Have you realized the compatible energies that you and the virgo girl are trying to combine ? I'm not dr.love but i'll give you the best advice that i can.First of all, Virgo girls can be very picky so be aware of that.When it comes to love,a virgo girl can be a bit shy when it comes to expressing how she feels so try to have a heart on that stipulation.Scorpio men can be a bit abrasive when it comes to heartbreak so try to reason with that virgo lady and hear her side of the story.Maybe she wants to keep you as a friend.And above all else, when it comes to making love you might wanna be creative or productive 'cause you wanna catch that virgo lady at a moment full of felicity.I can't believe i'm giving you this piece of advice 'cause i'm a virgo guy myself and i never had a girlfriend before.Maybe it's something i'm blessed with.Let me know how it comes out !! GOOD LUCK !!
I'm a Virgo girl and yes we do have a bit of a tendancy to be somewhat picky and VERY organized. There's a problem with that?? My dad is a Scorpio and one of the coolest people I know. If I could find a man without it being insest, with a personality like my dad's, my days of pickiness would be over!! Stick with your Virgo girl! We RULE!! ๐ Jewels
I am a Virgo girl with a Scorpio man and of all the signs I've dated this is THE best match! We compliment one another by being alike but also different. I find him stimulating not only emotionally but physically as well. If you are FRIENDS and RESPECT one another it will all fall into place.. GOOD LUCK!
that would be me, my situation with a scorpio guy is interesting. He is very dedicated to his work and I'm the virgo girl. We butt heads a lot though, he yells a lot and I stick up for myself a lot. He is the most faithful guy in the whole world...what a guy
beats me. i heard that along with cancer, scorpio is virgo's best friend. in love, who knows.
Mr. Scorpio: don't u get a bit frustrated, when in astrology books, scorpios are pointed out as being psychotic or weird and spooky, especially the males. i think they're extremely misunderstood
MOST Scorpios and Virgos get along. Just remember: Virgos don't change to suit anyone, and neither do Scorpios. Virgos have to control their critical tendencies and Scorpios have to control their jealous tendencies. Both signs need to have unconditional trust in each other. After that, everything will be okay.
Trust is a problem for both signs, but they can trust each other! Scorpio, if Virgo loves you, she'll melt in your passionate, loving arms - especially if you kiss her!
Im a scorpio guy in love with a Virgo girl and although shes much younger than me ,I have never felt more of a harmonic convergence with anyone. Once I understood that her inability to openly express her emotions was "virginal" instead of indifferent ,I knew that she was the girl that Im going to marry
I AM A VIRGO WOMAN AND MY HUSBAND IS A SCORPIO AND WE GET ALONG GREAT AND HAVE AN AMAZING SEX LIFE.TOGETHER FROM OUR TEENS UNTIL NOW LATE 20S WE HAVE KIDS AND PEOPLE TELL US ALL THE TIME WE ACT LIKE NEWLYWEDS.HE MAKES ME FEEL BEAUTIFUL!!WE WORK OUT GREAT.WE HAVE HAD OUR BAD TIMES AND WE WORKED IT OUT.I COMPROMISE EASILY HIM NOT SO MUCH BUT IF YOU EXPLAIN TO A SCORPIO ABOUT IT THEY WILL UNDERSTAND.I LET THINGS GO AND HE GETS HIS WAY ALOT BUT IF I FEEL STRONGLY ABOUT SOMETHING I WILL STAND MY GROUND AND ILL GET MY WAY..HE RESPECTS ME FOR WHO I AM WE AGREE MORE THAN IT WOULD SEEM.ONE QUESTION I HAVE FOR SCORPIO MEN IS HOW FAITHFUL ARE YOU?MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN SO FAR BUT I HEAR THE STORIES ABOUT SCORPIO MEN ALOT.ARE THEY TRUE.
I'm a Virgo women. I was with a Scorpio, and it has to be said, before his trust issues, we had a fantastic relationship. He didn't trust me, and I hadn't given him any reason to not do so. He was obessed about me leaving him, which was a shame because after all the hassle I got he pushed me into doing so. I would never have cheated on him, I was totally devoted to him. I thought I would be with him forever, and marriage was definately on the cards.
Anyway all I'm saying is Virgo is a very loyal sign (I know this doesn't apply to all) but trust your partner, because jelous ways can push your women/man away for good.
