The only thing that jumped out at me is that he doesn't think he deserves you if he can't support you. He might think you deserve someone who can support you. I've read that Virgo's do that often.
sincerely need vigo's advice
Posted by sagiviviane
Hi all
im new here and my name is viviane. i would like to seek some advice from your guys on how to handle my current situation.
Pleased to meet ya Viv!
I am from singapore and met my bf who is from Germany. We've been together for 5months.
Fascinating, I'm half German lol
As time pass by, i can feel that he is kinda of depressed on the whole job hunting stuff, somehow it affects our relationship...till recently he stops contacting me. Being a sag it is really kills me as i want to be there for him to support him...to tell him good things will eventually happen.
Virgos feel inadequate if we can not provide for our woman, let alone ourselves.
This behaviour you speak of though, is more prominent in the first decan [August 23rd through September 3rd]
He also mentioned that we agrue a lot recently and somehow his feelings for me has changed. I told him it hurts me a little bit when he said that, however, i appreciate it he is being honest with me and telling me how he really feels.
You Saggies have a way of making stupid blunt statements that totally disregard people's feelings. He loves you but he is now more cautious of how he will speak with you.
I asked him if he wants to have a break He told me that he is so confused right now as one moment i told him "i love him "and the next thing i said is "want to have a break." i said that becoz i feel that i m making him more troubled and i dun wanna see him like that.
BIG MISTAKE
Virgos need consistency. You telling him this has totally put him off balance and he may already be "moving on from you"
I broke up with my one and only Sag and she told me the same thing coming down to the end of our relationship. She hurt me a lot, when she did things like these.
I told him that i feel helpless as well as i have no clue on how to handle him at this moment and i feel bad that i cant help him or even make him feel beta. he said give him times to think about it and he does not know how long it will take, just let him be with himselve.click to expand
Keep the faith and wait, that's all you can do at this point.
Taking action, which I know you will, will only worsen things.
I just have this feeling that it is going to end between us and i dun know what to say when i send him off at the airport....
is that true the only thing i should do is stop contacting him till contacts me?
Yes it is true and stop entertaining that feeling, it will only make things worse!!!
I'm half Czechoslovakian, but I like to consider myself German. 😛
Posted by LOLO123
omg im new on this thing too do you know how to get users to comment on you status cuz im confused but any way. virgos are very confusin and they like to be by themsevles at times not saying its a bad thing but they usually think things threw. but i think u should stop contactin him til he contacts u yeah i know it will be hard but at least wait it out and see wat happens. hoped i help
Ello LOLO, thank you for your comment and i think you are a very sweet person =D
By the way, nice rihanna display pic! she came to singapore last year and she is indeed a diva!
eet ya Viv!
Very nice to meet you too, CajunSpirit. i heard so much about you and finnaly you appear in my thread. lucky me ^^
Virgos feel inadequate if we can not provide for our woman, let alone ourselves.
This behaviour you speak of though, is more prominent in the first decan [August 23rd through September 3rd]
that is so true, my bf was born on 25 Aug. i would really appreciate if you could tell me more about the first decan of virgo between 23 Aug to 3 Sep.
You Saggies have a way of making stupid blunt statements that totally disregard people's feelings. He loves you but he is now more cautious of how he will speak with you.
ya, i intend to say stupid blunt statments without thinking of the consequences. like one time after we quarreled, i asked him for a movie the next day coz i was totally over the incident and think we should just move on and be happy again. Whereas he was still moody and did not really want to hang out with me..-.-
Virgos need consistency. You telling him this has totally put him off balance and he may already be "moving on from you"
it seems to me that virgo and saggi are the least compatible couple eva. my ex was a virgo too and he criticized me every single day and he liked to repeat the things i have done wrong over and over again.😢 I told my current bf about virgo and saggi being incompatible at the very beginning of our relationship, he was like," we can prove them wrong".click to expand
Anyway, just want to say LOVE IS FOR THE BRAVE ONES =S
Posted by Mattofla
The only thing that jumped out at me is that he doesn't think he deserves you if he can't support you. He might think you deserve someone who can support you. I've read that Virgo's do that often.
I dun think he will support me even he got a job....virgo seems kinda of stingy....=X
Posted by Mattofla
I'm half Czechoslovakian, but I like to consider myself German. 😛
Why is that? 😛
Posted by sagiviviane
Very nice to meet you too, CajunSpirit. i heard so much about you and finnaly you appear in my thread. lucky me ^^
OOOoooo, happy to be of service.
that is so true, my bf was born on 25 Aug. i would really appreciate if you could tell me more about the first decan of virgo between 23 Aug to 3 Sep.
They are highly unstable and cause the most trouble I have read here on the forums. They more prone to lying too.
ya, i intend to say stupid blunt statments without thinking of the consequences. like one time after we quarreled, i asked him for a movie the next day coz i was totally over the incident and think we should just move on and be happy again. Whereas he was still moody and did not really want to hang out with me..-.-
Virgos don't take flippancy very well...
it seems to me that virgo and saggi are the least compatible couple eva. my ex was a virgo too and he criticized me every single day and he liked to repeat the things i have done wrong over and over again.😢 I told my current bf about virgo and saggi being incompatible at the very beginning of our relationship, he was like," we can prove them wrong".
2 months into my relationship, my Sagittarius cheated on me with one of her Virgo exes. I forgave her and looked past it, but it ate me up inside. It took me a couple months well to stop reminding her of her foul deed. Her smoking, drinking, tattoos and piercings were a large turn off too.
You all "can prove them wrong", it's just going to take a lot of work and conscious effort to do so.
Anyway, just want to say LOVE IS FOR THE BRAVE ONES =Sclick to expand
Or the stupid 😛
ok wow this is why virgo and sag never get together. it sounds like you are just way too clingy and obsessive and he needs his space. it also sounds like he doesnt know how to handle any kind of situation properly. which is lame; i hate ppl like that who just get randomly upset for no reason, i generally try to avoid them. anywhos it sounds like you guys need space from each other. and make sure that even though your taking a break, he knows you love him. no idea why he could be acting so strange but who knows, maybe hes getting advances from another girl or possibly an ex. or maybe he is gay LOL. i think its funny (what cajun said) about virgos needing consistency and stuff and sag not being like that.. cause every sag ive been with in the past has been really stubborn and rigid and would always get upset over how supposedly inconsistent or "moody" i was. then they just leave.. im just like "ok then byeeee" lol, i will never go with a sag again. way too obsessive
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