Alice
@Diora_Capri
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Virgo guy too impulsive?
Lol so i take that its normal for virgo guys, thought so! I actually teased him a lot abt it and he kept insisting hw hes a one-woman type and he got upset whenever i implied hes a player lol still cnt take him seriously though! I guess he wont blow a gasket when i go out with a guy friend 😉 idk whats up w the stars bt theyve been kind with my social life🙂)
Hes told me that he has dated models, dated several hundred girls (though very loyal/one woman man), he was very open about his (sexual) attractions to me - at this point, all those just scream, "player" to me..yet I often catch him staring at me (longingly or creepily, I have yet to decide) at my profile, when Im talking to his friend, when were walking side by side, when Im talking to him (stared at my mouth/lips general area). He emailed me today saying hes been thinking about me over the weekend. I am officially out of the country and so will he this weekend. frankly, he is doing my head in! I knew I shouldve just ignored this guy but his willpower is too strong to be ignored haha help!
my profile as in when I turn sideways so he thought I couldnt see him looking at me..and when I turned to face him, he looked away and did the same thing again haha
He wants to fuck you
Posted by HungVirgo
He wants to fuck you
haha i knw,he told me. He nt tactful at all,saying that hed rather be honest w me. He also wants to be in a relationship w me. I like emotions and feelings and hes always been so..guarded? Despite him pursuing. Today he asked me abt work ideas! Haha! I dont have high hopes for him bt he sure intrigues me!
Having said that, I did notice little romantic things he did like walking me home, carrying my groceries for me, kissing me where I like to be kissed the most (forehead) and yes, the many kisses! At times I felt that these were calculated moves but it felt right and I guess we would have been great if were in the same country.
Im just not sure if the being absent from each others lives for now will work out in the end (though he has made plans to see me, I dont trust that he'll follow through) so how cn I let him down gently though? Cn virguys handle rejection ok?
The day after we met up for coffee,he told me that he wants to be my bf via text. I think d fact that i was to leave a week after spurred him to insanity. 3,4 days after that, he hinted in wanting me to invite him over. Apparently wining n dining isnt his style and he wants to prioritise..i cnt help bt think hes a player and when i pointed this out,he said he doesnt like players too and didnt appreciate being thought of as one.
I bluntly told him if sex is the only thing he wants frm me,he cn set up shop elsewhere,find other girls and to leave me alone etc. He persisted in d coming days,up til my last nite there, insisting that he wants to have a sexual,monogamous,long distance relationship w me.
My instinct radars telling me to nt take him seriously n to date other ppl,despite virguy's no open relationship policy. I dont trust him and I dnt want to invest in stg as flimsy as this.. So hw cn I broach ths subject to him? Or do I just ignore him n hope he'll get d msg? Hes a workaholic anyway,surely he wont notice me gone?
I bluntly told him if sex is the only thing he wants frm me,he cn set up shop elsewhere,find other girls and to leave me alone etc. He persisted in d coming days,up til my last nite there, insisting that he wants to have a sexual,monogamous,long distance relationship w me.
My instinct radars telling me to nt take him seriously n to date other ppl,despite virguy's no open relationship policy. I dont trust him and I dnt want to invest in stg as flimsy as this.. So hw cn I broach ths subject to him? Or do I just ignore him n hope he'll get d msg? Hes a workaholic anyway,surely he wont notice me gone?
YOU'RE A HOT CAPRI. @_@
Posted by firebunny
YOU'RE A HOT CAPRI. @_@
why, thank you for saying so..I wouldve preferred an FWB situation, considering the circumstances.. why would he insist on being in a relationship? I find that really odd..so, sorry for harping on but Id like to know opinions on whether I should have no contact with him whatsoever in order for him to leave me alone? He thinks we are bf and gf now, which is cute but not realistic enough for me..
This all sounds like game I've ran before. btw only players act super offended when women call them players. Other guys will just take it as a compliment. Tell him you rather just be fwb's and see if that he wants a relationship talk doesn't disappear fast
Posted by sunnyvirgo83Posted by Diora_Capri
The day after we met up for coffee,he told me that he wants to be my bf via text. I think d fact that i was to leave a week after spurred him to insanity. 3,4 days after that, he hinted in wanting me to invite him over. Apparently wining n dining isnt his style and he wants to prioritise..i cnt help bt think hes a player and when i pointed this out,he said he doesnt like players too and didnt appreciate being thought of as one.
I bluntly told him if sex is the only thing he wants frm me,he cn set up shop elsewhere,find other girls and to leave me alone etc. He persisted in d coming days,up til my last nite there, insisting that he wants to have a sexual,monogamous,long distance relationship w me.
My instinct radars telling me to nt take him seriously n to date other ppl,despite virguy's no open relationship policy. I dont trust him and I dnt want to invest in stg as flimsy as this.. So hw cn I broach ths subject to him? Or do I just ignore him n hope he'll get d msg? Hes a workaholic anyway,surely he wont notice me gone?
Tell him he smells like fish and have a small penis if he has texted you a penis picture. No, he wont notice your gone he wont care. Especailly if you didn't sleep with him. He wont care, he has thousands of women. Come on what is he Han Solo?? Even Han Solo was loyal to Leah. this isn't rocket science, he wants your cookie. Tell him to go get one of those manginas...lol
Posted by HungVirgo
This all sounds like game I've ran before. btw only players act super offended when women call them players. Other guys will just take it as a compliment. Tell him you rather just be fwb's and see if that he wants a relationship talk doesn't disappear fastclick to expand
Thanks so much for your support! I dont know why but I needed reassurance! Ive basically told him to leave me alone by stroking his ego, saying hes too good for me and that he should forget about me and find somebody else haha
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