Virgo guy/Scorpio girl. PLEASE HELP

Hello everyone!
So I'm a Scorpio girl, I met a Virgo guy at my new job about three months ago. I've found him attractive and interesting from our first conversation, but he is incredibly confusing. For the first month we barely talked one-on-one (and when we did it was job-related) but he was always very cordial and nice. We don't get to talk much at work because we work in completely different areas but when we run into each other he smiles and greets me and I think he lingers around. Recently though, we've walked to our cars (about a 10 minute walk) together a few times but always with some other people so he tries to make conversation with me but immediately stops when anyone else comes around. We have rarely gotten past small talk sadly and since our offices aren't close to each other I don't really have the option to say stuff like "Hey, did you see when??_" or "what did you think of??_" to initiate conversation.

I have noticed that everyone at works looks up at him, men and women. He's a great leader and he is incredibly smart, but he's not very talkative and kind of aloof. Because of this it is very hard to tell whether he's interested in me or not. He asked for my number a few days ago but he hasn't texted or called me once. He is just very intriguing to me, he keeps me on my toes and I, being a Scorpio, am obviously attracted to that.

So, can you give me some tips on how to figure out if he really is interested in me or is just being polite? Also, I don't mind taking the first step but I would like to have a clue as to how me might feel about me before doing it. How can I show him I'm interested in him?

Thank you so much for helping! 🙂

Don't make the first move it might scare him away and he might see you at a negative side by doing that. Let him lead the way, he's the man anyway. Let him initiate more. Always act like a true lady, refine and everything. Be patient, you will need lots of that. Be smart and polite most of the time. A subtle hint telling him that you are interested will do. Be a friend and make him relax in your presence.


That's all for now...

(come back when you're confuse or your heart was broken by the Virgo, I kid! 😉 )

IMO...if he was just being polite..he wouldnt have asked for your number (unless it was for work related things..I dont know what your job entails), but with that said...I'm sure he is analyzing if its a good idea to jump into an office romance etc.

You basically just met each other, and you should be focusing on your new job not some guy at the office. So chill out...

Do not change the way you've been acting towards him. Don't give off the vibe of "already wanting to date him" you will definitely scare him away!

Continue to communicate with him, ask him personable questions that one would normally ask when getting to know someone, he will eventually pick up interest and make the first move.

When he does you know you've got a chance. Don't go out of your way to do it first because if you had to do it then it means he's not ready, you will just shy him away.

::: shakes head :::

He likes you...sounds like me when I was younger. Especially the part where he stops talking when other people are around. To me it sounds like he's shy with women. So approaching women isn't something he does often. But he's found you interesting enough to try to make a move...in his own way. I was painfully shy when asking girls/women out, and if you don't understand the feeling, its very easy to confuse it for being aloof. I going to be the blacksheep and suggest you try to have lunch or something quick (coffee) etc...something that doesn't look like your asking him out.

He'll ask you out soon. Have patience, grasshopper. 😉

I'm married to a Scorp. Its a rocky but rewarding situation.

he'll text you soon. 😄 that's for sure.

You'll probably have to initiate - not setting up a date per se but give him enough signals. We're insecure people at first and we need to warm up before making any big moves. A scorpio friend of mine was getting frustrated with her virgo guy because he overanalysed too much and didn't act enough so I told her the only solution to stop her paranoia and his overthinking was for her to make a direct move.