my virgo friend

whats up!I haven't posted on the virgo board actually this is my first time.But I have browsed the virgo message boards.Ok moving right along.My friend alexis is a virgo and im a leo.I'm a nice person in which she knows but I can't understand why our friendship is so distant?

Continuing!Now I have known alexis since the 6th grade were both in college now and were both 22.Over the past 3 years we sort of developed a close relationship through a mutual friend.Anywho, I noticed that out the gang of friends we had mutually she gravitated toward me in a spiritual way.A light hearted relationships with me that I didn't see her have with anyone else.It's like we didn't hang out all the time but when her and I teamed up I saw a different person.But when were in a group setting I noticed how she adapted to everyone else, she never ignored me in that setting we wasn't as focued on each other.One time I was at her house and she explained to me that she wasn't feeling the group we were hanging with and only a few she trusted.Granted Im the same way.I know how virgos are ya'll don't trust just anybody!So after all is said and done alexis knows that I have a an dont take crap from anyone type of attitude im mean of course im a leo!smile!But what's bothering me is the distance.It's like we when do chill with a few friends it's like she changes and sort of acts phony like she's not that interrested in me or something.I'm like what is she bi-polar.So I have been calling within the past couple of months we hung out one time this summer and that was it.She called me after that to see how I was and that was it.I would call her and invite her out to go to clubs,bars,eatery's and such and her reply is always busy or with a boyfriend or shopping.Im like such a smack in the face.One day I called her and she didn't pick up.So my friend lorell our mutual friend called me and said she was with alexis that same day.Im like wow why she didn't call me she know I was calling her.She is very flakey and I hate people like that.Tell me the real if you don't want to be bothered than tell me.The last time I saw my friend alexis was on my bday on august6.I sent her a text and she wished me a happy birthday and that was that.Once again she disappeared.So I said Im never calling her again.Is this something that virgo's do.Im a leo and we are happy sunny people.I don't like surrounding myself around phony people and what not.I don't know if she is intimidated by me,jealous etc.I guess from what I told you guys you can give me a solution and some answers.IM OUT OF WORDS AT THIS POINT PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

dam nobody couldn't respond to my post.wow!!!!!!!

cherieamour,

You might want to find a new friend. Virgos are without a doubt the most disgusting people I have ever met. Find a friend that will be loyal to you and will be there for you. Ive been reading these posts for about 6 months now and its no coincidence that almost everyone here has more less the same issues. Virgos are egotistic and they are all about themselves. Its all about them. Ive met about 4 Virgos in my lifetime (one being my really, really good friend) and one I was in love with. All 4 are the same. Loyalty to me is everything and if a friend cant be loyal then he/she doesnt need to be your friend. Ignore her and run. Before you do though tell her face to face why.

>cherieamour21

Man, I'm sorry I'm so stoned atm... YOu wrote a LONG post and it deserves to be replied to by one of the resident V-dudes on DXP! But it's gonna have to wait a little bit... I'll get around to it I promise! DY! HALP! LOL.

ok, i just came from the leo board and i admit that i share some of alexis's traits, such as not picking up the phone when i don't want to be bothered. but i return the call, sometimes even several days later, and i always have an explanation as to why i didn't return the call earlier. as i said in my post on the leo board, i like to be by myself to contemplate about various matters. it's like a growth period for me, prioritizing things in my life. how is she flakey? is not returning your call immediately considered flakey? if so, then i guess i fit in this category too, lol. and about ignoring you when in a group setting, i don't do that to my close friends, i like to include everyone i care about. so i really don't know what her deal is. ditch her if you feel like she is short-changing you.

"I would call her and invite her out to go to clubs,bars,eatery's and such and her reply is always busy or with a boyfriend or shopping."

why don't try setting up a time with her so she can't weasle out of it? if she tries to, then you have your answer as to what her true colors are. my friends always set a date prior to getting together with me, i like to know in advance so i can organize my time. by the same token, i also let them know in advance when i want to get together with them because i know that everyone's schedules are not the same. sometimes i'm busy and my friends aren't, and other times when they're busy, i'm not. so if setting a get together fails with her, leave her in the dust.

thanx agent006 for the long response iy got chu.anyway how is she flaky well you read the post right she's flaky because one day she's all in my @ $ $ calling me wanting to chill and the next she's as cold as ice.yeah get!!!!!!I mean don't get me wrong I have my momoents when i don;t want to bet bothered but that when im going through my own ish.Other wise im pretty much cool.BUT its all good I just know to leave her @ $ $ alone.Thanx to everyone else whom also responded!!!!!

Maybe there's some underlying reason why she is avoiding you. Could she possibly be angry with you about something?