Virgo girl confusing this Cancer studmuffin.

First I'll say i'm a cancer.

Me and this Virgo chick has been texting for sometime. she would start the conversations on text. Fast forward! The other day she asked me to come over to her place and chill with her. So I did we made out and I touched her a little bit 😉 gigity. She didn't wanna smash that day cause it was are first time hanging out together alone. Make out continues and so does the cuddling. Then I leave we start texting again, told her next time we hang out those pants are coming off! she replays: they will for sure 😉 (with a wink) flirt text continues... An hour later after we're done texting, she tells me not to text her anymore and that to wait for her to text me again...

Well I went to a party that night and got drunk and Texted her anyways. Now this is what confused the HELL out of me... I said hey. Her: who's this? Me: sorry miss dial. (at this point I was like wtf is going on) Her: This is blablabla...who's this? Me: umm wrong number... sorry. Her: okay then. This is bla right? I said: umm wrong number. no. Her: haha yes it is.. this is blablabla for real dumb ass. you came over today. durr. Me: no reply. Her: K fine. Be a dick.

Confusing as HELL! I dont think that was her that I was texting. I'm really starting to like her and this sucks.. she also took me off Facebook. I swear she liked me a lot more then I liked her. I don't understand.

"If you like her maybe you should try to get to know her personality and focus less on the physical so she doesn't think you are only after one thing and might take you more seriously."

Thats what I need to do. I'm starting to like her and I dont want her to think all I want is sex. I havent text her back yet. tell me what I could text back to her to fix this 😢

Maybe ask her to do something in public. You can take her to get something to eat so you guys can talk and she won't feel pressured for sex.

You are referring to yourself as a studmuffin?



JesusFuckingChrist ... I'm surprised your head hasn't busted out the computer monitor yet.

Posted by P-Angel
You are referring to yourself as a studmuffin?



JesusFuckingChrist ... I'm surprised your head hasn't busted out the computer monitor yet.

yeahhh... I immediately thought the same thing. And I'm sure this virgo girl can sense it too. If you really lke this girl, you need to keep your pants up and put your hands n places that aren't between her legs. She probably has a fire sign in her venus, but regardless, you need to treat a virgo girl with a little more respect and patience. Don't expect her to sit there and have sex with you immediately. Talk to her, take her out, express yourself a little more, keep things real. Virgos can smell a fake, and they don't like games. If you really like this girl, stop going for the sex first.

yea candeh is right virgos aint easy people to deal with if she didnt like you she woulda turned cold and cut you off like dead limb.

why dont you try to get to noe her as a person before the physical if you know about virgos we have everybody done logically and in order so we can feel at ease.

we are intellectuals we are not touchy feely like cancers unless we know for sure we like the person and vice versa.

Ok, so I took some of your advice. I am being less of a horn freak and really starting to get to know her... she is Sooo emo. the way we used to text isnt the same ol' sex talks. We are just normal texting/taling. she tells me how she is affraid of guys hurting her from the past. and yesterday I told her I was going to hang out with a friend (which happens to be a girl) After she told me she was going to hang out with a guy friend of hers... She got stood up. I told her "could have hung out with me tonight. going back to the pool" she then tells me that I'm having an attitude and that im a jackass. blablabla it goes on.. going back to her being affraid of guys hurting her from the past. she pretty much admitted that night that she didnt want to lose me. I feel like I have to text her all the time so she doesn't get mad. Is this normal Virgo behavior? you guys are cool at first but once we get to know you it gets confusing? It's like what happen to the first girl I met.

ok if she told you not to text her and she'd text you first...that probably means she either has a bf or other guys she's seeing....yeah.

Posted by trifles light as air*
ok if she told you not to text her and she'd text you first...that probably means she either has a bf or other guys she's seeing....yeah.

The trifled one is a wise individual. Heed her words!

Studmuffin is pretty cool.

"I don't want her to think all I want is sex."

All you wanted in the first place was sex. you're too late though. She deleted you off facebook, for immature girls, that's like kicking your ass and saying "get out of my life, you bitch!"
haha sorry!! maybe next time.