Recently Engaged To A Virgo

I just recently became engaged to a Virgo. He just swept me off my feet. I am a Gemini and it was kind of love at first site for us. I have never been with a Virgo man. My mom, my younger daughter, and a very good friend are all Virgos, but I have never been in a relationship with a Virgo man. So please do tell me your experiences with Virgo men and if you are a Virgo I want to know what I am in for. lol

Posted by DeeGee
My mom was a Gem and my dad a Virgo....they were married for 25 years. They fought a lot but also laughed a lot. Weird dynamic.

I have an aunt/uncle who are Virgo/Gemini. When I see them at family parties/events their always separated, and my uncle(virgo) is always looking for her because he's everywhere lol. Yes, they fight a lot! They really get at it sometimes. Im surprised that their still married, but I'm sure when their not in public it's much different from what they show. It's definitely not an easy pair, probably the worst, but when your in love it changes everything... I suppose?

*because she's everywhere lol*

Posted by lovelygem

.... love at first site ....

* sight

A person not having a grasp enough of their own language to be able to spell, drives me nuts, but, is tolerable, considering there are so many people that are this illiterate, that it begins to look normal ... which of course, makes those how to spell appear brilliant.

But, what I can't get past, and never will ... are stupid people.

And below is pretty stupid.

Posted by lovelygem

I just recently became engaged to a Virgo. He just swept me off my feet.

.... tell me your experiences with Virgo men and if you are a Virgo I want to know what I am in for.

You make the implication here that you've gotten engaged to a person you don't know ... and are running foolishly into the unknown on nothing accept the initial chemistry of attraction/lust.

To become engaged to any person, it is expected of you to have developed a KNOWING relationship with the other person ... it is expected of you to be able to present to other women what they should be in for.

If you have allowed yourself to base your future off of using blank air space in your head .... then this makes you look beyond stupid. It is expected of human beings to use brain cells, since they were fortunate enough not to be born a cow

While harshly put; P-Angel has a point and said exactly what I thought upon reading the original post.

Once you get to the point of being engaged, these questions really should already be answered. Good luck though; because if you're marrying a Virgo and you don't yet know what we're about and how we operate you are going to be in for a RUDE awakening.

Well I really didn't ask for anyone's opinion on what I was doing as far as being engaged. The question was "What are Virgo men like in relationships?" NOT "Tell me what my fiance is like" lol Thanks for your input anyway.


@ Clueless Cancer We just met not too long ago, so I know him but not that well. When you know you just know. Getting married shortly after meeting someone is not for everybody, but I know plenty of people who got married quickly and are still together.

@P-angel I was typing fast and you know nothing about me, so If you don't have any thing worthwhile to add, please move on.
@ DeeGee We have disagreements often, but we don't fight or go at it.

Posted by neuroticvirgo
While harshly put; P-Angel has a point and said exactly what I thought upon reading the original post.

Once you get to the point of being engaged, these questions really should already be answered. Good luck though; because if you're marrying a Virgo and you don't yet know what we're about and how we operate you are going to be in for a RUDE awakening.

Please, elaborate.

Posted by lovelygem

Posted by neuroticvirgo
While harshly put; P-Angel has a point and said exactly what I thought upon reading the original post.

Once you get to the point of being engaged, these questions really should already be answered. Good luck though; because if you're marrying a Virgo and you don't yet know what we're about and how we operate you are going to be in for a RUDE awakening.

Please, elaborate.

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I don't think any one is judging your decision on when to get married. That's your decision (congratulations by the way). The question coupled with we're engaged simply threw me for a very large loop. But that's a Virgo right there in itself. I would NEVER get married if I had to still ask that question because as a Virgo I must have ALL the facts and feel as though I know EVERYTHING before I can commit to something as important as marriage. This is not judgment it's just the way I personally operate. The fact that you've found a Virgo man willing to get married quickly is either a miracle or a travesty in the making...and that's just me being real.

Just be strong, be independent, be loyal and be prepared. There is no real way for me to explain all the idiosyncrasies that make up the Virgo psyche. I'll say that we're moody, we're cold on the surface but scolding hot underneath and you will experience both temperatures. We will push you away but if we love you we don't really want you to go. And if we love you; you will know because we DO show it in our own way and we love HARD! We're mutable so you might find that his style in love will sort of mirror yours; that's his way of trying to make you happy. BUT the most important thing to know is that WE DO NOT BREAK THINGS OFF IN ONE SWIFT ACTION!!! People don't want to accept this but Virgos wean off relationships and try to push the other person to leave us so we don't have to feel bad about ending a relationship. YES we do this; so if you feel like you're being weaned off...YOU ARE! Accept it. Good luck and let us/me know how it goes with the wedding. I'm mesmerized by your Virgo find.

Details please; I'd like to know how you got one of us to commit so quickly...lol

I don't think any one is judging your decision on when to get married. That's your decision (congratulations by the way). The question coupled with we're engaged simply threw me for a very large loop. But that's a Virgo right there in itself. I would NEVER get married if I had to still ask that question because as a Virgo I must have ALL the facts and feel as though I know EVERYTHING before I can commit to something as important as marriage. This is not judgment it's just the way I personally operate. The fact that you've found a Virgo man willing to get married quickly is either a miracle or a travesty in the making...and that's just me being real.

