of whatever life gave me. I am living a healthy sober life now for 3 months. Everyone loves me.
So i just thought why bother. I dont stalk her anymore, so that I'd be relieved by not knowing about her plus i have decided not to break into others privacy. So i am pretty much happy with it.
I hope one day, when i wake up or go to sleep, she won't haunt me anymore.click to expand
So sinc
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Also have.you dated since then...you know, get back out there?
Oh just so you know, when I started dating my ex, i had great hair and style, but due to alot of stress from her, i lost my hair, they started thining so quickly that I got male pattern baldness in 2 years. Now i just shave my head so I won't get that "old accountant " typa look you know?
So since then no girl looks at me. Everyone thinks i am too old. But i am just 23. Even if any girl look at me, they just laugh, make fun.
I am clean, organized and have a great sense of dressing. I am not able to find anyone now, still trying. At my workplace, i am The only one who works at night, so there are no girls there so I guess I'll be alone for god knows till when.
My company is sending me to Congo anytime now. So I don't think i'd be able to find there someone too.
I love being in a relation because only i share my everything with that person. And I really need someone, but just going with the flow for now. Waiting for miracles to just happen.
Also have.you dated since then...you know, get back out there?
Oh just so you know, when I started dating my ex, i had great hair and style, but due to alot of stress from her, i lost my hair, they started thining so quickly that I got male pattern baldness in 2 years. Now i just shave my head so I won't get that "old accountant " typa look you know?
So since then no girl looks at me. Everyone thinks i am too old. But i am just 23. Even if any girl look at me, they just laugh, make fun.
I am clean, organized and have a great sense of dressing. I am not able to find anyone now, still trying. At my workplace, i am The only one who works at night, so there are no girls there so I guess I'll be alone for god knows till when.
My company is sending me to Congo anytime now. So I don't think i'd be able to find there someone too.
I love being in a relation because only i share my everything with that person. And I really need someone, but just going with the flow for now. Waiting for miracles to just happen.
Posted by SensitiveBluesYeah I have finally decided to get a therapy, after a week.
That sucvks duder! I don't know why ppl are treating this situation so lightly!
You need therapy! You really need help!
Cutting yourself over another has nothing to do with ex but you!
I myself know that I need a therapy because I have so much inside of me that I don't share with anyone because people judge too much. I hope a therapist won't.
Btw, how much time does a therapy takes ? And what is done in a therapy session? Since it will be my first time seeing a therapist so I am just curious about what happens in a therapy.
Thank you for your kind reply.
I really appreciate it.
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