Virgo and Libra what do ya think?

So I'm a Libra woman dating a virgo male...so far I haven't heard any happily ever after stories. Now I do have a little bit of Virgo in me I'm right on the cusp of both Libra and Virgo so I'm a mix. However I still have heard nothing positive. I guess my question is what are Virgo's pet peeves about Libras....for those that know or have had the pleasure to experience the thrill of having a libra woman?

"VIRGO AND LIBRA Libra is too frivolous and shallow for Virgo's taste. Libra enjoys spending money, going to parties, and being the center of attention. Virgo criticizes and makes Libra feel unloved. Libra may tap Virgo's hidden sensuality but their personalities are altogether too different for real compatibility Virgo will try to curb and dominate Libra's fickle and outer-directed nature. Virgo is reserved and practical, and Libra views this as a personal rebuff. Libra will soon drift away in search of more fun-loving companions."

This is pretty much the standard as far as compatibility

well, not that i have a happily ever after story for you, but i have one that's a little different. i dont know this story from the inside out, however, so the over/outer view = my brother (Libra) was with a virgo gal for 5 years and they were engaged. they seemed quite complatible, with tons of shared interests and hobbies...until she met another fellow online, had some sort of affair right under my brother's nose, which he trusted was a close friendship and thus did not question, and then commenced to leave my brother for this fellow. the point? it's not always a simple matter of Libra's lack of "depth". in this case, it was about a personal maturity and lack of responsibility for maintaining a relationship with another person. so, this doesn't answer your question, or really help at all! 8D but i had to bust up the seeming status quo.

Yeah a lil sketchy about the online affairs especially after the match.com dude...No chance of that happening! I am ot one to think the grass is greener on the other side when I have a good man! U should see the garbage that is out there!

aww, now dont knock that too hard, honey. hehe. i met my husband on an online dating site. and yes, i have my excuses for being there in the first place, but still. it is true however that there's alot of sketchy folks to be found anywhere online really. and anyway, my bro's ex didn't meet her replacement man on a dating site.

not knockin it...just not for me ya know

My two very serious relationships were with Virgo men. (I have no earth in my chart. I am all air and fire.)

One I lived with and was with for 5 yrs. The other I was engaged too and was with for almost three years.

We got along VERY, VERY well. They are good men, reliable, kind, generous, well mannered just good mariage material men. The problem lay in the bedroom.

I sincerely believe Libra and Virgos are not sexually compatible. The 5 yr guy I was physically attracted to initially but he let himself go and I lost all my sexual attraction to him. The sex was always mediocre which didn't help. There really was no sexual bond. Eventually it lead to resentment on both sides. The second Virgo I was sexually attracted too but he had no sex drive. He was once a week guy, if that, and very sexually repressed. This is not the reason we broke up, I would have lived with it because I really believed in him as a person and we were very much in love, but it was a huge issue for me.

I have started dating another Virgo same story. REALLY great guy. Treats me so well but I am not attracted to him at all. When he kisses me, I just turn off. But we have the best conversations, we understand each other, there is no big emotional crap ... it is very easy ... but again he just doesn't turn me on. I am not attracted to him physically at all. Not his hair, his body, his face ... nothing. In fact, quite the opposite.

I really think this can be THE relationship for the Libra and the Virgo IF they are sexually compatible.

Both long-term Virgo men are still in my life. The one I was engaged to is still one of my best friends and we love each other to pieces but long term we would not have made each other happy. The other is living with one of my best friends who also happens to be a Virgo. We are not close but if I have a question or a problem, he is always there to help me.

Great friends but no zoom, zooom, zooooom in the bedroom. I am learning just how important that zoom, zooom, zooooom is. I don't think I would settle without it again.

little sparrow, you dont happen to know what each of your venus and mars placements are, do you? alot of times that can have a big impact on sexual compatability.

For me the zoom zoom zoom is not an issue we get along great in every aspect.....I have just heard about the personality differences so I was wondering. I think we are just getting to the good part though. It's a scary thing you know.....I'm just really scared because this guy drives me absolutely nuts...in a good way though! So I know a lot of it is fear!

As long as you really are sexually compatible, I wouldn't worry.

The zoom, zoom, zoom is sexual chemistry. As long as you aren't lying to yourself about it, you will be fine.

Both of mine are in Libra. The engagement guy was v=Leo and m=Sag. The one I lived with (and the new guy) v=virgo; m=gemini

"I think this pair can work, if both parties have a clearer understanding of their differences than we had at the outset"

so true. every relationship needs this.

Thank you Dyr...you always put things in perspective for me! That is exactly how I am! Except instead of wigging out to him I wig out to my best friend and try to remain cool and collective with him! For instance I found an imprint of a letter he wrote to an ex expressing his feelings for her in the last 7 months..Instead of me realizing the facts. He trusts me enough to leave me in his house ALONE all day...keeping my TBrush next to his for like 3 months and really making a conscious effort to be aware of my feelings and change...I focused on this and b***** to my bestfriend who told me not to read it...I really have to learn to just look at what is happening with US and not always look at the worst and also not take things as personally as I do! So again thank you Dyr sometimes it takes another persons viewpoint to see where you go wrong! I'm trying to change and not be so skeptical but it is hard and you can't do it overnight....

No problem archer. You can have our shared brain for the afternoon. 🙂

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Dy speaks the truth about their withdrawl. It generally isn't about you when they do it. It is usually about work or something else.

menaremysteries...

Take the match test and see how the 2 of you work out? Just for funsies:

http://web.tickle.com/tests/zodiac/?test=zodiacogt<BR>

I don't particularly like libras much. They're usually really sweet and great for conversation, but so far none that i've met have sparked much other than slight interest. I don't see why it wouldn't work though. They seem to be very attentive when it comes to communication.

I try to be.....I am on the cusp of virgo and libra so I have a lot of intertwining characteristics..

I posted this yesterday under a new topic...however I need a ggod opinion on this. I might be extra sensitive because I'm a Libra....so an opinion from a virgo will really help.

So...of course from my other posts you all know I'm dating this virgo.....today we were talking about previous relationships and the breakups.....to make a long story short I asked what would make you break up with someone so he said If I decide to be in a relationship it woule take a lot....my concern is the If I... he kept saying it. Now I guess my question is I thought that we were in a relationship and everything he has been doing lately has corresponded with my belief....however from our conversation it makes me think we're not the big if I....I don't want to ask. What do you all think?

yeah he has the same birthday as branh......so u see what I'm dealing with. How do you think he'd respond to a poem or something that says that he can trust me or something along those lines....

You're telling me Dyr.....Maybe it's something wrong with me! I never knew a relationship was truky hard work....participants should get paid by the hour! It's just crazy if you ask me. This is supposed to be uncomplicated and easy....maybe I'm just naive. But I can usually figure out in the first conversation if I'll ever speak to you again or you go under the do not answer title.....It usually takes me a few weeks of talking to the person to agree to go out on a date with them. After the date if they pass that test then we work towards the other stuff....so by the time I get to this point I'm sure about the person....however that has not been the road in this scenario.
Again crazy if you ask me!