Miss Aries has been living with her dad now since Thanksgiving... and... her dad is going to be relocating to North Carolina due to downsizing (either relocate or lose job)... and so far it looks like she's going with him.
So I asked how much begging I'd have to do to get her to stay, she said it won't work cuz she doesn't want her dad to be living alone...
Then I mention... hmmmm I just finished college, what if I get a job there. She likes that idea... but that might be rough on me. Pfft. Decisions decisions.
That and if I get an ambitious streak I could get myself into tons of debt by going to UNC at Chapel Hill for my masters... hmmmmm... Sounds good but probably won't happen... maybe.
"So I asked how much begging I'd have to do to get her to stay"
OMG . . begging?
Pathetic, vpmoon, simply pathetic. But, she's Aries, so she probably ate it up. In fact, knowing the Rams obession with being center of attention, I wouldn't be surprised if she really didn't want to move with Dad . . but, this way, certainly she can gain some from you . . begging.
Their such attention whores . . you seem to handle it . . it would drive me nuts.
Don't try this with Pisces, or she'll laugh in your face and toss you to the curb,lol
My daughter-in-law is an Aries and she adores her father . . however, when I'm down there, like over Christmas Holiday, I noticed that she put on more of a display when someone was watching and would nearly ignore her father at other times. So, I have to wonder how sincere this really is.
They are definitely attention mongers and this aspect has to be considered before making a life-change.
It appears to me as though this admiration for dad is selective . . how real is that?
P-Angel has a good point. Begging is not the way to a woman's heart. In fact, what image do you have when you think of people who beg? If she wants to be with you she will find a way.
It's ok to make big changes with someone if you are both making that decision together, to be together. It sounds like the feelings in your relationship are lopsided. Move only if it's a good career move. Otherwise, you may come to regret your decision.
Yeah, you all don't know the whole story, and it's not bad... feelings lopsided? No, not at all.
The beg thing was not begging to be with her, it was said as somewhat of an inside joke, "How much begging do I have to do to get you to" type deal and in this case it was to not move away.
Likewise, with the Air Force thing, that's been postponed, which made me happy, and no, I did not beg her to get that postponed, I just had a nice long talk with her about considering options.
And UNC is looking real nice... hmmmmmmmmmm. Time to start crackin and write a statement of purpose 🙂
Yeah, decisions decisions... I have two higher-ups at the bank who want me to get into the management training program... I work in operations currently. They know I'm valuable and want to keep me.
Then there's the whole getting out and experiencing more than just Ohio... yes I have traveled (Orlando, St. Louis, Kansas City, Las Vegas, etc), but I've lived my whole life between 2 cities in this state and want to get out and experience more...
Yeah, this is life coming at me... It shall be a grand adventure.
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So I asked how much begging I'd have to do to get her to stay, she said it won't work cuz she doesn't want her dad to be living alone...
Then I mention... hmmmm I just finished college, what if I get a job there. She likes that idea... but that might be rough on me. Pfft. Decisions decisions.