Pisces needs Virgo - Virgo needs Pisces

It can be a wonderful match! As much as I say I "can't stand" the "critical and forever logical" virgo approach to life... I am wildly attracted to this very thing :-) They make great friends AND lovers (some patience required, and vice versa :-)

I'm new and LOVE the boards- have been "lurking" for days...

I posted yesterday on the sag board, but, it never showed up- It was a LONG one too!

This is a test post... hopefully it shows... but if not, I'll assume it's just not meant to be :-)

~~~ HOORAY FOR SPRING!! ~~~

Sorry to disappointing you lady
Stay a hell away from fishes? not worth it.

Uh-oh- a fish hater 😢
I guess I should've professed my love of virgos over on the fish board... sorry!

No problem lady.... you're always welcome back here...... fish or not

Problem with fishes and Virgo?..

They always ask, "if the are lucky to have a Virgo around" and when they get what the wanted to know? they forget... where the help was coming from? well... that?s pretty usual.

But...!! Then again when they get lost "as usual" and the Virgo friend help them out? they always "do" what ever they wanted to do "again" and "still"? come back to Virgo friend an ask for "help"? again for "what the hell went wrong"—?..lmao? !

I have 11 fishes behind me and they behave exactly the same?. Lucky me, that I never got involved "in their love"—?.. damn cold blooded fishes.

God help the rest

However

If any "fishes" take this as an "offence"? ! Sign up here and wait to kiss my shiny ass.
🙂

Hi 4theluvofSea.

You know, you're absolutely right. Virgo and Pisces . . .God I have a weakness for Piscean women. That inherent flower child mentality is a drastic pull.

We balance each other. The qualities one sign lacks, the other has in abundance . . .perfect match. Providing the typical Sept Virgo can curb the critical thing. There has to be acceptance for the differences of the other, that's the only way it'll work.

The tendency towards sappiness, emotional connection. . .I love it. What gets me is the impracticality lol. The Piscean pixie dust that makes everything turn out all right. I'm not so believing, but again. It's a balancing thing.

To all Pisces women, this Virgo loves you 😉

Stay as precious as you all are.

VirgoSquared

Hi VirgoSquared :-)

When you said:
"There has to be acceptance for the differences of the other, that's the only way it'll work."
You hit it right on :-) You are beautiful!
Love will be the binder, and with this acceptance, the strong will survive. I could write a book on Virgo/Pisces relationships- I just might :-)!

Q-Bone- I think your blowing smoke- you love fish and you know it :-) 11 pisces behind you huh? Sounds like your a magnet... I only know one other pisces besides myself, (and she's family.) But, Virgos, they show up at my doorstep in truckloads! Hmmmm..... fish food for thought :-)

4theloveofsea......
Hands off my virgo q-man......he's my cyber-boyfriend...and lots more besides:-)
I get an inkling that you two are being drawn together -.....I am getting jealous and aquarians "don't do" jealousy.....:-)

Welcome 4theloveofsea........great name.

Alana x

Hi Alana!

Thank you for the welcome :-)
I didn't put my hands on him, I swear! I only peeked :-)

4theluvofsea

Yeah 11 fishes...

I didn't say I hate or love fishes..! Those are my real time/cyber and co workers friends. You expecting that I pick up people (I like to know) by their start sign..?? hehe.

I know many people at any age/race/colours/ethnic backgrounds/"different star signs"/genders/educated/uneducated.. and so on?!

So when I said.. 11 fishes? if it is not more? it is at least 11?! This is the beauty of being aged ..!

Now.. When I said fishes are boring.... yeah.. they are..! You don?t want to believe me..?? Fine by me...! prove they hey are not.!

My gorgeous and beautiful Lady Alana?!

I am speechless about what you've just said? words are failing me lady, hopefully you already know what is in my head and heart about you.!

Branh0913

You're right about some of the things you said, but in my case - I'm with my Virgo because I WANT to be with him. Ok, so, I need him too, but I also want and love him for who he is - he's solid, sensible and even fun loving and believe it or not - he's artistic (in his own way). But, I do understand the things you say. But, I think the difference in him and what looks like most of the male Virgo's in here, he's whipped - completely and totally whipped and . . .

that's the way I like it, uh ha, uh ha . . . that's the way

Hey there branh0913 :-)

Can I share some of my experiences with you?
I'm Pisces, he's Virgo- and we've been to hell and back with each other!

It did seem so romantic in the beginning- & there was a very, very intense attraction to one another. Appeal I did find in my Virgo, and him in me- things I personally hadn't previously "looked for" in a someone, or had much experience with; specifically the logic, practicality, & groundedness- and in a tender, kind, & sensitive man also! Beleive it or not, he liked my "way of thinking"- that I was also logical in certain terms, also sensitive, kind, compassionate, and understanding amongst other things. He also liked my creative thinking and abilities, and, I in him, as Virgo can also be very creative, especially in his practicality. After our first year of dating & "fun" and good feelings- we moved in together... the honeymoon period ended very abruptly, and it all went downhill quick. I found that he lacked the ability to form an emotional bond with me- intimacy was very difficult, and then, non-existent. I beat myself up for a long time feeling "inadequate" to my critical, "picky", perfectionist, Virgo. I felt unable to live up to some strange set of "expectations", which he just wouldn't come out and say... and I couldn't read into. His logic & practicality, the very things I adored on one spectrum, began to painfully grate on my sensitive nerves... and my emotions, and god-forbid my tears, scared him away even further. We found the vulnerabilities in each other, and used them to hurt each other, causing this crazy wheel we were on to spin faster and faster- and it almost did us in, but we discovered- the joy in our differences- and compromise. We just couldn't put it down, even after all of the hurt- because we were still "crazy" for each other.

