Virgo Girl playing hard to get?

So this is my first time dating a virgo. I am a cancer. So I like being pursued rather than pursusing. We have had 3 hangouts, first date she was very shy and so was I but we broke through that and hit it off pretty well.
Second date we went to the movies, not much talking but had a short kiss at the end. Third was at my place where it got pretty heated, we just made out, while my hands ran alittle wild🙂 Now I like her even more and let her know.. she said she likes me but she never gives my compliments..

So I backed off alil after that night as I knew she was busy plus I did my research on virgo girls. I told her I didn't plan on things getting so heated and we agreed to slow things down. One week after our heated night I asked to see her again but she cancelled at last minute and asked for a rain check. I didn't take it so great but said ok, now I have stopped texting her all together.. it's been 5 days. She hasn't texted. I've been playing the waiting game now since I was the one initiating all the dates and texts. I know I'll eventually text her if she doesn't cause I like her too much and I know she likes me but I'm not sure how long I should give it...dang virgo's!

She'll probably get back at you. Them virgo women are dangerous homie. I wish u the best.

Thanks man, Think I'll give in soon and text her... Hate chasing! too bad the person who cares less has the most power

Thanks for your insight! So, You'd let them know sooner or later? Why not sooner rather than later??
Don't think I want to wait and see if she contacts me. Should I be direct with her or beat around the bush

played the i miss talkin to you card... ignored. shit sucks

As retarded as it sounds whoa I've been chasing this one for quite some time (over a year) so i know how hard it is to stay away and not contact her. As much as it sucks u have to fall back and let her come to u. Maybe she will, maybe she wont. This is what I mean about them being dangerous because u never really know whats going on. Things seem to be going well one minute and then the next its like...wut the fukk?......who are u? Something about them (cant speak for every virgo woman,but at least the one Im dealing with) is extremely intriguing. Its like I want to say fukk it and move on,but the challenge/mystery/whatever the hell it is is so strong that it makes it extremely difficult to give up. Especially when u decide that your done and then they approach u again...and of course we dive back in whole heartedly only to experience the same pulling away as usual. Shyt is emotionally exhausting. I cant stop thinking about her...feel like a sucka honestly........Love hurts I guess. She makes me not want to love anymore....its consuming.

As a virgo! I feel 4 u! we are the most difficult people to have a relationship/even just friendship with.

Posted by Joshmoe
As retarded as it sounds whoa I've been chasing this one for quite some time (over a year) so i know how hard it is to stay away and not contact her. As much as it sucks u have to fall back and let her come to u. Maybe she will, maybe she wont. This is what I mean about them being dangerous because u never really know whats going on. Things seem to be going well one minute and then the next its like...wut the fukk?......who are u? Something about them (cant speak for every virgo woman,but at least the one Im dealing with) is extremely intriguing. Its like I want to say fukk it and move on,but the challenge/mystery/whatever the hell it is is so strong that it makes it extremely difficult to give up. Especially when u decide that your done and then they approach u again...and of course we dive back in whole heartedly only to experience the same pulling away as usual. Shyt is emotionally exhausting. I cant stop thinking about her...feel like a sucka honestly........Love hurts I guess. She makes me not want to love anymore....its consuming.

Appreciate the advice.. chasing for over a year, it's hard to blame ya tho. I know exactly what your talking about. The chemistry we had was something I'm not sure I ever had before.. I've only been dealing with her for a month and my heart is already too far into it. The part the eurks me is I had her over and coulda slept with her, she said the next day she wanted it bad.. but I played the gentleman and took her home before it got outta hand. Then she found out I like her too much, after that, Let the games begin! Now I'm left wondering what happened.. and I guess I won't know. I'll make a final push for her attention cause I ain't going out like that

@Roondog636: Hello,i'm curious what are your criterias for people be your friends?
i think virgos have very high standarts to which very few persons could measure up

Yea whoa....the chemistry is nutz. Before I even knew her, before we were friends I felt something pulling me towards her. We woyld talk/txt each other all the time. Now its weird. Sucks balls even. She can be so distant.....I dont get it. Im keeping my distance now...ataying away. It sucks because she's all I want. No other females matter. Like u said, I've never felt this before. Not even with my ex-wife. This shyt CRA!!

Posted by Joshmoe
As retarded as it sounds whoa I've been chasing this one for quite some time (over a year) so i know how hard it is to stay away and not contact her. As much as it sucks u have to fall back and let her come to u. Maybe she will, maybe she wont. This is what I mean about them being dangerous because u never really know whats going on. Things seem to be going well one minute and then the next its like...wut the fukk?......who are u? Something about them (cant speak for every virgo woman,but at least the one Im dealing with) is extremely intriguing. Its like I want to say fukk it and move on,but the challenge/mystery/whatever the hell it is is so strong that it makes it extremely difficult to give up. Especially when u decide that your done and then they approach u again...and of course we dive back in whole heartedly only to experience the same pulling away as usual. Shyt is emotionally exhausting. I cant stop thinking about her...feel like a sucka honestly........Love hurts I guess. She makes me not want to love anymore....its consuming.

Awwww...that's not retarted, you just love her. Maybe you said or did something to upset her? Usually when my SO does something to upset me I shut down & don't wanna talk to him until I've cooled off a bit. In a moment such as that I just don't wanna say something in a fit of anger so I just stay away and/or ignore. I care about him so eventually I come around & then I'm able to discuss what was wrong.

Posted by bluemoon9043834
Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you will get.

🙂

Actually you can know now because nowadays the lids have a layout of the flavors printed underneath.


Hardened caramel ones are horrible. 😢

Oddly enough I'm having the exact same thing going on right now. Actually reconnected with one that I was good friends with in high school which was years ago, but however just found her via social media a month or so ago, got her number, made plans to hang one saturday, she ended up rain checking the day of, since then we have texted all day everyday for like 3 solid weeks, she really opened up to me and we've had an awesome conversation going, and out of the blue poof, around 4 or 5 days ago she just stopped responding. Dont really know if I should attempt contact or see if she does it, but I feel your pain it really does suck. Just like highs choo I started liking her alot immediatly, love the person she is which is rare for me, and can't stop thinking about her

Posted by whoa81
So this is my first time dating a virgo. I am a cancer. So I like being pursued rather than pursusing.

crabs are shameless betas, one thing I like about y'all

There's this adorable crab guy I work with. LMFAOO unfortunately I'm just realizing how aloof I must seem to him

Oh well