Turn-ons/offs by sign?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by roxyfalcon2006 on Sunday, July 17, 2011 and has 14 replies.

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@roxyfalcon2006
15 YearsVirgo

Just curious if theyre similar at all. Sorry if someone posted about this already..
(I'm a Leo/Virgo female, Aries rising)
Turn ons:
Manners
Ambition
Liking animals
Being protective
Aggressive in bed
Giving flowers
Clean-shaven
Spiritual
Gentleman
Taller than me
Respectful to parents
Sweet with children
A little jealous
Adventurous
Innocence

Turn offs:
Racism
Facial hair (or body hair in general really haha)
Not tipping or not tipping well
Having slept with a lot of women
Military guys (sorry but every girl I know that's dated one has has AWFUL experiences, so I think I'll avoid them, although I do support what they do, but I'd never date one)
Uneducated
Flirty with other women

Cocky

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@MadameAthena
15 Years

I don't think I am a typical scorpio. Here mines:

Turn ons:

Integrity
Intelligence
Wisdom
Ambition
Alturism (a good heart)
Independent
Class
Cleanliness
Sarastic as me
Someone who loves kids
someone who is always seeking to improve themselves and those around them.
A gentleman with some gansta in him. 🙂
My list gets pretty big.. These are the essentials.

Turn offs:

LOUD and showy men
Dishonesty
Laziness
Ugly teeth, sorry. I went on a date with this gorgeous guy. (He was a cancer)
But his badly crooked teeth turned me off.
Extreme selfishness
Filth
Uneducated
Tacky behavior in public.

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@lildol
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Turn Ons

Intelligence
Confidence (not cocky though)
Good with money
Reading glasses (very sexy to me)
Watching a man work (physical labor)
Sweat
Will dance with me in the kitchen (at random)
Sexually adventurous
Appreciates nature
Loves animals
Chest hair
Smiling Eyes
Clean cut
Takes responsibilities for own actions
Happy with life
Takes challenges head on
Optimism
Organization
Self-reliance

Turn Offs

Inefficiency
Unreliability
Irresponsibility (especially with money)
Tattoos
Cockiness
Arrogance
Dishonesty
Drunkenness (unless I'm drunk too)
Loud laughter
Talking too much (give me some time in my own head please)
Big muscles
Men in love with themselves
People who think they know more than me (I am a Cap after all 😛)

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@leilaxxlovez
16 Years500+ Posts

Turn Ons
Confidence
Integrity
An expressive soul
Cleanliness
A wise,happy soul

Turn-Offs
Arrogance
Spects-idk why but it is a huge turn off...
Childishness
Having no backbone
Not believing in one's self
Sexist-argh.
Talking without action.
cap🙂

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@Sarinka_Moon
16 Years

Turn ons:
Anything that Leos are

Turn offs:
Anything that Leos aren't

What can I say...I'm smitten by those big kittens!!! *puuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrr*

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Considering that a person doesn't "think" about who turns them on or off ... all of the above is just a wish list and nothing based on reality.

You could fall in love with a trash collector tomorrow, who doesn't have two coins to rub together, has bad breath, and is proud to have been the first person in their family to graduate from 3rd grade ... so, all of the things on the lists above mean absolute nothing in real terms.

Your instincts sniff out pheromones to find who you are, or are not, attracted to .. for any/all turn ons/offs .... AFTER your pheromones pick a person out, you then make judgements on the other person, usually to the good because you want them, even when they possess items on your lists.

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@Sarinka_Moon
16 Years

I have to disagree because to me, chemistry isn't enough further down the road.

For instance, I can't do mama's boys. And when I say mama's boys, I mean an ADULT MAN who can't breathe without checking in with mommy to make sure it's ok for him to step foot out of his house. He could be the finest creature on earth and we could have great chemistry, but I wouldn't pursue a relationship with him because I would be annoyed and turned-OFF later on because he can't make a decision without mommy. Why waste my time on someone who I KNOW I'll end up loathing because they do the things that make my skin cringe? That is why people have lists/ general things that they would like someone to have to keep them from being utterly annoyed beyond repair by being involved with someone who they KNEW did the things that got on their nerves i.e. turn-offs from jump street.

People may have flaws, but some flaws can't be downplayed by love OR chemistry because they will end up HATING each other later on.

Just my two piece and a biscuit 😉

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@nov5male
16 Years

Just a few...

Turn On's:
a girl that knows how to dress
a girl with a real sense a humor
a girl that knows how to flirt, cat and mouse never old even if you're already together
a girl that's secure enough to be comfortable with silence!
a girl who doesn't have a problem taking initiative mmmmm
a challenge
garters

a bunch of other stuff

Turn Offs:
a girl with too much hair on legs or arms
a girl that's loud, can't shut up and blurts out random stuff (Shorty... STFU)
a girl who think's you owe her something from the door
a plain 'ol dumb girl, I know you look good but this won't go that far sis
a girl without conversation skills. You know, one of those type don't have anything to say unless you say something 1st. Corny.
a girl wearing baggy jeans
a girl with not bad but terrible eating habits... not cute.
insecurity
a girl that goes to the bathroom right-right before it's about to jumpoff. Seriously ma?!
a girl that won't succumb to my every sexual demand! (JOKING LOL)

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@MsPisces.
16 Years1,000+ Posts

I agree with PAngel, but I'll play

Turn ons

Man of his word (this trumps all else)
Intelligent and open minded/progressive
Capable/Know how
Good with their hands...can fix stuff for me
Cool, down to earth white boys who smoke newports lol

Acts like a little bitch when hurt/doesnt get his way. ugh. Silent treatment and all that stuff will send me swimming.
Foul smelling...like if I walk into his bedroom and it smells like man, that's a turn off.
Too secretive for no good reason (again with the bitch stuff)

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@MsPisces.
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Oh... a scared man. It can be kinda sweet if he's shy, but when it comes down to it he should know how to boss up. I hate the 'uhh excuse me, excuse me' (chris rock voice) type men.

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@MiaSangria
15 Years

Virgo Sun, Cancer Moon, Scorpio Rising:

Turn me on w/:
Intelligence
Humour
Unconventional thoughts/ideas
Cleanliness
Class
Chivalry
Respect for self and others
Wit

Turn me off w/:
Bullsh*t
Drama
Fakeness
Overt Sexuality
Crudeness
Ignorance
Stupidity

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@MadameAthena
15 Years

Posted by P-Angel
Considering that a person doesn't "think" about who turns them on or off ... all of the above is just a wish list and nothing based on reality.

You could fall in love with a trash collector tomorrow, who doesn't have two coins to rub together, has bad breath, and is proud to have been the first person in their family to graduate from 3rd grade ... so, all of the things on the lists above mean absolute nothing in real terms.

Your instincts sniff out pheromones to find who you are, or are not, attracted to .. for any/all turn ons/offs .... AFTER your pheromones pick a person out, you then make judgements on the other person, usually to the good because you want them, even when they possess items on your lists.

This comin' from asexual fish, who husband is probably prowling pheromones at the local bar. lol!