I miss My Virgo :(

But, I go to FL to see him tomorrow!!!! 😄

Been darn near 5 months now...

I wanna be a newbie, can I, can I—? *raising hand, jumping up and down*

He said he misses me and has been trying to get me to come to FL for months now, do you think he means it— He's a Virgo after all, I don't want to read too much into it...

😛

Yea, I think that he means it. He COULD be just waiting for you to say that you'll come to Florida permanently.

lol @69

I am excited! I do miss him... he knows that though. Not sure how I'm to react when I see him... it goes more through my mind about how he is going to react. Which, in reality, could really set me up for disappointment if he doesn't respond as I think he would, should or could.

@PMG - he's coming home for the summer, he just winter's in FL - as he puts it "I'm coming home baby" 🙂

Ka-boom!!!!!!!!!!!! Get ready for the fireworks.

😄 😄 Updates?

Updates are nice.

Updates are chewy.

Let's just say, I had a great time 😄

Actually, it was pretty much all work and really no play. But, that is what I expected (and prefer) anyway; I need to be doing something constructive. We did get another horse together so we were busy at the sale for a few days and taking care of our new boy. Anyway, we still like each other and not at each others throat after 6 days and a grueling 20 hr drive home (straight through)...

For those of you just joining in this tale ... her Virgo isn't an intimate partner .. it's her business associate

That's why after 5 months of being apart .. they had no play time and was all work .. just in case you're scratching your heads trying to figure out why no fun, and all work after a seperation of nearly a half a year.

lildoll 😄 😄 thats great to hear, all you need to do now is cooking him a yummy meal and he'll be all yours 😛 (literally)

@P: Yeah, he introduces me as his main woman and calls me Boo... I suppose that's indicative of a purely business relationship. As far as working on the trip, what else is there to do? I don't do beaches, sight seeing or shopping - those are not constructive, educational nor provide any sense of pleasure or accomplishment (which is directly equated to pleasure). He's the same as me in that respect!

@Shaks: Thanks 🙂 He does like my cooking...

Tossed Salads too? 😛 joking

There is something very endearing about the way you go on about this relationship, it seems that against all odds, there truly seems like there is much more compatibility than one may assume, even though this compatibility may not temporarily translate into you two deciding to live together or closer to one another. There is much acceptance from how the other views things 🙂 I like that personally.

It works 🙂

He came back up from FL this morning but didn't get home before I had to go to work. Said he misses me already. He's not very romantic, but I suppose after you spend a week with someone and 20 hrs on the road and they miss you a day later there is something there... (and, P, that's not suggestive of a purely business relationship if you must be educated on such things).

Although, some of the things he says confuses me (e.g., "I want you to find someone who can be with you all the time" - given the fact he goes to FL for the winter). But, one of his good friends told me last night that he thinks he says such things to throw me off guard and test me in some respect. Thoughts on that anyone—

Lildol's Virgo has moon in Pisces if I remember well..if there's a combo that can be easily misunderstood in how they think/feel v.s. how they convey it into words, that is the Virgo/Pisces one.

@Shaks: You are usually spot on with your memory, but you may be confusing his moon with my prior experiences with a Pisces... My Virgo's moon is in Scorpio.

@Scorporella: so there ya go 🙂

I think testing may be too strong of a word though, but certainly to see how I react/respond sometimes. And some of those things can elicit a very strong reaction from me, which he finds rather cute 😛

He did make a point to be able to see me yesterday before he got back on the road. He could have just as easily said he had to get going, but instead asked me if I wanted to grab a drink with him before he left. We spent about an hour together, and he didn't seem like he wanted to leave - I finally shooed him away and told him to get going (in a nice way, of course).

Oh, and P, he demanded a kiss before parting (which turned into like 3 or 4 because he wouldn't just leave)... again, suggestive of a purely business relationship...

Posted by lildol

He did make a point to be able to see me yesterday before he got back on the road. He could have just as easily said he had to get going, but instead asked me if I wanted to grab a drink with him before he left. We spent about an hour together ....

wow, lucky you, after 5 months your business associate made a point to be able to see you .. a whole hour, huh?

Or, is it .... lucky him?

^^^^go to hell (and I say that in an ever so nice way)... remember I did just spend 6 days and a 20 hr drive home, he had only been away a day! That should have been enough to have him running for the hills (I wouldn't want to spend that kind of time with me) 😛

and indeed, it is lucky him 😄

Heheh us virguy/cappy girl couples just know how to have a good "quasi-fight", just for the fun of it..both knowing it's not serious. I like that 😛