Virgo female in love with a Virgo male

Hi
I met a virgo male at work; he's actually one of the superiors (I started at the company 8 months ago). First months I haven't thought much of this guy mainly because he is much older than I am. Did not think he'd be in my romantic radar. I think he's in his 50s but he is active and very sharp. Anyway, since I started he never smiled or said hi whenever we passed by. I found this odd that he didn't bother to make an effort to be friendly. This caught my attention. So I stopped being friendly so he gets some of his own medicine. I noticed that as I performed better and better at work he started noticing me more. He is more respectful. The last few weeks I started developing feelings for him because of his intelligence (I'm a sapiosexual)and hate to admit it, I think I got sucked into "I don't give a shit about you, ignore, ignore"... Whenever we're alone (this happens only at the office kitchen)he stares, he's very friendly, and asks a question or two... but when we're outside that area he's very cold and pretends not to notice me. Our daily routine with him is just staring each other without saying anything. He's a virgo and thinking back I think he, very cleverly, made it so I am infatuated by him. I think we both know what the other is thinking but none of us is making a move...to be honest, I don't know where this will lead us. I personally take work very seriously so doing anything to jeopardize that is a no no...at the same time, I'm very in love with this man (I think he's a match I've been waiting for)...

If one of you says I should ask him point blank what he thinks of me..forget it, I will never make a move unless he shows his cards, and he won't make a move unless I show my cards.... this will go on ... 🙂

The infamous Virgo - Virgo dance.

Well, one of you will have to show your cards or neither of you will ever reach a resolution. Although first of all, is your superior available at the moment, and secondly are you prepared to deal/face with the complex difficulties that may run rampant if you both pursue this whilst within the same company.

Have you ever considered the fact, that he may be this way simply because he is aware of what he has at stake, and what he will jeopardise in regards to his career, if he were to pursue this within the work place?

I found out he was married twice but is single now.
He must be inwardly weighing out the pros and cons of starting something up with me. I don't have a problem with that as I'm in same limbo myself; he's trying to read me to see if I can be trusted...We both are actually. Until we can deduce that about each other nothing will happen that's for sure. I wouldn't want an immature emotional train wreck talking about personal details of the relationship in case it wouldn't work out. LOL we'll never hook up amidst all the calculation of what might happen 360 degree thinking.

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So what is your inquiry?

Nothing in particular.. you may write whatever comment comes to your mind. If someone knows of same situation I wouldn't mind if they share the outcome.. thanks

I actually saw all the similar topics regarding virgo males and I wanted to share my story. Simply because I'm very frustrated and needed an outlet.

You say you are in love with someone you have never gone on a date with and have barely had any interaction with, other than work related stuff?

Think about that for a bit.... your a Virgo, does that sound logical? 🙂

A person can be smitten with someone from afar, but in love?

I am also going to mention the supervisor/employee aspect.... it's bad business to mix work/romance.

Posted by virg_goki
it sounds like an accidental case of pua. The man unknowingly does the strategy and she wants the bait.

+1

At best, its a 50/50 situation with a high probability of failure...which is already set in motion. For one, she is overlooking the obvious. He's already been married twice and will most likely be very cautious to form any deep bond other than sex. Two, he's not going to mess around with someone in the same area. Maybe in the same building, but not someone he directly works with. He may be attracted to her, but notice his interest is only expressed mildly in private.

Sorry OP, but it appears you're fascinated over him. Maybe obsessive...a trait quietly not discussed with Virgos. It'll die with time but I'd advise against forming anything other than a professional relationship. Which may present a catch 22.