Virgo Man: unique experience. Help Pls!!

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BeachyWaves123
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Hi. Thanks to all who read....
So I met my virgo guy early this year. Things became very hot and heavy early on. I am in my 20s, but I lost my virginity to him-I was ready and I felt a spiritual connection. Afterwards, I got scared and told him I was looking for a relationship and if he is not, he should find someone else. He stayed.
He's in the entertainment world and he was going through a rough time financially but his apt was 2500 a month in Cali so I was confused. I complained that he never took me anywhere so once in a while we d would go.
Flash forward, I got preggo. He tried to disappear, but I wasn't about to let that happen. He pressured me into an abortion. As I was healing he kept coming to me with sob stories about how the label didnt pay him. Under duress I gave him some money.
After we had a small (ceremonial) funeral for the baby he just slowly began to back away. He later asked me to sell a fake social security number to my relative. Please don't ask me why. When we were discussing the clinic I said they probably check my social ( I was thinking of my medical insurance when I said that). Perhaps that's what sparked this scam? I know he paid attention to every word in text Going so far as to mimic my words and say them back to me.
So I'm here, out $ , dead baby, and hes buying new furniture and feeding whores on my dime.
Do they all lie like this? What's the point?!
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Posted by BeachyWaves123
Hi. Thanks to all who read....
So I met my virgo guy early this year. Things became very hot and heavy early on. I am in my 20s, but I lost my virginity to him-I was ready and I felt a spiritual connection. Afterwards, I got scared and told him I was looking for a relationship and if he is not, he should find someone else. He stayed.
He's in the entertainment world and he was going through a rough time financially but his apt was 2500 a month in Cali so I was confused. I complained that he never took me anywhere so once in a while we d would go.
Flash forward, I got preggo. He tried to disappear, but I wasn't about to let that happen. He pressured me into an abortion. As I was healing he kept coming to me with sob stories about how the label didnt pay him. Under duress I gave him some money.
After we had a small (ceremonial) funeral for the baby he just slowly began to back away. He later asked me to sell a fake social security number to my relative. Please don't ask me why. When we were discussing the clinic I said they probably check my social ( I was thinking of my medical insurance when I said that). Perhaps that's what sparked this scam? I know he paid attention to every word in text Going so far as to mimic my words and say them back to me.
So I'm here, out $ , dead baby, and hes buying new furniture and feeding whores on my dime.
Do they all lie like this? What's the point?!
Don't blame him...just blame the "spiritual connection."
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LetltB
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Posted by BeachyWaves123
Don't blame him...just blame the "spiritual connection."



Did you come here to offer advice or make fun of me? Please leave.



Make fun of you? Absolutely not. Call it sarcasm. You take NO responsibility for your choices. You say you spread your legs to a man based on a spiritual connection. Look where the hell that got you. Maybe next time use your brains, logic and common sense. Did your parents teach you what responsibility is?
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BeachyWaves123
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10 Years

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Posted by BeachyWaves123
Don't blame him...just blame the "spiritual connection."
Did you come here to offer advice or make fun of me? Please leave.



Make fun of you? Absolutely not. Call it sarcasm. You take NO responsibility for your choices. You say you spread your legs to a man based on a spiritual connection. Look where the hell that got you. Maybe next time use your brains, logic and common sense. Did your parents teach you what responsibility is?
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I do take responsibility. As I said, I was a Virgin with limited experience and come from a very sheltered environment. Perhaps that is why I was so quick to ignore red flags. But there is a difference between mistakes based on inexperience and perhaps naivite and those made from calculated moves. I feel this is the same as blaming the victim in a rape case. I did not ask to be robbed. I was in emotional distress and made a mistake. I was exploited. Did your parents teach you empathy?
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It doesn't look to me like a lesson has been learned.


She didn't come here for advice ... she came here for validation, so she can ignore the fact that she's fucked up. That should be obvious, since she snapped back at people in here who didn't even attack her.


when face with real truth .... she becomes bitter, and treats the people talking to her like shit.



Considering two things:

1. Virgos can see right through
2. she can't handle real talk

...... any/all Virgos will take the pussy she offered up without strings attached, and then dump her off at the nearest corner ... because any woman who can't handle real talk has no worth to a Virgo, except as a cum dumpster.


Maybe she will gain some decency, maybe not ...... but, so long as she is in denial, she'll never learn anything from this.
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BeachyWaves123
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Posted by P-Angel

It doesn't look to me like a lesson has been learned.


She didn't come here for advice ... she came here for validation, so she can ignore the fact that she's fucked up. That should be obvious, since she snapped back at people in here who didn't even attack her.


when face with real truth .... she becomes bitter, and treats the people talking to her like shit.



Considering two things:

1. Virgos can see right through
2. she can't handle real talk

...... any/all Virgos will take the pussy she offered up without strings attached, and then dump her off at the nearest corner ... because any woman who can't handle real talk has no worth to a Virgo, except as a cum dumpster.


Maybe she will gain some decency, maybe not ...... but, so long as she is in denial, she'll never learn anything from this.
What validation would I need exactly? Real talk? I actually didn't snap back but instead offered more insight into the situation-from my side. Do you think you are offering real talk? I specifically stated that I was lead on. Here's some real talk for you: you are clearly a sociopath looking for some form of attention on the Internet. I guarantee you if we exchange photos you will never in your life be able to reach my kitty. Probably some 60yr old fat ass who could never get chicks and sits on the Internet all day projecting his failures onto others. Your mother was clearly a cum dumpster as well since you are such s piece of garbage, enjoy jerking off for the rest of your life. Do not come into my thread again. Don't come for me unless I send for you.
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BeachyWaves123
@BeachyWaves123
10 Years

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Posted by P-Angel

It doesn't look to me like a lesson has been learned.


She didn't come here for advice ... she came here for validation, so she can ignore the fact that she's fucked up. That should be obvious, since she snapped back at people in here who didn't even attack her.


when face with real truth .... she becomes bitter, and treats the people talking to her like shit.



Considering two things:

1. Virgos can see right through
2. she can't handle real talk

...... any/all Virgos will take the pussy she offered up without strings attached, and then dump her off at the nearest corner ... because any woman who can't handle real talk has no worth to a Virgo, except as a cum dumpster.


Maybe she will gain some decency, maybe not ...... but, so long as she is in denial, she'll never learn anything from this.
I see you are actually a 56yr old deranged female. I've read your other replies. Sorry you lost your chance for children but what man could stand you? Is there a block button here?!