IS THIS LIBRA MEANT FOR ME(A VIRGO)

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Unregistered on Tuesday, July 23, 2002 and has 29 replies.

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Libra men seem to want to be connected to as many women as possible even if they are married. There is a flaw in their reasoning and they play by their own rules . Whats good for them isnt good for you. Remember this before you enter into a relationship. Better to keep a buffer zone of potential guys so as not to get hurt.

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Who said they were talking about a Libra man? I didn't gather that from the question!

Libra's are not fulfilled (women) unless they are in a satisfying marriage. Once they are, they will become their primary focus i.e husband, home, children etc...this is where they are at their best!!!!!!!!

Libra is in the 7th house, which represents marriage! Everything you read about Libra will tell you this! And if there is any addiional Libra or Cancer infulences in the chart, then it will be even stronger.

I have always gotten along well with Virgos. They are exacting and fussy and analytical and this for some reason works with me. Their critism never bothered me, I usually laugh it off or if it is true, I'll take their advice and try and change things!

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I guess you were talking about a guy. I didn't have the post centered on the screen very well!!! Libra men can be a whole different story! They are flirts and they do like to play the field. Not much intensity about them either.

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They are more concerned about their needs....its always about them. They are never satisfied with one woman even in a picture perfect marriage.But heaven forbid if their partner did what they do behind their backs!

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Virgos and Libras are not compatible.
Sooner or later, he will want stimulation in a big way, and if you don't become his source, he will burn you. Run now, while you can. He probabaly thinks you're sweet and he he may even care a lot about you, but is he really in love with you? Ask him straight up.

Libra female.

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That's a ridiculous statement! How many Libra men are you refering to anyways? Have you been with so many you can make that kind accusation— The Virgo chic is looking for some good advice. State the facts as it pertains to you.

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Libra female

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Hey there again 152.163.
I am responding to your comment.
I have dated a virgo before.
It is not my wish to hurt her, but the fact is that virgo and libra do not work. They do not have what it takes to make libra tick. air needs fire, or other air signs.
Maybe it is that I could have been nicer about saying that the first time, but I'm being very realistic when I say this. It is better for her to love someone who will be able to fulfill her needs, than for her to have a half- assed relationship, which could lead to cheating on both sides.
Could this be experience that I am speaking from?

To the Virgo that posted the original message, do yourself a favor and stay away from libras. They are not good for you.

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Don't listen to someone who has been hurt. They are only remembering the bad stuff and not the good. Do what is in your heart! Honestly if you love them, then you it can work. There is more to a person than a sun sign, and I wish people would consider this and not make it the ONLY issue when finding their mate!

I have seen this response over and over again. Go deeper than that. It is just a start. Give it some time and energy and be as open and honest, as you can! Sometimes it is hard to trust someone you barely know, but they are going to have to know what you are all about or it will destroy any chance or hope at anything lasting. Holding back for whatever reason is manipulative!

And Virgo, being analytical is ok for us Libras, we appreciate it! But, can you find something positive to throw in there once in awhile too. Does it always have to be something negative— Just every once in awhile, a nice word would make us as happy as a child on Christmas!!!!!
Lib chic
in the wrong area again, oh well!?

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206?

One more little bit of fact versus fiction, I was in two relationships in almost 24 years. One was to a Gemini and the other although not married, might as well have been, lasted almost 14 years was to a Sagittarius. In both situation I NEVER cheated or thought about cheating. Five years ago I gave up on having the realionship, although that person still depends on my help not good, anyone in my life because nothing I was doing seemed to work, yet I tried so damn hard! I am a Libra with a Libra moon but I have alot of other signs in my chart that balance out the air. I have 5 planets in water signs which make me relate much better emotionally to other water signs. I also have alot of earth signs that ground me. Sometimes when we have too much and not enough of one element, then that can cause problems. If you are all earth and water, maybe you should find someone with a little air in them to lighten you up a bit and so forth and so on....

PS: a half-assed relationship—? why?

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PSS: I am in love with my neighboring sun sign and that isn't suppose to work either, if you listen to some people! But I know better than that! I know what my heart keeps telling me and I am defintely paying attention!!!

I will never give up on something once my heart is committed! Once I do and if you treat me right, I will do everything to make your life pleasurable and worth of you! And I am very romantic...in private!

Good Luck in Love =listen to your heart!
Lib chic

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half assed relationship...
I said that because.. I found something missing in mine with Virgo, and although I truly did love him deeply, I could never quite be truly happy.
I brought all the variety and excitement...
Hope this helps

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libran men are utterly selfish... they charm for what they can get, are demanding, boring, two faced and nasty when charm doesn't work.... i have never been out with a libran man my mum is a libran and so are half the men in my family ( both blood and in-laws..) all of them behave this way.... run while u can

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RUN—?? why are you to say this? I am a libra and I am not like your relatives. I am not selfish or those things. why you are to say these things? Just want to know why people should run from all libras? can you explain to me this?

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geez what is this good cop bad cop routine. i feel like i'm being played. who cares lif they think libras suck. theres 11 other treetrunkin signs find one and shut up already will you!

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yea seriously, dont trip, these ppls are just stating their experiences and thats wut this message board is for, rite? Maybe some are just putting down all libras but daym who gives a fuk, it doesnt have to get to youLuZ

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I think that Libras rock! Of course, I'm one of them.. LOL
boring no.. weary of receiving an explosive reaction is closer to it.. we are a lively bunch.. but not when others try to force their will on us.. and we surely don't feel like explaining ourselves or fixing any foul butter..
just a thought. This is my opinion from my experience with certain lovers.. but hey everyone's different.

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What— I understood some of what you wrote!LOL what is foul butter? and who receives explosive reactions? I avoid them! and it all depends what part of his will he wants to force on me. It could be something good for me!

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he he.. hmmm.. I laughed at my own message when I saw it posted too! The site has substituted butter for the 50lb s word that I had originally typed. So sorry=) explosive reactions refer to libra/taurus relationships where sometimes libra lays low to keep peace and quiet for the sake of peace and quiet. Others trying to force their will on us refers to the disregard of our freedom of choice.. Hope this helps.. This is what I found caused me to lose taste for my libra/ taurus relationship.. just my thoughts.

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I should probably go on to say that it's been a bit of a long bumpy ride with my ex- boyfriend (taurus). he hehe: (that's whom I've been referring to), but oh well, I guess we're at odds again.. que sera sera hmmm... Have a great evening guys! -)