My Virgo Friend she's rude to me!

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Salvatore4869
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13 Years

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I knew this virgo girl for 1 year and half , she's been my friend..and we used to like eachother,she studies with my in the same class..and i sit in front of her next to a boy..i ve never said something wrong to her,cause i know how sensitive she can be,even if i said something normal she'll misunderstand it and bring a fight..one day when we were studying she said to me:dont talk to me again..and she started ignoring me...i really believe that i did nothing to her,anyway this is the fourth time she bring a fight with me and ignore me like that and i always apologize to her , this time i already apologized for thousand time,cause i care about our friendship !! unfortunately she ignored me , and refused my apologizing and even my greeting ..i know how stubborn virgo can be..""i tried to talk to her but as always ignoring"",its been 10 days we ve been ignoring eachother cause i thought maybe she needs space and spend some time alone, and my other friend SPOT HER LOOKING AT ME OVER 10 times ..she ignored my texting...all i can say that this is so rude !! i never treated a friend like this before , how can virgo be loyal when they are rude , she didnt respect me!! some people told me that if she was a true friend she wouldnt ignore me or refused greeting and apologizing..3 days ago my friend spoke to her about me , and told her that i cried..and that im hurt,she was so shocked to hear that but after that she's like nothing didnt speak to me..all i want is to be heard and understood.. please help me and answer this : if you guys were me ,would you ignore her??
why does she still ignore me ? does she need space?and for how long should i give her space ?another 2 weeks maybe..i want her to come to me first..i already did my best.
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virgodreamz
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Oh God! When I was in high school I used to do that silent treatment garbage to punish people lol. Who knows what you did that she took the wrong way. Virgos have reasons for getting offended but in my high school days getting me to say what was wrong was almost impossible. I think it's a pretty immature reaction so I say just do you. Be happy go about your business and every now and then if she's really important to you say hi and see if she's over it as yet but don't let her think you are pining over her anymore and don't cry that's just crazy lol. You are teaching her that if she acts like that when there's a problem you will always fall to your feet for her attention and she will ALWAYS act like that if you put up with it.
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Salvatore4869
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13 Years

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actually she was nice , but she's too proud , doesnt say hi , when she leaves she doesnt even say goodbye !! doesnt make the first move...its been 10 days.. -_-' ! i decided to ignore her ..but its so hard to ignore someone that i care about.
i ve heard that virgo when they like someone they play fights to get touchy feely,they become distant and cold..and thats rude ! ..i dont even greet her anymore , cause she didnt greet me back in the first :/
for how long i should keep this ignoring thing??
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Vcharm
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13 Years

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I remember my first girlfriend got me so mad i told her "I can't believe you", and ignored her for 2days. If she didn't try to get me to talk to her, and say sorry, I would have never talked to her again. So if you continue to ignore her, she will never talk to you again - that's that! Weird, yes, true, yes, it's a Virgo thing. We can live with or with out you - Mutable Sign. Master of being alone! If you got our love, you'll be one lucky SOB 😉 Me personally, I've grown up a lot, and know to handle situations better, and of course know when I made a mistake ( Leo will help a Virgo a lot ) It's your choice, if you want to go even lower to be friends with her, you know what to do. You'll have a stinky brown nose, is it worth it? You decide!
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cellardoor
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13 Years

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Could be she just can't handle your nervous energy.

As a virgo female, pushy, needy people make me distance myself, that includes not answering calls or txt messages or emails, etc. They drain too much of my energy. If that person was someone I consider a friend, someone I still like as a person for other traits they have, I'd just take a timeout and not contact them for a while. Soon enough I'd miss the part of them that makes me laugh and smile and I'd reach out to them again once I have the mental energy to. Now, if that person was someone I absolutely don't want to be friends with anymore, I'd definitely make it clear to them verbally, I might even insult them if it wasn't clear enough.

Seeing as though, your "friend" hasn't said anything mean to you, other than tell you not to talk to her anymore, it could be she needed space to think your friendship through, to come around again. on the other hand, she told you not to talk to her anymore. that could mean you didn't give her the space she needed so she made the snap decision to just end it.

If you don't really want to lose her, give her time. virgos are very forgiving imo, so no need to bring up old issues or press for answers. to keep in touch and let her know you're there, send her a joke once in a while. you know, something that doesn't require a response (so you won't feel slighted, which would just make her feel more guilty and distance herself some more). if you do that, she'll eventually come around i think.
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JazSexyAzz
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Ill tell yu like my Taurus friend tells me...
"I hope yu know I don't give a f*ck about your attitude so get over yourself"
and she starts a convo with or without my input. I'd get mad because I really
am stubborn and sometimes I expect ppl to chase me to show that they care, but
I'd end up letting it go sooner or later. yu should approach her lik my friend did
so that way she' ll let the bullsh*t go without hurting her pride.
This is also the reason why she didn't speak to yu even though she was told your upset;
Her pride just won't let her [our pride is one of our biggest downfalls]. Get
your friend back by force...