I have been having staring contest..lol..with this guy. First we totally were smiling and now its just hardcore stares. I"m going to give him my number soon as I frequent his workplace. I just want to make sure on this one. If a virgo guy was not interested, would he stare at me like he does everytime I see him. I initiate the hello, but when I walk away and turn around, he is staring and I stare back and its like forever before I turn around again.....
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Ya he's interested....especially with you in the bed. Hes definitly the shy Virgo, just know that you'll need to initiate everything and this could cause problems later...

The stare is his desire for you to lead him in bed ... the male Virgo is sexually submissive, and could sit staring for a lifetime, waiting for YOU to make the move.
They lack that certain umpth that people consider a turn-on, because the only thing they ever do to suggest you're special is stare ... YOU have to do everything else.
It's pointless giving him your number ... he will just continue to stare waiting for you to be the aggressor.
They lack that certain umpth that people consider a turn-on, because the only thing they ever do to suggest you're special is stare ... YOU have to do everything else.
It's pointless giving him your number ... he will just continue to stare waiting for you to be the aggressor.
thanks Vcharm, for the great post and making me feel more at ease. I don't chase, well I usually have not had to in the past, but this is different. I just want to get all this ish clarified between us if there is anything and then...he is gonna have to do some work if he wants me, but if he's just staring to stare..then I"m gone. But your right, I have felt in my soul, that he is interested. Thanks
P-Angel, you pretty much bit my head off and chewed it off answering my other question. YOu basically said its all in my head, whcih I know isn't. And flirting was getting hurful because I did something one day and he ignored me for awhile, I didn't post it because its too long. Anyways, thanks for trying.
P-Angel, you pretty much bit my head off and chewed it off answering my other question. YOu basically said its all in my head, whcih I know isn't. And flirting was getting hurful because I did something one day and he ignored me for awhile, I didn't post it because its too long. Anyways, thanks for trying.

Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
YOu basically said its all in my head, whcih I know isn't. And flirting was getting hurful because I did something one day and he ignored me for awhile ....
It is all in your head. He didn't ignore you for awhile .. you said yourself that you go to the store once a month or so and during this once a month shopping trip, you non-verbally flirt with him, and he looks at you.
That's it ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
There is no relationship, there is just you who likes a boy and flirts with him, and so now you think there are suppose to be feelings involved .. because you said that it is becoming hurtful. It's becoming hurtful because you have a delusion running around inside your brain, in which leads you to falsely believe he has feelings.
If YOUR feelings weren't involved then you'd have no reason to believe that it was turning into a hurtful situation ... and he's just a dude who works at the grocery store, whom you've never even met.
that's pretty fucking deluded .. and yeah, it is definitely all in your head. Now, I could care a less about your little feelings getting hurt by me, in you saying I chewed your head off ... I really don't give a fuck if it hurt your feelings.
You're the one who came to stand in front of an audience and spill your own fucking shit out to air in public ... if you can't handle your own goddamn self, then perhaps you should have had enough sense to shut yourself up.

lol, I just read your other thread ... the one where you started babbling the moment someone called you out on your bullshit about how do you know he's a Virgo if you've two have never talked, and then your ass started talking in saying you just know, because you just know these things without being told.
... yet you come in here to ask what it means when someone looks at you.
lol ... what a babbling idiot
... yet you come in here to ask what it means when someone looks at you.
lol ... what a babbling idiot
Posted by P-Angel
The stare is his desire for you to lead him in bed ... the male Virgo is sexually submissive, and could sit staring for a lifetime, waiting for YOU to make the move.
They lack that certain umpth that people consider a turn-on, because the only thing they ever do to suggest you're special is stare ... YOU have to do everything else.
It's pointless giving him your number ... he will just continue to stare waiting for you to be the aggressor.
yep. mine rarely initates, drives me nuts.
Posted by Loveorlust
P- angel why are you so bitter and who made you the final authority! Some people have connections like that and most of us know how fickle Birman can be! I think you slammed me several months Go when I was confused on where I stolid with my virgo guy! I'm still seeing him, I am crazy a out him even though he is ways working! I find a hard working man very sexy so the time we have together is sweet! We started out the same way, he would just stare at me until he new I wanted him so bad! Anyway I'm trying to say that some of us are intuitive and we connect with certain people and just have a feeling about them.
Oh P-angel just has an implacable perspective on us Virgos.

