Scorpio Lady & Virgo Man

Virgo gentlemen, I could really use your advice. I'm a Scorpio woman very deeply in love with a Virgo man. I sense a very intense attraction between us, and always have. So intense, it frightens me and I'm wondering if he feels the same. I've never experienced anything like it before. I absolutely adore him, as he has always treated me with utmost respect, acted like a true gentleman, and there is mutual trust and transparency. Vulnerability, especially on his part. He's opened up to me on occasion, revealing things that have surprised me. He is such a beautiful man, and has won my heart. He is very protective of me, and made this evident when another Virgo male pursued me. He made it very clear that he thought he wasn't worthy of me. The reason I'm here is that he recently told me about some health concerns. Being a very caring and compassionate person, I expressed concern (is that too much?) and asked him to let me know if he's okay. Dead silence. I don't know if he's giving me the cold shoulder, or if something's really wrong. Did I go too far, say too much too soon? I love him dearly, but I'd prefer to speak his love language and show it rather than say it. I think it means more, it's undisputable. Any advice would be appreciated as I always want to do the right thing by him.

So what I'm asking is, does he seem interested? Sometimes I think he is, sometimes I wonder if I'm reading too much into it. He treats me as a priority, apologizes if he's late for something, but this aloofness and cold shoulder/not answering makes me wonder...

the chemistry and attration between scorpio woman and virgo man really is something else, experienced it myself, truth is virgos just decide to be distant one day and as sweet as it can get the other its annoying as hell and makes u so confused, no matter what u tell them and what u say that's just how they r and the more u talk about it the worse it'll be

Posted by RedScorpio

Virgo gentlemen, I could really use your advice. I'm a Scorpio woman very deeply in love with a Virgo man. I sense a very intense attraction between us, and always have. So intense, it frightens me and I'm wondering if he feels the same. I've never experienced anything like it before. I absolutely adore him, as he has always treated me with utmost respect, acted like a true gentleman, and there is mutual trust and transparency. Vulnerability, especially on his part. He's opened up to me on occasion, revealing things that have surprised me. He is such a beautiful man, and has won my heart. He is very protective of me, and made this evident when another Virgo male pursued me. He made it very clear that he thought he wasn't worthy of me. The reason I'm here is that he recently told me about some health concerns. Being a very caring and compassionate person, I expressed concern (is that too much?) and asked him to let me know if he's okay. Dead silence. I don't know if he's giving me the cold shoulder, or if something's really wrong. Did I go too far, say too much too soon? I love him dearly, but I'd prefer to speak his love language and show it rather than say it. I think it means more, it's undisputable. Any advice would be appreciated as I always want to do the right thing by him.

What were these concerns of yours that you had and asked him about?

Posted by imascorpio10

the chemistry and attration between scorpio woman and virgo man really is something else, experienced it myself, truth is virgos just decide to be distant one day and as sweet as it can get the other its annoying as hell and makes u so confused, no matter what u tell them and what u say that's just how they r and the more u talk about it the worse it'll be

Most of the time their is a reason for it.

Maybe the woman did something or maybe he is stressed about something.

......but a virgo that loves you, would tell you.

Posted by GemCurio

Yeah.. As a Virgo Male, telling you ANYTHING was wrong is more than most of us do unless we're in deep with a person. However, we naturally must face our difficulties alone. Mentally, physically, & emotionally we can be bleeding to death & no one would ever be the wiser. We are not willing to share our burdens. Period. You don't have to do anything. Just wait. Send a text once in a while so that he knows you're thinking about him. When he's finished slaying dragons and has reestablished order he will return. Why is it no one really paid attention to the fairy tales that the Prince must go slay dragons and trolls on his own—

this is the best advice, Im a scorpio, my dad is a virgo, my 2 best guy friends are virgos and I have a virgo roommate. I know them like clockwork. He may be stressed about something and needs to recalibrate, just show him that you're still there and at the ends of the day just make him laugh about something to help him loosen up. Virgos tend to get very negative and pessimistic when not in a good place.

Thanks for your responses. I'm fine just letting the prince go off and slay his dragons. I'll just be his lady in waiting as I have my own life to live, letting him know from time to time that I'm still there and that I care.