Scorpio man and Virgo woman

Just wondering if there are any Virgo women here involved with a Scorpio man. If you would be kind enough to share your experience I would greatly appreciate you. I am a Virgo woman (Scorp moon) involved with a Scorpio man. Thanks.

well.. nice and dandy. She is asking about scorp men, not Virgo vs. Virgo!

Not that I am one.. am a scorp woman, but I am confident to say that Virgo & Scorpio can be magic. Don't be too hard on him. If he comes across intense, it is because he really cares for you.

Good luck!

Just wondering if Scorp men are men of their word. He doesnt just tell me stuff I want to hear. But he has been very sweet to me when it comes to how he feels about me. I am open with him about my feelings for him also but in the past with other men I have not been. He is very special to me. We are not exactly young I am 35 and he is 49. I went to the Scorp board and read some of the posts and didnt feel compelled to post there. He is very intense and he is insecure when he cant get in touch with me right away. I am into quality not quantity. I give him alot of space and I only talk to him when he calls or texts me. He gets very upset about this and I try to understand him but I feel that the man who will have full access to me is one that I give my hand in marriage to. I am basically watching his actions to see if they will line up with what has come out of his mouth. I will be honest I never met anyone I wanted to rush to the altar with until I met him and he doesnt know this. Even though I have been open with him about my feelings, there is alot I keep inside because I am watching him.

That sounds like the typical V&S relationship. I was laughing at my scorp bf the other night after telling him how we were always "testing" each other. He knows it's true (even though he just looked at me without saying a word) and has been much warmer towards me since that conversation.

"I only talk to him when he calls or texts me. He gets very upset about this and I try to understand him but I feel that the man who will have full access to me is one that I give my hand in marriage to."



You talk to him when he initiates contact?

And are you surprised that a person would get upset about this when consideration is supposed to be a two-way street?

"He is very intense and he is insecure when he cant get in touch with me right away."



So, you would make the negative assessment that if he cannot get in touch with you right away that is means he is insecure ....



Yet, you created this energy in him by leading him to believe that you are really liking this man, and then leaving all responsbility of initiated contact in his court ... which you are gauging as to whether he is performing to your satisfaction or not.




What a bitch you are, in reality ........... all one way your approach is to this relationship and then have the audacity to question his integrity when it comes to his honor.

"if Scorp men are men of their word"

If you care to look at my post on the Scorp board in answer to a very similar question, it will save me from boring people here!

Typical (humorous!) text between us - this was the third or fourth, which explains it: "I KNEW that you knew that I knew that you knew I'd know!"

🙂

You either get it or you don't...

I've never met ANYONE who made me feel calm and under-analyticalby comparison, before! And we laugh so much... and the sex is so hot... 🙂

Also, I agree with Scorp's words...

*Virgo Man makes me laugh like no other
*We bring out the child in each other; almost feels like sandbox friends
*We are able to talk and analyze from dusk till dawn until we get so tired that we can't think anymore
*Sex is great
*Virgo is as dedicated to his duties as scorps are. We respect that Virgo takes his duties seriously. We know we can rely on you.



To be careful of:
**keep the communication going; there can be misunderstandings
**careful with pride issues, it can give over the wrong message
**we will respect your space too. If you give him too much space, he will start doubting your interest to him
**we will retrieve in silence if we have not solved a question in our mind yet. I think Virgo is the same, but it takes Virgos much longer to decide.
**our timings (V&S) can be off. When SCORP says "Later" it means that it will be much sooner than VIRGO's "Later".


that's what I can think of for now. Anyway... Peach girl, enjoy your scorp man. He will consider himself lucky to have met you.

As a Virgo woman, I found Scorpio men to be very dependent and clingy, insecure and requiring constant reassurance. I can't go for that. I need someone who is ok on his own, as I am. The other thing about Scorpios is that you don't want to make them mad - their sting is deadly and they never forgive. It can be pretty easy to make them mad, as I have an unfortunate tendency to blurt out the wrong thing at the wrong time without even realizing it. All in all, not a good match for me.

I do have several close male Scorpio friends, who feel that I understand them. Maybe I do, and that's why I stay away from getting emotionally involved. I feel sorry for the people (like my mom, and my best friend) who are involved with them. Much too needy on many levels.

Athena

Fum- Thanks you are sweetie and I appreciate your advice.

Athena- Thanks to you also. I really dont mind the neediness I like being needed as long as I know what the motivation is. I made him mad the first day we met and he called me on it and I was like aw crap. From then on I knew I have to watch myself lol

Lib Vir- Thanks for your story it made feel encouraged. I can totally relate with the testing, and he does it to me too and even though I know it I cant help but to look at him with loving eyes.

ScorpAscVir- I will go back and peruse the Scorp board for your post I probably missed it!

PA -You dont hurt my feelings. You are entitled to your opinion, but regardless of what you think......in reality this b*tch is falling in love. You should try it sometime. I have a hard time believing you are a female. Your posts have a masculine nature about them. Very wierd......


"To be careful of:
**keep the communication going; there can be misunderstandings
**careful with pride issues, it can give over the wrong message
**we will respect your space too. If you give him too much space, he will start doubting your interest to him
**we will retrieve in silence if we have not solved a question in our mind yet. I think Virgo is the same, but it takes Virgos much longer to decide.
**our timings (V&S) can be off. When SCORP says "Later" it means that it will be much sooner than VIRGO's "Later"."

This is so true. I never realized these things about Scorpios until I met him.