Posted by Loveorlust
I'm still seeing him, I am crazy a out him even though he is ways working! I find a hard working man very sexy so the time we have together is sweet! We started out the same way, he would just stare at me until he new I wanted him so bad! Anyway I'm trying to say that some of us are intuitive and we connect with certain people and just have a feeling about them.
What the fuck does that have to do with being contrary to what I said when I said, the virgo stares at you because he wants you to come hither?
What an idiot.

Because calling you out on being a cunt, such as we see below is being bitter, when in reality ....
Posted by Loveorlust
Ok I'm married he's married but neither of us is "happy" sexually at home. I met this man at work were he came onto me, we ended up having a blast together, messed around and know we have been flirting and every 2 weeks we have some sort of sexual encounter. Neither of us wants to destroy our home lives, but seem to enjoy the flirting and occasional touching. We like each other, enjoy each others company but both have stated that our families are first. Problem is we found out we live 1 mile away from each other in a very small town, we both are very careful to keep the energy out of the public eye. This has been going on for a month now! I hate being at work now when he is not there, what am I doing? I have read that Virgos are very slow movers in relationships and getting to open up, he seems to trust me and I trust him to keep this on the downlow ! Help he is driving me crazy! Should I just stop even playing this game that I enjoy- he says he feels guilty ....
... it really is you being a cunt

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/flirty-married-virgo-3419016/
People need to read that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ... you are such a fucking bitch that when your husband got ill, you turned to another man.
I like how Vcharm in here ran to your side before he ever knew how much of a low-life you are. Perfect example of how once the Virgo has an emotion, he becomes senseless.
You're a worthless human being, and I mean that sincerely ... your husband of many, many years took care of you, and the moment he got sick, you fucked another man.
That energy is coming back to you ...... god help you then
People need to read that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ... you are such a fucking bitch that when your husband got ill, you turned to another man.
I like how Vcharm in here ran to your side before he ever knew how much of a low-life you are. Perfect example of how once the Virgo has an emotion, he becomes senseless.
You're a worthless human being, and I mean that sincerely ... your husband of many, many years took care of you, and the moment he got sick, you fucked another man.
That energy is coming back to you ...... god help you then
Posted by Loveorlust
P- angel why are you so bitter and who made you the final authority! Some people have connections like that and most of us know how fickle Birman can be! I think you slammed me several months Go when I was confused on where I stolid with my virgo guy! I'm still seeing him, I am crazy a out him even though he is ways working! I find a hard working man very sexy so the time we have together is sweet! We started out the same way, he would just stare at me until he new I wanted him so bad! Anyway I'm trying to say that some of us are intuitive and we connect with certain people and just have a feeling about them.
exactly!!!! There are certain nuances that you obviously understand..lol. He stares and the stares linger like puppy eye lingering, and its not in my friggen head. I can understand a little bit how it can be perceived all in my head if you want to look at it from one angle, but again, their are nuances and chemistry that can't be expressed in writing...its electric..lol....
Posted by P-Angel
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/flirty-married-virgo-3419016/
People need to read that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ... you are such a fucking bitch that when your husband got ill, you turned to another man.
I like how Vcharm in here ran to your side before he ever knew how much of a low-life you are. Perfect example of how once the Virgo has an emotion, he becomes senseless.
You're a worthless human being, and I mean that sincerely ... your husband of many, many years took care of you, and the moment he got sick, you fucked another man.
That energy is coming back to you ...... god help you then
why all the hostility..in general?
Posted by Loveorlust
This is bitter!
It is all in your head. He didn't ignore you for awhile .. you said yourself that you go to the store once a month or so and during this once a month shopping trip, you non-verbally flirt with him, and he looks at you.
That's it ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
There is no relationship, there is just you who likes a boy and flirts with him, and so now you think there are suppose to be feelings involved .. because you said that it is becoming hurtful. It's becoming hurtful because you have a delusion running around inside your brain, in which leads you to falsely believe he has feelings.
If YOUR feelings weren't involved then you'd have no reason to believe that it was turning into a hurtful situation ... and he's just a dude who works at the grocery store, whom you've never even met.
that's pretty treetrunking deluded .. and yeah, it is definitely all in your head. Now, I could care a less about your little feelings getting hurt by me, in you saying I chewed your head off ... I really don't give a treetrunk if it hurt your feelings.
You're the one who came to stand in front of an audience and spill your own treetrunking butter out to air in public ... if you can't handle your own goddamn self, then perhaps you should have had enough sense to shut yourself up.
thanks..and also...you do sound bitter as well
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