why do virgos have a hard time communicating?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Unregistered on Monday, February 11, 2002 and has 14 replies.

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@Unregistered
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Well, I don't think "virgos" are all that honest. I know my ex told a few lies to cover his a**. I was there and heard it with my own two ears. So, don't give me this "honest" crap. They are honest in a selfish way, that's it. Maybe mine was not a typical "virgo". All these traits that I have been hearing about virgo - I don't know!

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@Unregistered
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Virgos are misunderstood because they're critical-minded perfectionists. They usually don't mean to hurt, but want to help and it's misinterpreted. Virgo women are usually more mature than Virgo men.

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@Virginia
21 Years

I think it's very simple. Virgos distrust emotions. They surpress their feelings. If they would just open up from time-to-time, Virgos would make their lives easier.

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@Unregistered
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But this is the problem whats the big deal about expressing all your emotions virgos express themselves the same as everyone..they hold back because they hate arguements thats the bottom line.rather than cause a big racket they lie low whats wrong with trying to keep peace! what people has to realize is that we do have alot of emotions inside but we don't want to cause a problem to blow into a bigger one by letting frustrations out ..thats when the critical side well come out this is worst than any emotional scene because when we critizi we hit where it hurts the most the mental part not the physical part..and in most cases when we do critize we know what we are saying..we are our own worst enemies because we can't understand why others can/t keep it peaceful..this is when we withdraw into silence..

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When it comes to Virgo's? I feel that we are "very" critical and judgmental. I also feel that we try to protect ourselves from others. Whether it be friends or lovers, we as Virgo's want to remain neutral. Yet, we have our opinion about everything! I believe that Virgo's are introspective and afraid of any real emotion. Being a Virgo female I can only say that we can be viewed as being folks who are less than compassionate. It is not a Virgo trait that I admire yet it is something that I can understand. I dislike stupidity and refuse to be responsible for other's when they are ignorant. I'm not the person who will sit in judgment of others and I hope that fellow Virgo's will read this and acknowledge what I am saying. I am not perfect, nor will I ever be. I am not so righteous or perfect. Critically speaking? I find that Virgo's (being one) have a lot more to learn. Truthfully speaking. What are your thought's?

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@Unregistered
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I really don't know. I thought cancer's were complex, but I think virgo's have us beat. Being a cancer, I did all I could with my (ex)- as far as love, trust, emotional balance, comfort, safe. I think virgo's are fickle and think the grass is greener.
I know that sometimes I would be emotionally starving to death, and maybe a little taxing on my virgo guy - but I really could never figure him out. Very complex, confusing, drove me crazy! I would think a cancer would be good for a virgo? I think I need a scorpio instead.

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@Unregistered
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i know you must be hurting and can't sem to get over the breakup..i'm sorry for you but you have to understand that everyone is different and some open up more than others ..i still think the friendship part of your partnership should remain..sometimes it can lead to that virgo realizing how important you really are..by standing by him and uncinditional love and make anything change..love yourself and you'll accept your destiny..wishing you all the best

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Scorpios and Virgos are the most nonconfrontational and can have a hard time trying to express themselves without hurting anybody. As a Virgo girl, I do get scared when I'm not able to talk to someone, but I try.

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Thanks for your concern for my feelings regarding my breakup with my virgo boyfriend. I cannot and will not subject myself to any more pain regarding him. He causes chaos and pain in hearts and then expects others to "standby" him. A bit selfish, don;t you think? I am tooo good for this nonsense, and will seek out another who suits my needs. I am a cancer.