Take today for example: Me & Virgo took the babies out for a scenic drive to enjoy this fabulous spring day! (He enjoys taking in the nature found along the wooded back roads, and while he commentates on houses, memories, etc. I casually kick back in my dream land and enjoy the ride:-) I wanted to go to Borders and get some books- so I told him before we left the house (I know my Virgo likes to know exactly WHERE we are going, and exactly HOW we will get there, before getting in the car :-) Sooo... he's a little nervous, because he's never been there before, but he likes books, (something we have in common) so he's optimistic. On the way there, he mentions several times that he is getting hungry, and I KNOW, god do I know, that if we don't feed this man something quick, AND up to standards, he will be in a bad, bad mood. We are not near home, so we decide to eat at this cute little family oriented ice cream/sandwiches kind of place that neither of us has ever tried. Unlike me, who looks forward to surprises, HE was skeptical and timid- at first- but part of our "compromise" is that he'd agree to try some new things, for us (and not be so damn rigid!) The place was really nice & virgos meal was acceptable- and he felt happy, and proud to try something out of the safe & secure walls of "ordinary". He thanked me for this, and we even kissed and hugged in public :-) In the borders parking lot, he was a little agitated looking for a parking space- I questioned waiting 40 minutes for a close spot, when we could park now, and save 39 minutes and .3 miliseconds. WE laughed and he agreed. Once I made my way through the glass doors of borders, any reality I'd been holding on to at all, left me at once, and I abandonded Virgo with the babies, still curbside, immediately. They found me, 20 minutes later, in the astrology section, my arms already full of books- he looked pretty agitated. I aologized for being so selfish, and led him over to the history section, told him that this is where the Virgos hang out, pointed to the leather bound chair and said, "I'll take the babies and pay for this."- He enjoyed his time spen

branh0913,

Glad you appreciated my story- after posting it, I thought, I'd better stick with my book :-) I love to write also, and envision something more in depth on compatibility between the complex synastry of the signs rather than the easier found sun sign vs. sun sign, "compatible or not" reference- They are good "general" guides, but also quite misleading.

To answer your question, yes, my Virgo is sept born- 9/11- and just for the record, he is 11 years older than me also. Maturity does most definately play a part in any relationship. In my dating and relationship past, I too have wandered and roamed, leaving GREAT guys behind, in pursuit of, really, myself. Its taken me a long time to understand my own wants and needs, and subsequently, I have been called a "heartbreaker", too many times. But, understand, these times were very painfull and confusing for me also- that inner conflict thing- hard to live with. I felt I'd never settle down, be "content" with one person... I think the word is "wanderlust"- it felt like a disease! Then I met Virgo... NOT "the one" I was expecting... and man, this guy DID NOT bend over kissing my butt like all the others, he was very "cold" and "detached" during the times that I (emotionally) needed him the most, he was NO Don Juan simply put- but, honestly, I COULDN'T walk away from this man!! I'd threaten it, I'd ponder it- BUT I could see under his surface- something very rare and beautiful- kind of imprisoned there... and I wanted that- needed that- loved that.

I consider myself very lucky to have a best friend who is also a (female) virgo, because I can see the similarities in the sign, and also the females perspective, which allows me to gain an even greater understanding. She is also sept born :-) (9/9)

I just wanted to mention something really exciting (in my opinion) regarding the houses. The sixth house, which Virgo would fall into is the house of service & health, often called the house of "service to others"- It indicates a need to help others and to be useful in the world. In the old days it governed a persons attitude towards servants and those of inferior standing. Today, this house rules your relationship with the people you work with, with those who are subordinate, and with your employers.

Now... ponder this...

The twelfth house (pisces), is the house of secrets, sorrows and self undoing. It is the most mystical of all the houses, the final house, the end of the circle. It defines the limitations placed on your life, including by yourself through self un-doing behavior. This house governs dissapointments, accidents, trouble & self defeat. It rules unseen forces, secret enemies, escapism, asylums, hospitals, and prisons. The twelfth house has been called the house of Karma, the house of spiritual debt, for it contains the rewards and punishments for the deeds one commits in the world. It is associated with psychic powers and the ability to discover, at last, the meaning of life.

You form your own opinion, but, I say, Virgos and pisces NEED each other for DEEP karmic reasons :-) And that initial magnetic attraction speaks much!

So anyway branh0913, (I'll come back down to earth for you:-) don't give up on pisces!! Your princess quite possibly needs to mature- and please never forget that even if she is not the one, there are "plenty of fish in the sea"...

And WOW- neither Virgo I love has a knack, or desire, for poetry- So you get 5 *****'s for that and an extra five for taking the challenge to understand yourself :-)
Have a wonderful day!! :-)