V got mad, left, next day wonder what's up

Hey everyone, I want to thank everyone for their help with my last "virgo issue" all your answers were very helpful 🙂
Now I am back with more questions about a specific issue.
Last night, me and my Virgo friend were talking on skype and he inquired about my travel plans. I asked him why he was so curious, and he didn't say why but kept asking about them. As the stubborn cappy that I am, I didn't gave him the answer he wanted since he didn't gave me mine.

Results: He got mad, told me I was pissing him off, that he was happier when he wasn't talking to me and told me he was "done" with me for the night. I got pissed too, told him he was overreacting, explained that his way of acting was immature, and that if I was pissing him of that much, that I would leave him alone for a while and I logged out.
Something he doesn't like and to get a reaction out of him.

He likes to play games, so I decided a long time ago that I would play just as well as him.
Time passed,
and last night at around midnight, he texted me, told me he was missing me and that I was the person of his life.
I didn't reply.
Today, he texted me again, offended by my lack of answers. He said: "Well I guess you won't meet me today at 5!"
When he told me days before that meeting at 5 to hangout was not possible because he would be at work.

Next time I know, he's texting me non stop, telling me that it's my fault we didn't hangout earlier in the day (when he knows I had class) and that I am a terrible person for not taking the day off to hangout with him.
He also said something about meeting at work, when I told him at least a hundred times that he can't come to my work because of my boss. Yet, he keep asking and doing everything he can to make me look like a bad person for not allowing it.
I have yet to answer him.

What do you this of his actions?
Any positive or negative inputs are welcome.

Aly the Cappy.

I feel like neither one of you feels responsible for this.


The point of playing a game is to have fun and or beat it to its end.

So with that being true, the term "games" should not be used in these happenings because no one is having fun, and no one is winning.

What you've demonstrated is not a game. It is a manipulation tactic. It can piss people off.


Think critically.

"I'm disappointed that he won't give me an answer but perhaps if I give my honest answer then maybe, if not now he'll give his own honest answer."

Posted by Alyzabeth

... he inquired about my travel plans. I asked him why he was so curious, and he didn't say why but kept asking about them. As the stubborn cappy that I am, I didn't gave him the answer he wanted since he didn't gave me mine.

You could choose to be adults and cooperate with each other .... instead you choose to act like juveniles and let discord fester.


Suffer as you wish ... and while doing so, realize it's what you chose, he isn't forcing you to enjoy your misery, you enjoy because you chose to.

Posted by Alyzabeth
Hey everyone, I want to thank everyone for their help with my last "virgo issue" all your answers were very helpful 🙂
Now I am back with more questions about a specific issue.
Last night, me and my Virgo friend were talking on skype and he inquired about my travel plans. I asked him why he was so curious, and he didn't say why but kept asking about them. As the stubborn cappy that I am, I didn't gave him the answer he wanted since he didn't gave me mine.

Yea, just because he didn't say why he was asking doesn't mean much. He probably just wanted to see if a trip could be possible. I think that you just screwed up by being stubborn. I don't think that Capricorns like surprises and Virgos don't like spoiling surprises.

Playing games is stupid. It doesn't get anybody anywhere. If he texted you telling you that he misses you, that was your opportunity to get things flowing in a good direction. You ignoring him only sets you back a few steps further than where you first began.