Should i Ignore Vrigo male like he does me??

Its funny (ironic), how virgo guys are so hot then cold. Why do they expect you to do things that they wouldn't do themselves— Not understading how these obsessive perfectionists become overly defensive when they are being critiqued. Overall, great guy but its been very difficult to exist with him. Im falling deeply in love with him, but im super scared of being hurt. He expects me to reveal my feelings for him constantly (which is kind of hard for a taurus girl) thus, making me feel vunerable but its as if he goes into hiding after he knows how i feel. He says he wants me to be "his girl" no matter what. He goes hours without responding to my texts or calls (I give him plenty of freedom), sometimes he gets angry when im emotionally inclined by his wrong doings (its rare, but im still a woman. I adore him and he knows it.I have displayed my dependability, dedication and devotion for our love. Should I conduct myself in the same manner in which he does? Will ignoring and becoming indifferent towards him make him realize Im not a push-over?

R24 .. Hey! And thanks lol for ur response..Are you a Virgo?

Lenore... Hello and thank you as well for your response. Not trying to be boastful, but i think you are partially correct. It is insecurity or the lack their of, but not on my my behalf. Its about having a solid and secure relationship. You mentioned that I should have more confidence because I'm reacting out of fear. But I'm decisive about the things I want out of life and it seems as though he is the exact opposite. I am not saying his communication should be identical to mine but what I will say is its hard to interpret his love for me when he separates him self. He wants me to shower him with tlc, and then he punishes me for doing so. But If i did half their things he does, I'd be history.


You're basically calling me p***y lol, telling me to put it all out there, and if get hurt during the process .. Oh well?? What Type of bull butter is that??

*prime example of virgos expecting something, they are not willing to do themselves..

Of course it wouldn't kill me physically kill me. But It would be traumatic recovery

Rachel !!! Hey love.. Your beautiful btw.. I am fortunate enough to be Taurus.GODDESS lol
But this is a pattern for virgo guys regardless of the astrological sign of the woman they are dating. I'm confused as to why though?? I get that we have the same traits as other ppl born under the same sign but geeesh.. From what I've read they aren't to fond of being ignored, and they need to have their panthers undivided attention or they tend to look else where. Guess that's something we have to consider prior to backing off..

Although I'm usually busy, I'm always available for him. I try my best to balance it out so he doesn't feel neglected. Love him lol 🙂
Just as you said i may be hard to read at times but its merely a. defense mechanism so that I won't get my heart broken into a million pieces ..

Are you a sag? You come off as a free spirit

@25thDecan. You are such a cool and smart guy 🙂

Ah, the dance of the Virgo and the Taurus...Two steps closer, 3 steps back, repeat, sway, touch hands, embrace and BAM three steps back. Learn to dance with him or keep it movin'.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by rachelsnow12
I like to think no man is THE one, then I am or will be surprised if that is the case... should it ever be :-)

As a cancer I tend to fall in love quickly..especially if 1) Your HOT 2) Your intelligent 3) You say you love me 4)You feed my need for security.

I have had many one's....its a cycle. Bear with me🙂

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Ugh, Cancers! All I read was ME, ME, ME, ME.... & us Virgos are labeled as selfish. Cancers are emotional human beings & I stand by it!

Yes. Or do what 25th said.

Posted by VirgoFlirt
@CluelessCancer

1. Virgo wants you to be able to;

a. Handle a crisis when he's not around with out consulting him on it (some refer this as leading him which it's not).
b. He does not want you have insecurity issues.
c. They want you to not walk around or hide in fear.
d. Don't ever doubt him at anything.
e. Not NAG the hell out of him contstantly (asking questions more than one time (we heard you the first time around)).
f. Not hear him say i wuv youuuuu (he drinks your diet coke and drpepper..yukkky).
g. Know what you want in and out of life.
h. could go on and on but it's just the general idea err here ok..Just have a love for something..

2. Do Not;

a. Put his and your business in the street (that means consulting his friends and yours..he sees that as communication failure as in you have not one bit of self confidence in yourself to come to him and resolve the issues.. (no problem with sexlife discussion with your friends, as he sees benifit of this for future usage)).
b. Ignore him (automatic you struck out...at bat..) (better have good reasons BUT if he did that to you then fair is fair)
c. Chastise him in public (wait until later)

The thing is these are not really virgos wants or needs (haha) :-) Just love yourself and find yourself first then it will come. Have some confidence and not put yourself down. Don't play into astrology that much. It can help and guide you but in the end it is all you and your choices. Finally, I have no idea where you females find all these aloof virgos.

hi 🙂 I'm a lurker fish and this is my first actual post on here, but this post is so true I just have to say this is the best advice you could ever give to a water sign regarding virgo behavior, or any woman really! (f) is so funny! (h) is so true! VirgoFlirt's post is like the epitome of what makes virgo men so great... @Clueless you should try and be more open-minded! virgos are THE BOMB as friends and lovers if you allow your mind to bend their way a little bit, they can teach you so much & they're always so damn clever!

I'm a virgo. And yes you can ignore him. Us virgo's are always analyzing everything, but once we "lose" the person, thats when we realize how important they are to us.

Don't ignore him.
Forget him and move on to a man who deserves u.

How long have you known him? Are u in a rship with him or are you both dating? how old are u both?


I won't bother figuring out why he's hot and cold. It's obvious that his interest in you is lukewarm.
Bottom line is he's disrespecting you & you're letting it. This man you're describing is not looking for a commitment with You. Pls pls know your worth and don't let any man treat you this way. He's not invested in you yet...but you gave him too much. That my dear is a huge mistake.

I don't know abt other Virgos. I go hot and cold when I need space and the guy is too clingy in the beginning- this is only in the getting-to-know phase. But the main reason I've done this before is because I'm not into the guy or don't see him as the right one for me OR only see him as Mr.Right-Now, not Mr.Right.... and have decided that he's not someone I'd want to have a rship with from the get go. It's bad and I will eventually end it because it's unfair for both, the guy deserves to be with a girl who's into him and I'd like to find the right one & not waste time.


If I'm into a man, think he's the right one and know that I cannot let this special man go, I will not go hot and cold. My interest & contact will be consistent because I WILL take him and this seriously.

I just started dating a Virgo man who has shown interest in me since over a year ago. He was persistent but I was too busy to date and he only withdrew once & that was because I wasn't reciprocating. Now that we have started dating, I see consistency - SO FAR!(I don't know what antics I'll see over time) he contacts me before he flies off for business meetings..when he's away, when he comes back.. and because we're both virgos, we are fine with the pace we're at now. I don't like to be rushed.

As for responding slow to text, my Virgo have mentioned once about my slow response lol. But that was before we started dating. Yes I take my sweet time/or too busy to respond when I'm not committed to a guy or he's just a friend. But now that I'm dating him, interested in this man & know that he's a great catch, I don't do that no matter how busy I am or how much space I need. I respect him and don't want to hurt him.