virgo guy/ gem girl?

Even though we get along really well, do you think that it will work out in the long run?

OneSexy, I have been asking the same question myself and to the members of this board for the past year.

It seems like lots of work on both parts, but if you're serious, why not?

BTW, if you're asking this, it is either you've been together for a while and clearly have some doubts about him, or you've just started with him and you want a quick answer. Right?

We actually met on my b-day, May 29th of this year, but him and my sister went to school together. We haven't gotten that serious yet, but I think it may be getting there

I don't get to see him hardly that much because he is a WORKAHOLIC!

He works doubles like everyday!

OneSexyGem: Even though we get along really well, do you think that it will work out in the long run?

OneSexyGem, that's one hell of a question that I'd love an answer to as well. I'm with a Gem that I'm pretty into. Gfox has put up a lot of posts (Thanks Gfox!) talking about the Virgo + Gem connection. They pretty much say we're doomed but who am I to listen? 😛

Someone here gave a link for a compatiblity so I ran me and my gem through for giggles. Here was the result:
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Inter-planetary aspects

The following aspects between planets concern the possible relationships between two charts: especially the emotional and romantic relationship, but also aspects on social, intellectual and spiritual levels.

416 Conjunction Sun - Moon

Positive aspect: This is likely to be a significant relationship. There is a strong feeling of belonging to one another, for better or for worse, that keeps the two together. It's an excellent aspect for a union: they are made to go well together, to understand, appreciate, love and complement each other.

401 Conjunction Sun - Moon

Positive aspect: This is likely to be a significant relationship. There is a strong feeling of belonging to one another, for better or for worse, that keeps the two together. It's an excellent aspect for a union: they are made to go well together, to understand, appreciate, love and complement each other.

217 Conjunction Moon - Mars

Positive aspect: Great physical passion and, as with every passion of this type, things can get stormy and heated. However, most of the time, the storms are sexy and exciting. Very passionate aspect, as it promises feeling behind the physical act. They desire each other always. The physical relations between the two are enhanced with desire and warmth. Great passion that doesn't fizzle out.

192 Sextile Sun - Mercury

Positive aspect: They are able to solve problems when they put their heads together. Respect for each other's intelligence. Good understanding between the two persons and intellectual interests in common, the same type of curiosity.

-136 Square Sun - Neptune

Negative aspect: The Sun will probably suffer in this relationship. Neptune may deceive the other, lie, will promise a fantastic future that only exists in the imagination. Neptune will not be able to live up to these dreams.

(Cont...)

115 Conjunction Sun - Saturn

Positive aspect: Here is a couple you can call stable. They will lead their life together quietly, with friendship slowly replacing love. Saturn will dominate the Sun - as is only natural - but the Sun might find this difficult to accept. In any case, as the Sun likes to feel secure, Saturn is a perfect partner.

111 Conjunction Mercury - Saturn

Positive aspect: If Mercury is looking for a mother or father in the spouse, then this aspect is very favorable. Saturn will give a lot on the intellectual level and in life in general.

-94 Square Mars - Neptune

Negative aspect: It's too easy for this relationship to end up becoming manipulative and frustrating. You may find that you have a hard time accomplishing much on a practical level when you are together, because you tend to enjoy spending leisure time together.

83 Trine Mercury - Uranus

Positive aspect: No clouds in this couple's life. They have a good intellectual understanding, take pleasure in being together, in discussing and exchanging ideas.

77 Conjunction Venus - Saturn

Positive aspect: This union could be favorable and lasting, if Venus is really looking for a mature person to be with. There can be a certain level of self-consciousness together that is always present, no matter how long they are together. There is a lot of loyalty between them, and a feeling of responsibility for one another.

68 Sextile Jupiter - Uranus

Positive aspect: This union can be favorable, if the two mutually respect each other. They both like their independence, their freedom of thought and action.

67 Sextile Jupiter - Saturn

Positive aspect: A favorable union, a joyful family life, thanks to Saturn, this couple will never go lightly into any adventure but will work out and think through everything.

-64 Square Saturn - Uranus

Negative aspect: Challenging in terms of perspectives. There can be distinct times when they argue about restrictions on freedom.

62 Sextile Mars - Saturn

Positive aspect: A life together with few problems, love will develop into friendship, they will understand each other and go well together. It can be a little routine at times, and there is some self-consciousness with each other.

An indication that they will both be faithful.

56 Trine Mercury - Jupiter

Positive aspect: An ideal couple, prosperous, happy, good intellectual understanding, great confidence in each other, a successful family life.

(Cont...)

-50 Opposition Mars - Uranus

Negative aspect: They make each other impatient and easily frustrate each other. The sexual attraction is unique and powerful at first, seeming to arise suddenly and unexpectedly. However, it is a temperamental attraction and can leave just as suddenly. Erratic responses to each other.

-42 Opposition Jupiter - Uranus

Negative aspect: An unfavorable union, nothing in common.
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Mostly good stuff. A few dings but hey thats life 😛

Bottom line for me is this:
She's a pain in the ass. I'm stubborn as all hell. Our chemistry is amazing and we spend all our free time together.

Going back to the original question, Will it work out in the long run? No clue but its better than being "doomed from the start" heh.

I gave my thoughts about this on your other thread.

I'll reiterate .. "No" .. I don't think these two are compatible, for I don't believe their minds work "with" each other.

One is a conformist/adaptable, the other is not .. when it's relative to viewpoints.

"Our chemistry is amazing and we spend all our free time together."

Same exact situation

We click oh so well, and we always try to make time for each other

I was suppose to see him 2day, but yet again work got in the way of that

😢