
ariesbabie
@ariesbabie
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Posted by ariesbabie
UGHHHHH I'm gonna kill him, You virgos can drive a person crazy. I want to tell him what I saw and confront him about lying right to my face when i asked about her before i even say the pictures, and see what he says and how he reacts when he's about to lose me.
I really dont think he had sex with her. She's young, has a kid, baaad reputation, same area i think he's just being retarted and never thought i'd see them. Which is still wrong in itself but LETS SEE, when i bring it up. This is just crazy to me i think i'm in shock. I'm really not a stupid person this is just really out of the blue.
Is there ever a good reason to take a person back after this? Or do you guys beleive if i do hear him out ill probably cave into his good acting skills and it'll happen again. If you let a mouse have a cookie he's gonna want a glass of milk too right...




Posted by ariesbabie
LOL wgamador I was trying to do good for once 😢
That blew up in my face. I should do what i know best and be the sign of self. Back to not giving a shit about men? and more ME TIME.
Virgos can be so contradictory sometimes.
Why cant you say what you mean and mean what you say 😢
Aries are so straightforward, no head games.
This is gonna be an ugly conversation with me and him. I can just picture him going crazy.



Posted by Layna
Aw shoot. 😢
I don't think there's anything to "Talk it out, see what's going on"...
Time to end the relationship, in my opinion? There's never "the right time". It just gives an excuse to hold out a little longer, tbh.


Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Hmmm...Wgamador + ariesbabie = DXP hookup? Holla!
🙂


Posted by DoubleGem2
I am sorry but I cant read these long OP's...............break it down🙂








Posted by ariesbabie
I said i'm done. BUT
Me and him had a long ass talk about this. He never had sex with the girl in the pictures but admits to hanging out with her and 2 of his friends 8-9 times. He said she got his number from one of his friends and they have been conversing. She did send him pictures partially nude and others of just her. He fessed up to it and was begging me for a new start, saying that i'm the only one he wants to be with, nobody means anything to him etc i have no idea how much he actually loves me and appreciated me, that im right about the company that he's been keeping is wrong (guys in mid-late twenties having done nothing really with their life except drinking/smoking weed) he told them never to bring her around again, he wants to do anything to move past this and he's changing his number/phone etc.
I said i just need to process, know the full truth, and be alone right now.
In order to maintain my dignity I should just cut ties right, but do you think theres a point in a second chance?

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
If there's smoke there's fire.
While the sheering pain of the break up in the beginning can be brutal there is nothing like the taste of pride when you are able to look back and say to yourself, "What this person did to me was wrong. I stood up for myself. I walked away. Gooooooo me.".
I think many people stay after cheating because it is easier than all the thoughts that come after... It's normal to want to internalize, try to decide how you could have done better, blah blah blah. But then one day you brush yourself off and think... Wait a sec, no way, eff that sorry twit. I'm going to advocate for me!
Or you can be a gluten for punishment. Go ahead take him back, but I'd lean towards his bad behvior resurfacing in the future... when you're even more invested. Or perhaps you could be one of the few that work it out. Although... I think to many people get caught up thinking they and their relationships are the exception to the rule. "I'm different, we're different. All the other people's experiences are very different from my super unique experience."
I'm just a little more realistic than that. I know I fall into the larger percentages. 😉
Regardless of what you decide to do I wish you well and I hope this guy doesn't rob you of anything else. Trust is such a delicate thing. Have it stolen enough and you'll begin to change deep inside where it takes a lot of work to fix.
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We had to make a few stops then we went out for dinner. He was unusually possesive and freaking out at everything or everyone who happend to look my way.
Anyways so last night i looked through his phone entirally for the first time and I see pictures of that girl in his phone, she sent him partially naked photos(bottom half) and a few of just her face. I also saw a 2 second video of her wearing lo and behold his shirt!!! and a video of her posted up against a bridge bubbling back towards the camera with him in the background saying that looks good etc etc.
I read the text messages between them nothing vulgar just hi, whats up etc. I talked to a mutual friend of mine and his(more his) and asked him about her... He said they just chill out sometimes when they run into eachother or have a couple drinks and that he knew nothing of the pictures (figures)
My man is not around today so i havent got a chance to bring it up He got into some issues yesterday he had to deal with so i went home alone with his phone, stuff etc.
So he point blank lied to me about knowing this female. Anyways the reason why i am writing about this is because it's so out of the blue. All he's been talking about for the longest time is about building a future, how much he loves me, he introduced me to his family formally. Time to end this relationship in your opinion? Talk it out, see what's going on.