Interesting topic for you guys today lol, I'm a Cap guy and am in a relationship with a Virgal. Wonderful woman, I see a future with her. I go in to more detail in a thread titled "hellcat(s)" if you guys want an "up until now" type of update. I just feel like typing a paragraph lol! Anyhoo, things couldn't be better, and this topic is more sexually oriented. We're getting into kinky shit, with some possible light BDSM in the future, more specifically, breathplay. I tried it, but I wasn't feeling it, kinda made me wanna fight. (idk, Army thing?) She loves it, but I was reading about possible dangers, (I'm the Dom, she's the sub, btw.) and I found that choking on the front of the throat, has nerves or some pressure points somewhere n if you hit it wrong, it can make the heart stop. no cardiac arrest, just stop. like drop dead. So, this scared the B.S. out of me. Like bad. 😢 So, I voiced this concern to her, n it seemed as though she took it as me not wanting to choke her at all, and it seemed as if she was unconcerned with the safety issue, tho she expressed that she loves how much I care, like a lot. She then tried to debate the topic by having me send her the 5 articles that said the same thing. It was at this point I told her it's non-negotiable. I offered a lot of other ways that have the same desired effect, tho they take more of a comfort thing. Plus vomiting from lack of oxygen. She also she was saddened by the fact it won't happen anymore. She's the best, most devoted girlfriend i've ever had, but SUCH a pain in the ass. I just dont see the need for a debate, is it just the sake of a debate or is she just not concerned with the safety issue at all? I would think that on account of possible instant death, it would kill the need for a debate. Am I wrong?
