Metrics for a Virgo male trait

They say Virgos need a long time to see she is the one.

so let's ask our friends, relatives and colleagues for how long they have been dating their Virgo male until he decided she's the one.

Decisions on permanent relationship are mutual and it takes time, its not like jump in and jumps out stuff.

Consider it like bottle of fine wine. It should be taken tastefully and small amount at a time, drink it like water then it makes you puke!

do you have some numbers for us, QB?

so number so far.

Hummmm Numbers....!

No one can tell you how long will it take, it all depends on your behaviour, charm, attraction your delicacy and elegance!

They way you are, not the way you pretend to be.

Virgos are not stupid and never nose dive in any kind of relationship, even the shallow one.

But at the end... I was born and raised as aristocrat so the above was based on my own standards and my own perspective.

Don't take it seriously.

Virgos tend to take it slower than other guys, but there is no magic number.

I knew quickly (weeks versus months/years) with Virgo, Taurus, and Scorpio. Libra took much longer.

I tend to know quickly which ones AREN'T going to work, like with Aqua, Gem, Pisces, and Sag women.

Definitely not GEM??s or FISHES??_. They??re all put Virgos in the state of (DUH??_.)!? Like you are communicating with shadows..!

I am not so sure about saggies.. they are all fun to be with, as couple of my lady (friends) are saggies??_ I don't love??em but I never get tired of —em either. And aqua??s deserve more respect than Virgos general opinion of??em.

Qbone: And aqua??s deserve more respect than Virgos general opinion of??em.

You're right. I've been harsh on Aquas in the Real World. But I've met some on DXP that have changed my opinion of the Sign...

Secretly....!

I adore their sense of independencies and freedom...!

Don't tell anyone??_.

You ARE a Virgo - and that's no secret!

Hikoro, many thanks for your input. It means a lot to me. best wishes for you.

well what do u think about this? i need advice please.. i have been in a sexual relationship for 3 yrs with a virgo man now quite frankly it seems to have been booty calls but the last yr he has been more open and comfy but i have told him how much i love him and he had his heart broke many yrs ago and says he will never love again,when we are together its not just a bang and leave we spend the night together every time, i know he has to care somewhat right? i mean 3 yrs is a long time and i have been the only girl in 2 yrs until recently he said he was with another girl the other day but he was dissapointed when he was with the other one because and i quote even tho we are only sexual we are a perfect fit.. but when i tried to tell him it bothered me he said he didnt want to hear it ( not in a bad way) and we are not together every night it used to be every 3 months but past yr it has been alot more often but when i ask him out to do something he always has an excuse to not actually hang outand i dont mean in public i just mean anything , when he is over we talk for hours before we even have sex and the sex part is 100% totally awesome but then he will ignore me for days after. my question is will there ever be anything other than sex and will he ever be secure enough for a realtionship with me? am i just a booty call after 3 yrs? oh yea he is younger than me but i am 38 and he is almost 28 please help me anyone but preferrably a virgo guy mite be able to shed some light my bday is oct 28 1970 and his is aug 31 1981