Just be strong, be independent, be loyal and be prepared. There is no real way for me to explain all the idiosyncrasies that make up the Virgo psyche. I'll say that we're moody, we're cold on the surface but scolding hot underneath and you will experience both temperatures. We will push you away but if we love you we don't really want you to go. And if we love you; you will know because we DO show it in our own way and we love HARD! We're mutable so you might find that his style in love will sort of mirror yours; that's his way of trying to make you happy. BUT the most important thing to know is that WE DO NOT BREAK THINGS OFF IN ONE SWIFT ACTION!!! People don't want to accept this but Virgos wean off relationships and try to push the other person to leave us so we don't have to feel bad about ending a relationship. YES we do this; so if you feel like you're being weaned off...YOU ARE! Accept it. Good luck and let us/me know how it goes with the wedding. I'm mesmerized by your Virgo find.

Details please; I'd like to know how you got one of us to commit so quickly...lol




Ok that was helpful. That would explain why he was with a women for 23 years and another women for 8 years and never had any intention of marrying either. Well let's see. I don't know. I think he was just ready to get married.lol His b-day is 9/21, so he is kind of on the cusp. He may have some Libra tendencies as well. That might have something to do with it.
There is a book called The List: 7 Ways to Tell If He's Going to Marry You--in 30 Days or Less! It sounds kind of farfetched but lots of people swear by that book. My fiance did everything on the list. It talks about how a man will be with someone for years and break up with that person and marry someone else immediately after meeting them. Men are just like

Posted by Gemini052388
A gemini asking is not a gemini who is stupid. Ofcourse she knows who she is marrying and what she is getting into. Most likely, she just needs validation of what she currently understands about her fiance.

Hey, I'm happy for you! I hope to get to that part someday! 🙂

Thank you. 🙂

Ok that was helpful. That would explain why he was with a women for 23 years and another women for 8 years and never had any intention of marrying either. Well let's see. I don't know. I think he was just ready to get married.lol His b-day is 9/21, so he is kind of on the cusp. He may have some Libra tendencies as well. That might have something to do with it.
There is a book called The List: 7 Ways to Tell If He's Going to Marry You--in 30 Days or Less! It sounds kind of farfetched but lots of people swear by that book. My fiance did everything on the list. It talks about how a man will be with someone for years and break up with that person and marry someone else immediately after meeting them. Men are just like that. When they are ready to get married they act accordingly.It's a great book on how to recognize a guy who is just wasting your time and a guy ready for marriage if marriage is what you want. Everyone doesn't want marriage. I did. I also use postive affirmations,positive meditation, and postivie thinking. That may have helped too.Sorry the stupid qoute function is not working, so I reposted.

"You make the implication here that you've gotten engaged to a person you don't know ... "


Ditto...again scratching my head. Anyway, congrats on your engagement, I can fill 10 pages up on Virgo men, but since you are marrying him you'll do that pretty quick yourself. Good luck.

Posted by Acrab
A WEDDING!! DRINKS ALL AROUND!!

Mimosa please on the rocks 😉

Posted by Gemini052388

Ofcourse she knows who she is marrying and what she is getting into.

And so, you ^^^^^ get all offended because you hear the word, "stupid", then turned around and said something completely stupid yourself.

Posted by lovelygem

We just met not too long ago, so I know him but not that well.

Posted by lovelygem

.... I want to know what I am in for.

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You just can't pay for entertainment like this .... in dxp, people don't seem to mind letting their ignorance shine through .. and we all need a good laugh, this time it's on you.

Your post brought me back to my younger years when I was so carefree...
I'm a Virgo girl and I had the taste of Gemini when I was 20, he was my first love and we got engage. The relationship was smooth (thanks to my Sag moon) sooooo smooth that we hardly had any arguments. The relationship lasted for 4 years. I remember we only had 5 or 6 fights throughout the relationship. He was not clingy, he gives me space, he was not controlling but he was such a flirt. He takes care of house inspite of his work. We both love dogs, music and art. We talk about a lot of things to the point that we can stay up all night. It's a pretty good relationship but nothing last forever. One day I got scared of many things like "what about my dreams, what future will I have with this man, I still wanna travel the world, career, ambition, etc.". Then I ended our relationship. We both suffer the consequence of my decision but I had to do it during that time. I believe it was the best decision that time and it hasn't change up to now.
Don't think I'm cruel, that's just how, what and who I am. I can't pretend that I am this when I'm not that.
I hope you can analyze something on my post. I can only tell you what my experience was but I will not tell exactly what virgos are coz every Virgo is different from one another though we have trademark of being Virgo.

Congratulations on your engagement! Cheers!

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Gemini052388

Ofcourse she knows who she is marrying and what she is getting into.

And so, you ^^^^^ get all offended because you hear the word, "stupid", then turned around and said something completely stupid yourself.

Posted by lovelygem

We just met not too long ago, so I know him but not that well.

Posted by lovelygem

.... I want to know what I am in for.

You just can't pay for entertainment like this .... in dxp, people don't seem to mind letting their ignorance shine through .. and we all need a good laugh, this time it's on you.

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*POOF* BE GONE! Darn your still here!