SAD but 1

One of my girl friends just called, she told me she feels her virgo is "up to something". She said she senses virgo is cheating with her. They have these games going on for past couple of weeks and today she needed to tell to some one.
The virgo is attracted to some one better than his wife!

She is thinking of divorce because she is a cap and will not compromise this things. I am kind of shocked. Her virgo probably has Sep. 12th birthdate.
Any virgos going thru mess in personal areas? She just cried.. I can't think much..
I tried to calm her down, look like she is going thru emotional hell...
I might visit her tomorrow..

Any stupid planatery stuff cooking that we need to be careful? I know mercury is retro. Any thing else currently going on or coming up? I am so disturbed. I will kill that V, who is a friend of my V.

How can a person get attracted to some one better than a spouse?

Just because one is married.....does that put blinkers on one's eyes—?? Every day in every way, we are evolving and discerning......into our realm every day and every which way come beautiful and attractive people!!!!if I like or fancy someone, you can bet there are at least ten others out there that do the same......when we are married, just accept the fact that you've chosen your lovely because only SHE/HE can give you that certain LOVE feeling........others give that lust feeling but it's only the ONE he/she that makes you feel beautiful. I know I am not expressing it the way that would make sense....but hope you get my drift..........I'd rather have someone that has the IT factor and comes home to me than someone who says to me...you're the only one!!!but doens't follow thru

A x

Just for the fact that she would make an assessment that another person is better than her ... makes her inferiour/smaller .. in which case, I'm not surprised the Virgo is catting.

V-men don't really care for insecure women, and it would be safe to assume that if this women thought others were "better" than her, then her self-esteem isn't high enough to keep a Virgo's attraction.

She should dump his ass.

I now a girl with a Sept 12th birthday and she can be sleazy. Always flaunting her breasts.

SG, I would tend to agree with you in the aspect that a betrayer doesn't deserve respect .. however, it appears to be all speculation. See quote below ....


"she feels her virgo is "up to something". She said she senses virgo is cheating with her."


And it went further to say that the two of them had been playing head games with each other for a couple weeks .. so, clearly, she would be one of the participants of the "they" in which the sentence says ...

"They have these games going on for past couple of weeks"



Sounds to me that this woman is just as immature as the man. Certainly, if there is an issue in the relationship, then the right course of action is to approach the issue for resolution .. or, at least, for a truth.

To react in defeat, to just want to give up and say it's because she isn't good enough .. is a cop-out.

She "senses" he's with someone ... she "feels" her Virgo is up to "something" ... something? something?


There's no truth in that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ... it's all paranoid speculation and then she reacts with defeat over "something".

Perhaps, he is playing her, who knows .. but, she certainly isn't attempting to find out a truth before emotionally reacting.

"She is thinking of divorce because she is a cap and will not compromise this things. I am kind of shocked."


Shocked?

If to make the suggestion that because she is a Capricorn and this is the reason why divorce would be the course of action under these circumstances ... and you are a Capricorn ... then why shocked?


"Her virgo probably has Sep. 12th birthdate."

Probably? His birthday is "probably" Sept 12th?

SG:

I fully agree with your views and not with PA's view, in general I ingnore her always changing and fluctuating views.

Once our trust is broken it will never come back,u know us caps. I know many guys can date multiple people at one time and like to keep their options open in subtle ways. Even after breaking up with you, they will try to charm you and if you do give in a bit they still keep looking for yet better person , for ego boost, fun, excitement or adventure.
When the see the next encouter more exiciting or better than the original they jump to the next ship. These type of people can nicely cover their behavior under titles of being "practical", "more compatible" , "realistic" and "natural friendship". Truth is they systematically get into your head via subtle flirting and make you fall for them.
They USE you and then move on for next victim.

In my opinion, people like this should have NO PLACE in our lives. You never know, they can leave you for next better and exciting option.

I do not like to push the friend into making her decision as this is very personal matter. Since morning we have been handling her, too much introspection and calls going on..I am emotionally over loaded.

SG:

The evidences she suggested are all mind blowing. Yup she has solid proofs and personally I do not like to see this dark side of our virgo friend.

she was always looking for a better one.
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Yes!

Some virgos can play with multiple people at once to find out which one is the best for them! They use mind, not emotions. Eventually some may end up making worst mistake of their life by using head in the matter of the heart.

Do not want to sound harsh,but, what happened with your sister was exactly what she deserved!