Question for the virgo males

Is it okay for you to occasionally say small comments to your mates to impress them about other girls while your girlfriend is also in the conversation? even though your girlfriend has asked you in the past not to do it in front of her because she finds it to be disrespectful?

Also, if you know you are wrong, do you say sorry? or do you think it's okay to say these things in front of your girlfriend because you think its better then saying it behind her back and because you know you would never actually do anything because you are loyal, does it make it okay?

Its best not to take it too seriously, we talk a lot and sometimes we just spout the most random, flaky stuff. Thats just who we are.

yeah i agree, i try not to take things to seriously, but the fact i have asked him not to do it while im there is disrespectful. his response was "i dont see anythign wrong with it and i would do it again".

umm, okay then.

Posted by scorpio24
yeah i agree, i try not to take things to seriously, but the fact i have asked him not to do it while im there is disrespectful. his response was "i dont see anythign wrong with it and i would do it again".

umm, okay then.

I think it's very disrespectful. However, a Virgo man will never think so. It's apart of their nature. BS...

After we've been with somebody for a while, the relationship evolves and we become more and more "buddies" with our darlings, so this might be why he thinks there is nothing wrong with it, he feels he can be as free in his speech as he wishes, which is not a bad thing..if there is one thing we cant stand is to feel like we have to walk on eggshells not to say the "wrong" thing.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
After we've been with somebody for a while, the relationship evolves and we become more and more "buddies" with our darlings, so this might be why he thinks there is nothing wrong with it, he feels he can be as free in his speech as he wishes, which is not a bad thing..if there is one thing we cant stand is to feel like we have to walk on eggshells not to say the "wrong" thing.

hmmm makes sense! thanks 🙂

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
After we've been with somebody for a while, the relationship evolves and we become more and more "buddies" with our darlings, so this might be why he thinks there is nothing wrong with it, he feels he can be as free in his speech as he wishes, which is not a bad thing..if there is one thing we cant stand is to feel like we have to walk on eggshells not to say the "wrong" thing.

No one wants to feel like they have to walk on eggshells in a relationship.

So, instead of you having some fucking honor in choosing not to accept this ..... you turn it around to come in here to pretend it's his responsibility.

You're with him, and you've stated that you've expressed not liking it ... but, you're still with him, so the only person you have to blame is yourself.

Of course, though, if you had some dignity .. then what would you have to bitch about?

Actions speak louder than words, so your words are nothing except utter bullshit, considering you're still standing there to take it.

Of course, it's you I'm talking to, so I don't expect you to have a lick of any kind of sense to be able to actually grasp the concept that YOU are your own director in life.

Posted by Datariesgirl
Once my Virgo love became really comfortable with me, he would mention things about past relationships, but it was never anything disrespectful. What exactly did he say?

the first time it happened he was quite drunk (not an excuse) but we were with all our guy friends and they were talking about one girl in particular who i already knew about that he slept with a couple of times way before he was with me. i didnt really care to begin with but he crossed the line and went too far with what he was saying to all our friends cause he was going too into detail and saying how hot she was. i stayed calm, but walked away cause it was disrespectful, he came literally running after me and apologied and admitted he was wrong and then again the next day when he was sober he apologised.

but last night it wasnt as bad, it was just us and our guy friend talking about one of his friends and how beautiful his fiance is, and i was agreeing, cause she is really stunning. and then he said to the house mate "one time ages ago, she told me that if she wasnt with andy she would give me a crack" i wasnt that bothered by it, but later when it was just us 2 i told him i dont like being there when he tells his friends that kind of stuff coz i feel its very disrespectful. also, he admitted to me that he had changed the context of how she said it in order to impress our friend. it really pissed me off, because why does he need to use an example of another girl to impress him? WHILE I AM THERE?. anyway it's all sorted now, he said to me in a text message just before "i admitt i went too far last time, but what i said lastnight was not bad at all and i dont like being one person to my friends and another to you, thats fake"

i see where he is coming from i guess, but in my eyes its still disrespectful.

Posted by scorpio24

anyway it's all sorted now .....

Truly, I am unclear what has happened to mankind ... seems like people are reverting back to stupid.

It's not "sorted now" ... it's simply been another episode of him displaying his character, and you aren't of smart enough mind to grasp that.

And I meant it as actually being "simply"

Posted by scorpio24

the first time it happened ......

is when you were suppose to have some fucking integrity and walk away .... instead, you stayed by choice which means you deserve everything you get.

And there's no doubt in my mind that you have no clue what I'm saying .... because if you were able to figure it out, you would have.

Instead, you think it's been worked out ....

:::: shakes head ::::

I'm not sure why people are reverting back to stupid ... maybe the earth is tilting too far on its axis, or maybe it's just you

It appears to me as thought the responders are as stupid as the OP.

Sounds like the guy is immature and insecure and must be wanted by lots of women to appear manly and accepted by his friends at the expense of the one who loves him now.

Maybe come up with a comeback next time that will put him in his place.

Him: "she'd give me a crack"
You: "yeah a crack across the nose!"
Everyone laughs!

Oh Lawwwwrd ... So true!

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Its best not to take it too seriously, we talk a lot and sometimes we just spout the most random, flaky stuff. Thats just who we are.

Posted by P-Angel

It appears to me as thought the responders are as stupid as the OP.

Appears to you as 'thought?'

And everyone in this thread except for you are stupid?

Now, that's funny. lol

Sometimes, I will blurt out things, but I am rarely disrespectful. Highly sarcastic, yes.