Please help me with this virgo man

He did open up. He would do those things for anyone he considers a friend. Go out and live your life and if he/when he wants more, he will let you know. It's on him if its too late and you move on with something more serious with someone else.

Uhhh... It sounds to me like you're the one feeling all these emotions and not him. If he likes you , he would say it. If he wanted to be with you he would show it. Us Virgo males are really interesting in that we are naturally kind ond helpful. When it comes to us liking you or wanting to start a serious relationship with you, we have no problem saying it to you because you have been scrutinized from inside out. Cheers!!!

I can't stand stupid people ... I just can't.



He told you straight up that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, so you broke up with him for it.

then turn around and contact him a year later with intentions of getting him to change his mind and decide to have a relationship with you.

when he still isn't interested in getting serious with you ... you decide to say that he's lying to himself.

I guess because you think you are all that .. and how is it possible that he doesn't also believe you are all that.




The only person in this scenario who isn't facing reality, is you

I'm curious why you got back in touch with him?

You can't make him feel more for you nor change his mind by contacting him first. Had you waited for him to contact you then yes you'd have a good chance of being in a relationship because he's the one seeking you out and still interested in you and your life, you're still on his mind but given that you contacted him, he's still stuck in the unsure position.

Waste of your time. Of course he's apprehensive because he sense you're looking for something--least that's how it appears or why else would come back to a guy that rejected you so yes he's going to be slow with you.

He was honest with you and he let you go which actually solidifies what he told you when he said he wasn't attracted to you enough to commit. Maybe you needed to go back to make sure he meant what he said which is understandable but I think you're headed back down the same old road of rejection. He's not going to take the next step.

In order for him to take the next step, that would mean him INITIATING contact first which means he'll naturally feel safe and open with you and that's the only way this is going to turn itself around. Men smell desperation and you going to him reeks of desperation, I know that's not how you wanted it to appear but yeah that's how you finding him came across, he'll strike up the friendship but not much more than that will happen because it has to be HIS IDEA or it won't work.

Hobbity I sense other ulterior motives as well, he's earning so you see a chance for reconciliation to pick up in a better space now that he's working and much more at peace with himself which is okay. If you feel he can offer you a real relationship then you'll have to open your heart again but don't be all that surprised if he's still not ready to the kind of man you need and want.

Unfortunately, it sounds as if you need to take him at face value, because if he was interested in anything more, you have given him ample opportunity to pursue that. He'll like the attention, and the connection you have, but there might be something scaring him off, and it's not going to go away. The fact that he talked to you about feeling inadequate about entering into a relationship does suggest he once considered going there with you, but if he really was sold, he wouldn't have used the career as an excuse, he would have seen you as a partner that would better him towards his goals. He probably still likes being admired, and Virgos do have the ability to reconcile after time off, but he's more likely than not just going to give you false hope.

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