Look in here Virgos..Advice needed!

Hi Virgos. I am a Scorpio here and I have made this great Virgo friend. She is perfect! Great personality, wonderful smile, always friendly..etc. I usually am able to figure out people and I do tend to notice peoples' flaws, but this girl doesn't have any!

Except when I try to communicate with her. Sometimes she is so great and sweet, but other times I feel like I am getting the brush-off from her. And when she is around other people it is like I suddenly drop as a priority to her. It makes me feel bad. What should I do? I want to confront her about it, but I am afraid I will explode because it really does hurt me.

Also do you think she just doesn't enjoy my company as much as I enjoy her company? Why is it that she is so nice and sweet when her friends aren't around, but when they are it is like I don't even matter to her. I think I'm nicer to her than her other friends.

HELP!

63.15, your Virgo friend doesn't sound "perfect" to me! I'm a Virgo girl myself, and your friend sounds like a two-faced Gemini or a two-sided Pisces! She could be shy, self-conscious, or unaware of what she's doing or how her behavior affects you. You need to have a serious talk with her about this. Usually, Scorpios and Virgos are one of the best matches! I, myself, love Scorpios because they're warm and gentle!

209, I haven't talked to her about this yet because I am afraid it will cost me my friendship with her. But if that's the case than maybe she wasn't really wanting to be my friend in the first place.

I will talk to her and thank you for your advice.

Thank you for getting back to me!!! =) Virgos rock. You do too!

Another Virgo here...I agree, too. My attention is never swayed when I care for someone.

Thanks! I, too, would be afraid of ruining a relationship by talking to someone, but it's a risk you have to take. There are all kinds of Virgos and I believe this Virgo is wrong for you. If you insist on making a Virgo part of your life, find one that is considerate and will love you unconditionally.

Just another Virgo female's perspective...If she loves you? You'll know it. Forget the rest. Go- for the best. That's what this Virgo thinks...
Afterall, I (A virgo) feel like people, in general- (not assuming) are within the realm of being very honest. We as (Virgo's) are also- very forgiving. I know that I and many other Virgo's don't like controversy or dis-honesty. Yet we are, in my opinion- the most loyal of all included within the Zodiac.

Anyone would be "stupid" to say that we aren't?

heres my opinion..i'm a virgo and i've went to places with my mate and he left me to mingle alone..virgos usually get prepared in case of abandment..its not that they don't care about their partner its that they are shy and its like the fear of not getting to know others will leave them out..when i walk into a room of strangers or ocassional friends i talk right away so in case my mate decides to go chat elsewhere i have people around me..maybe thats why she did what she did..

VIRGO ARE LONER AND WE ARE VERY SCARED OF GETTING HURT AND VIRGOS DONT WEAR THERE HEART ON THERE SLEEVE SO IF THEY GIVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY YOU KNOW WE CARE WERE SHY AND SOMETIMES ALOOF BUT SOMETIMES WE DONT KNOW WHEN WERE BEING COLD I SUGGEST YOU TELL HER HOW SHE MADE YOU FEEL AND IF HE REALLY CARE IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN!

Hi there i think you should just give her time maybe she has had a rough time b4 and doesn't want 2 rush,being a virgo girl myself thats what me an boyfriend split up over he said i didnt take notice when ma friends were there,but i didnt notice it i think i just got so wrapped up im my self an thought every1 would just wait until i was ready to talk.Hope You work things out!!! luv a lovely Virgo!!

Yes, I agree thet virgo's are honest for the most part, AFTER they have gotten themselves in such a web, due to secrecy and GOd know's what. Then all the honesty comes out - after all the damage has already been done. This, is not honesty, this is selfishness! I know NOT all virgos have this trait, but I have seen it in this sigh so much lately - I never want to get involved with a virgo again!

I agree, once someone has my attention I'm there. This seems to scare some people off, so I try to contol myself.

This is incredible!I am a virgo female and my mate(s)seem to always leave me alone to mingle at social gatherings etc.Is it something in the virgo personality that makes men dump on them like that?

Hi Everyone, I beg to differ. It appears as if this virgo girl may be intersted however she is being cautious. This is a normal trait that virgos do not show their emotions unless they are comfortable with a person. My suggestion to you is to speak with her open and honestly. She will respond!! As far as acknowledging you in a brush off manner when she is with friend, it maybe that she does not want them in her business. It's all about trust. Virgos are cautious people whom you have to build a trusting friendship with. I am a true virgo: "perfectionist, easy-going, get along with almost everyone, high work ethic, moody, and organized. Scorp and virgos make a good team if they know how to communicate.