Virgo Boyfriend

I'm an Aries woman I've been dating a Virgo man for about two months. It feels as if we're married I cook and clean while he works and takes care of money matters. I start work next week and he wasn't excited when I told him he seemed upset I wanted a job on my own. I'm a smoker he gets upset when I smoke and tries to get me to quit everyday. We flirt a lot and I think this confuses him that I'm not like every girl... I like to keep things interesting or so to say fresh I get him to show his fun side because I can't stand him being serious and focus all the time life is too short not to smile once in awhile Š . He is dominant and so am I so it's always a battle with who has the last word and who's right I just let him be right because forcing my opinion goes through one ear and out the next not to mention he gets upset when I bring friends over without "telling him" first as if I'm a child but I look over it and just apologize and bat my eyes at him . He has told me he wants to be part of my life and we've discussed our future plans in life well his mostly because in his eyes he's the man I'm the woman I follow him ....this bothers me I've always had my way and been in control of my relationships but it's something about this man that makes me feel safe or it could be my typical Aries curiosity because he totally intrigues me

I just ended my relationship with a Virgo. I understand that controlling factor that Virgos tend to have, (planning out the future, feeling married pretty soon)...
Don't let him have the last word just because. If he's actually right, then ok. But if you are right, give it to him as logical as you can because that's what they understand. Virgos seem to like a challenge. A woman that does everything he says "would get boring, my girl has to hold my attention" My Virgo said this to me, he said that's why he loved me and was so intrigued by me... because I challenged him and stood up for my words and questioned certain things. I am my own woman.

Virgos tend to like strong women. They may want to change things about you or your life together, but never set aside your strong beliefs to let him control everything, he'll get bored. Seems contradicting but that's kind of what they seem to do. *shrug* Just stay true to who you are, be willing to compromise small things, as he should as well. COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION!!! I can't stress it enough bc Aries Woman-Virgo Man communication tends to be extremely opposite in my experience. Be open with him, he'll appreciate it.

& omg Virgos do make you feel so safe, that's what I loved about my ex. It could be both, how safe he makes you feel and their behavior IS intriguing because we Aries are veryyyy opposite of them.

Hope all goes well.

Posted by CrosstownTraffic
@curlyaries why is the behavior so interesting?

I think everyone's behavior is interesting honestly. I love analyzing people and why they do the things they do. Having a Virgo be my first love, and the Virgo I just broke up with being my first relationship... I find it interesting in particular that there's a magnetism between Me and Virgos I encounter (I don't encounter many, so when I do, there's electricity of sorts)

But mainly the fact that we are so opposite of one another intrigues me. Them being so controlled is interesting as well. I always have a sense of wanting to be a savior for them. Always want to help calm their mental activity when it's haywire.

@CrosstownTraffic lmaoooo @ vuuruurgo. That's not me but I find it amusing.

I would think out of all earth sign Virgo and Aries get along the best.

It's so nice seeing earth sign with Aries. I think they work out well ☺

Posted by CrosstownTraffic
why do you always let him have the last word? failure comming

ya aries has a problem always following the virgo.....dont do it

i would tell him ya having friends over, bc he may have plans for you two.
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So what's the question you need answered?

No question , I needed different perspectives I'm on the inside but people on the outside can tell me what I'm too blind to see myself or don't want to hear... I don't let him get the last word all the time but majority yes and I follow him because of his ego I don't want to compete with his masculinity

Posted by CurlyAries
I just ended my relationship with a Virgo. I understand that controlling factor that Virgos tend to have, (planning out the future, feeling married pretty soon)...
Don't let him have the last word just because. If he's actually right, then ok. But if you are right, give it to him as logical as you can because that's what they understand. Virgos seem to like a challenge. A woman that does everything he says "would get boring, my girl has to hold my attention" My Virgo said this to me, he said that's why he loved me and was so intrigued by me... because I challenged him and stood up for my words and questioned certain things. I am my own woman.

Virgos tend to like strong women. They may want to change things about you or your life together, but never set aside your strong beliefs to let him control everything, he'll get bored. Seems contradicting but that's kind of what they seem to do. *shrug* Just stay true to who you are, be willing to compromise small things, as he should as well. COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION!!! I can't stress it enough bc Aries Woman-Virgo Man communication tends to be extremely opposite in my experience. Be open with him, he'll appreciate it.

& omg Virgos do make you feel so safe, that's what I loved about my ex. It could be both, how safe he makes you feel and their behavior IS intriguing because we Aries are veryyyy opposite of them.

Hope all goes well.

Yes our communication is difficult he's quiet I can never shut up lol I try to get him to open up he just stares at me and always says he's focused on his music which I understand because he is an aspiring artist so I give him the benefit of the doubt. He is controlling and I fight against it most of the time and it bothers him because he has control over everything in his life except me I'm far to free spontaneous I keep him guessing I'm always surprising him and their behavior is intriguing they are the opposite of Aries so every move he makes how he thinks intrigues me because he has a different mindset than me and I find that sexy. It's as if he's the logical balancing out my imaginative

Posted by RumiL
It's so nice seeing earth sign with Aries. I think they work out well ☺

Yes we balance one another out and show a different way to love.

Posted by CurlyAries
. I understand that controlling factor that Virgos tend to have, (planning out the future, feeling married pretty soon)...
Don't let him have the last word just because. If he's actually right, then ok. But if you are right, give it to him as logical as you can because that's what they understand. Virgos seem to like a challenge. A woman that does everything he says "would get boring, my girl has to hold my attention" My Virgo said this to me, he said that's why he loved me and was so intrigued by me... because I challenged him and stood up for my words and questioned certain things. I am my own woman.

Virgos tend to like strong women. They may want to change things about you or your life together, but never set aside your strong beliefs to let him control everything, he'll get bored. Seems contradicting but that's kind of what they seem to do. *shrug* Just stay true to who you are, be willing to compromise small things, as he should as well. COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION!!!.

This is very good advice.