solitude

do you find that you need it or do you accept it ... I have been accepting it my whole life and only recently found that my life is way way better without it

at the risk of this sounding like an alcoholics anonymous meeting I will resist saying "what's your experience" ... oops just did

I like my solitude...
It's where I am most at peace. Though the onset of loneliness is inevitable, it seems normal for Virguys to not have any strong desires to have partnership or offspring to feel full filled.

I find it hard to comprehend why any man would want to give himself in marriage at times.

Solitude is necessary for me.

I to like my splitude... but as i hit 18 i started to feel lonely and search 4 partnership but i will never understand y sum 1 wood get married.. it stupid in my view

Ohh yeah..


METIME is more important than anything else in entire planet!

what about when you're sick? Ive noticed my Virgo just wants to be left alone....its stifling hot here in South Australia and we're in the worst heatwave on record and he has the flu (which I know isnt nice)....he just wants to be left alone. Ahwell I did offer if he wanted nursing LOL.

But yeah I noticed Virgo likes a lot of solitude...thinking time.

I think everyone needs a bit of alone time in general. I personally enjoy sitting in a barnes and noble by myself, on a comfy seat and reading while drinking a coffee. That's my best alone time, quiet, comfy and I love the smell of new books. Unfortunately I have too much me time and need more "we time" with people. LOL.

Hey Chatz I didn't know you were an aussie too? 🙂 hehe...I definitely like my time alone, I need it otherwise I go a bit nuts haha! I can't stand to feel like people are in my face all the time. But I make quality time out of the time I spend with others 🙂

Chatz it probably lights up his day just to know you are thinking of him, and would be right there to look after him if he chose to take up the offer. I'm a sook when i'm sick, but I don't expect people to look after me unless i'm so sick that I can't look after myself. I do really treasure sweet little messages from a s/o when i'm sick though 🙂

)Oooooh another aussie....hehehe...well there you go 🙂 Im from South Oz and you?

Yeah my Virgo said he's a real sook too and I did offer to nurse him hehehe...but it seems he was too sick and yeah understandable having the flu in 44 degree heat. Poor thing and of course he said "Id feel so guilty if I passed it onto you" LOL...always thinking of others.

I sent him the sweet messages so I think I did ok...pity he didnt take me up on helping him though....ahwell, I get back on Thursday, hopefully a week away will have given him plenty of time to melt in Adelaide in his private cave and miss me.

Its strange how Virgos are so very similar to Libras in that you need so much "me time" and "thinking time"....but yeah he seems to enjoy his own time very much but then he can be the most sociable creature ever at other times.

"Its strange how Virgos are so very similar to Libras"

Dear God..please don't insult them by comparing them to libras..

LOL I agree with that but in the fact they need so much thinking time they are similar but not by actions....trust me I know LOL

West Oz 🙂

Libra and pisces should be joined at the hip...both are totally fuckin incapable of making a decision. Excuse my french.