Do Virgo girls ever take the initiative ?!

I always take the initiative, but sometimes I get tired of it. I once told her about it, and she said she was an old-fashioned type of woman, so I had to always take the initiative. I guess I have to be patient, right now she has been MIA for 4 days, sometimes I get tired of her disappearing, but then I think about it and I do the same thing ( typical Taurus haha )recently she's been acting more and more friendly towards me, when before she used to be this cold, quite girl.
The last thing she said before disappearing was that she was really really impressed of every single detail that I remember about her telling me and even more surprised when I complimented her of what she was wearing one night I saw her at a restaurant with her friends. Maybe I scared her off ... what do you guys think ?

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Nope. She will always look for you to do everything good or bad. Even if you put your foot down, it doesn't matter, she'll somehow squirm her way from under it. Either do what she says, or leave. (Which is take the initiative) Or either become criticized about it, for the duration of the relationship. My opinion only.🙂

Yikes !! No wonder she reacted in a defensive way when I tried to put my "foot down " haha, Well it was a couple of weeks ago, We talked things over and now We are in good terms again. Indeed she criticized me for it, but later apologized telling me that if I didn't want to talk to her that she'll understand but to please think about it ...

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Nope. She will always look for you to do everything good or bad. Even if you put your foot down, it doesn't matter, she'll somehow squirm her way from under it. Either do what she says, or leave. (Which is take the initiative) Or either become criticized about it, for the duration of the relationship. My opinion only.🙂

Haha. This! I mean we will take initiative in other perhaps less noticeable ways. For everytime u want us to initiate something think of a time we've already done something (helpful) for you. Initiating will come with trust big guy....

Plus what u may consider.initiating she might not. I dated a Bull n he was a slow moving guy. To him tho, he was prolly.initiating in one way or the other lol. I might have never took notice tho

& vice versa.

It's been almost a week since she disappeared, won't answer/return my calls or texts, We didn't fight or anything. Should I be worried ? Should I just leave her alone for a while, giver her space ? but then again how do I know when she's ready to talk to me again.. Help !!

Posted by Peanutbutter

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Nope. She will always look for you to do everything good or bad. Even if you put your foot down, it doesn't matter, she'll somehow squirm her way from under it. Either do what she says, or leave. (Which is take the initiative) Or either become criticized about it, for the duration of the relationship. My opinion only.🙂

Haha. This! I mean we will take initiative in other perhaps less noticeable ways. For everytime u want us to initiate something think of a time we've already done something (helpful) for you. Initiating will come with trust big guy....

Plus what u may consider.initiating she might not. I dated a Bull n he was a slow moving guy. To him tho, he was prolly.initiating in one way or the other lol. I might have never took notice tho

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For example, about two months ago We didn't see each other or talk to each other for a couple of weeks, mostly because I had to travel and was kind of busy. When I called her to see how she was doing, she told me she was getting worried because I didn't make contact with her during those weeks. If you're worried about someone, go ahead and call, text whatever. She told me that she was waiting for me to call her because she didn't want to bother me .. It's always the same excuse ..

It's true, we don't wanna be a nuisance to anybody
:/.

Tell her she's not buggin you n that you'd prefer it if she contacted you when her heart desires. Tell her how u feel that it makes you wonder if she likes you or not.

We just don't wanna be smothering, that's all.

Posted by Peanutbutter
It's true, we don't wanna be a nuisance to anybody
:/.

Tell her she's not buggin you n that you'd prefer it if she contacted you when her heart desires. Tell her how u feel that it makes you wonder if she likes you or not.

We just don't wanna be smothering, that's all.

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