I'm still in a quandry whether I should be with him. Don't ruin something so wonderful.
I know I sidetracked off the point, but I thought that might be helpful to someone.
Scorpion Men are undoubtedly the most powerful of the zodiac, possesing a mysterious and sexual energy. I have a virgo girlfriend whom i plan to marry the bond is undeniable. virgos and scorpios are a mixture that can not be broken easily virgos are skidish and will run from trouble especially women of this sign and scorpio men choose to face down whatever situation they are placed in even if it is a disasterous to them selfs and others. Virgo women will look up to this trait to supplement their lack in that aspect of their character. Scorpio Men will recieve a feeling of trust that will remove the jealousy from their life. And beings that both signs thrive on trust and long for the deepest love imaginable this is probably your best bet. Not to mention a virgo women although unopen with there sexuality at first, will turn in to the sexual super woman that you will crave as a scorpio. Virgo women reserve the right to tap this pent energy, They need help to release it as a scorpio im sure you know that in any relationship your sex life is amazing so to help your virgo girl to become a passionate partner in and out of the bedroom will not be a difficult task. Take it from me work with your virgo girlfriend and you will be repaid ten fold for your efforts. But if its buck wild sex that your after hook up with a scorpio women and that will be more then enough to satisfy any desires you have but know this, your doomed to fail! It will never work.... Hope this helps, by the way scorpio man trust in yourself you have more power then you know
I'm a virgo girl and all the men i seem to get involved with, or are attracted to on first sight/intrigued by, happen to be scorpio men. i think it works.
Scorpio men are definitely sexy and addictive! And if you're lucky enough to get one to be honest with you then that is such a strong loving match. Just be honest with the virgo woman, if you lie or deceive it is difficult for her to forgive. Good luck with her, cause if it's right, you'll have a best friend, incredible lover and supporter who will be on your side for life.
I'm a Virgo woman, and I happen to think that a Scorpio male and a Virgo female is a wonderful match as long as the Scorpio man is willing, able, and patient enough to allow the "true" Virgo woman to emerge. It's a slow process. I speak from experience, and have found some Scorpio males to be very quick to determine what an individuals true "nature" is. What I think they forget is that a Virgo comes across very cold, and detached, therefore is very hard to read. So most initial presumptions are probably incorrect. We're both very similar, yet have enough differences to keep things interesting. The key here is time, overtime a Virgo will open up. But they have to feel comfortable, safe, and certain that your feelings are true.
"The RIGHT Virgo and Scorpio is a prodigious match. There is a powerful attraction from the start. We both are careful observers and communicate with our eyes. The problem is, when attempting to express interest, neither the Scorpion nor the Virgo will make any overt gestures. This makes it difficult to initiate or confirm a CONNECTION."
Someone HAS to break the ice, and neither are usually inclined to be the first. Both have to be highly evolved, and have a very good understanding of one another. And accept that things aren't always going to come the exact way you want it, it's give a take. And a lot of patience on both sides.
"If you are committed to working through the verbal communication, this can be a partnership that is full of cohesiveness, trust, loyalty, intellectual stimulation, and common interests and values. Caution: the ardor that builds between these two can reach incendiary levels, and is hard to contain."
I think this is the key to making things work, both have to want it bad enough. And believe that in the long run it would have been worth their while. Nothing comes without sacrifice.
One thing I can't tolerate is how "some" Scorpios feel that their needs are above everyone else's. They need to see this first, or they need to see that. So not cool. People open up in their own time, and I think that needs to be acknowledged. But I guess to each his own.
What is the dreaded FEAR realm?? Are you saying that your panic takes the shape of a forcefield around you that appears to be control on your part? Or I guess what I mean is that the control is the forcefield that shields you from the panic?
Excellent illustration really. May I ask if you are quiet and appear to brooding: is that a time to leave you to your thoughts? Or is that the time you need a comforting hug (or more) from your partner. Do you prefer that "quiet" time to figure things through? I know I have atendency to feel guilty when people I love are too quiet, and might intrude on their "space" that way.
Hello Beguiling and thank you...the name is "fitting" to my character. And true, there is an unspoken story. One I'm not sure I care too much to recreate. I'm really not interested in getting into anyone's head, reading minds, and trying to figure out what motivated their actions. At the end of the day, we are all people, simple as that.
Effective communication, that should be it. If one doesn't understand something, they should ask, and if they feel their needs are not being met, they should voice it. We can all assume things, but that doesn't guarantee that you will arrive at the truth. You have to ask, to get the answers you seek.
I agree with what you are saying also. One doesn't always get a direct answer. But you have to at least ask the question. If you get what you perceive to be a lie, make a decision whether to continue things or not. But ideally, I would prefer to be asked outright, rather than told, and have my voice be heard.
A time frame should not be an issue if someone is genuinely interested. The time spent together would be appreciated, on both sides. If they want to get to know me, they will.
Beguiling: Sorry I had to log off yesterday....No I'm not involved with a Scorp..right now I'm with a Sag and I'm finding them to be so "ME" oriented it is starting to kill what I feel for "us". Feel like I'm the only one giving ....sure it's just my particular saggi but man it's like someone let all the air out of my balloon...this one has nothing but personsal probs... I think I would like to date a scorp though. I have known only a few but have liked them very much.
I have been dating a Scorpio man for 18 months and it has been the scariest, funniest, most insane experience of my life. I absolutely love it!!!!!!!! He is certainly not perfect, but he is PERFECT for me. I have never felt this way about anyone.......he complements me in a way that I've never known. I know this sounds over the top. That's because it truly is!
Hello every one, hope all is well. I'm in need of some advise I've never paid any attention to the whole zodiac sighn untill now an so I've meet this guy who I've come to really like a lot. I offten tell him how I feel about him, as for him unless I ask him how he feel he won't tell me. Fact is I'm looking for something very longterm and iam unsure if he is as into me as iam with him.... Question is how do I get him to open up even just a lil? Should I stil pursue him?be more patient? Because its starting to get to me that his not opening up, I realy dnt like bugging ppl nor do I like feeling like Iam even if they won't say so. See I've been burn to many times an I'm just trynna find out if I even should really take the chance or walk. I'll take what ever advice I can get......
scropiobehindyou you are so right, but i have never dealt with a scropio man before, and you are correct he is loyal, honest, trustworthy, and need to be reassured that you care. all the things i stumble on in dealing with him. these are good qualities, but you have to know them, and appreciate them. im trying at this point to win my scropio back as he displayed all these things, but i didn't see them until he was gone. he is punishing me now with avoidance,rudness, and making me feel real bad, but i am gettin thru it slowly. i am standing back, and letting him make up his made if we are going to be ok. i wrote him a deep love feel, openess letter, not asking him back just letting him know what i felt, and where i went wrong now it is up to him. so all you virgo women out there dealing with those scropio men treat them with respect, because they are sensitive, and let them love you with all there heart , and appreciate all the openess, and honesty you deserve, and just love them, and have fun.
I am a Virgo and I am Married to a Scorpio man. We are madly in love with one another, i think Virgo female and Scorpio male is a perfect match! Us Virgos can be a little critical and Scorpios can be a little jealous but as long as you understand each other and respect each other those "little things" will slowly fade away. We get along great, he makes me feel beautiful everyday no matter if i just woke up and didnt even brush my hair yet. A passionate Scorpio man really gets the shy Virgin to open up. Virgo/Scorpio make a fairly balanced relationship.
StringsAttached: >Daggone, do you all really believe that all 15 of those posts (or however many there were) were all posted by unregistered users and one "guest" after another?! Who is this anyway, branh trying a different flavor on for size and seeing what kind of a reaction he could get?? It's definitely someone used to this board!
Agreed SA, a guest answering another guest and lots of unknown people chiming in, is just too obvious. I vote for all posts by one user.
if a scprpio gay says he isnt in love with me but love just to have sex, is that then the truth ? I love the sex with him, and he says its the best evcer for him....i in love with him, but this relation ship is mad mad mad passion....
I've been with a scorpio man for almost 7 years. Im extremely loyal (im a virgo) but i learned he's been cheating almost the entire time also heard they're supposed to have incredible sex drives.... mine has a hard time keeping up with me! I found I'm a better match with another virgo my ex was AMAZING both in bed and out. it was intense. I think we would have worked perfectly, my scorpio and I but unfortunately I got a broken defective one as he's nothing like a scorpio should be ๐ข
I am a Scorpio that is in love with a Virgo girl! Has anyone out there had this combination or has any compatible information about it?